Lunch Time Today -- True Story!  

BenefitsFriend69 57M/60F
1008 posts
8/23/2005 12:24 pm

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Lunch Time Today -- True Story!

So, I had some errands to run at lunch today. Bank, post office, you know.. I get done and stop at the Panda (fast Chinese food) place near my house. It’s a gorgeous day outside, so I get my stuff and go out on the patio where there are a bunch of chairs. No one is out there, and there’s a great view of Pikes Peak in the background. Ah, I think, nice peaceful lunch.

I start on the egg roll, and out walks a nice looking black woman, about my age. Braided hair, very sexy walk. She’s wearing those jeans the teenagers wear these days: faded, low cut to the hips, and you can see the tops of her dark red panties from the back. She has a one of those in-between assess: not too big, not too small but round and pronounced. Her breasts are in proportion to her build–nice and pushed up by her bra. She has a short sleeved shirt on, but I can see the outline of her nipples through her bra. They are the big, round variety. No wedding ring but some other nice, simple jewelry. I can’t help but check her out, and she notices and doesn’t seem to mind.

There are loads of empty tables, and she sits right next to me and smiles. I smile, say, “hi, how’s it going, gorgeous day isn’t it?” (Yeah tacky-ass cliché but what can I say?) We strike up a conversation. She’s carrying a book called “Simple Abundance” by Sarah Ban Breathnach (one that I’ve read many times), so the conversation goes right to that. Turns out were practically neighbors, and are into some of the same metaphysical things. Chemistry, bam! Or at least for me. Now, I have always loved black people, have had and do have loads of lovely friends, and have learned a lot from my fellow humans in that culture. But, I’ve never been that attracted to black women, per se, sexually. However, my mind is always open….

We have a pleasant chat, and I could feel the vibes underneath. Or was it just my dick vibin’ on its own, as it always does, even when the wind blows? Or like Eddy Murphy would say, “When Benefitsfriend69 comes to my house, the fish stop swimmin’!” Hmm.. Am I reading more into the situation than is there? My mind is going round and round (so much for meditation lol!). Is she just being friendly? Is she just bored and wants to pass the time at lunch? If so why did she sit right next to me? After all, she has a book. She smells nice too, is that opium? Why does she smile more and give me “that eye” when she busts me (pun lol) looking down? Is she into skinny assed white guys like me, is that even an issue here? How horny AM I? If I take this further am I being an asshole, will I get shot down? Should I even bother?

We finish eating. I decide not to pursue; she doesn’t need some asshole guy hitting on her at lunch, and why can’t a woman just be friendly to a guy without him wanting to fuck her? Men, shit, why can’t you leave us the hell alone! We had talked about manifesting and spiritual stuff during lunch. She says, “You know, I believe in asking for what you want in life. I think you do too. So, you gotta go back to work?” I say, “no, nothing that pressing. Do you?” She says, “No, I’m off today. Wanna come over and have a glass of wine and continue this conversation?”

TRUE STORY! I am not making this up! Wow, this has never happened to me… Maybe I should buy some lotto tickets today!!


rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
8/23/2005 3:03 pm

woohooo! that sounds fabulous ...!!!



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ruready4adark1 56M

8/23/2005 10:39 pm

I think I'm gonna buy some lotto tickets and hope some of that rubs off on me! Reminds me of one night in Hollywood, California. It was 1985, and right off Hollywood Blvd there is/was a Panda (the only similarity in our story I'm afraid) where I went for takeout and ended up bringing home a sweet little miss who was down on her luck and wondering if I would share my shrimp fried rice. She turned out to be a runaway and I was able to help her see the good in returning home until she was able to support herself in a way that wouldn't have her begging on the streets. Sweet kid. I'm glad I was the one who met her and not some pervert, pimp, or pornographer. Well, I was actually all of those things in some form back then, but not that night.

Enough about me. Benefits, great story. Great experience! I know what you're saying about pursue or not. It always seems I have these fits of correctness when the alternative is tugging at my jeans.


rm_sj365 55F
2414 posts
8/24/2005 7:50 am

yeah yeah yeah..lotto tickets, angst over should I or shouldnt I...get to the good stuff!

Seriously G..nice post... making me think about opportunities & how they present themselves...how we do or dont respond...hmmm I feel a rant coming on.


BenefitsFriend69 57M/60F

8/24/2005 4:23 pm

Hey ru, thanks for stopping by!

I struggle constantly with the "pursue or not to pursue." You can just never tell with most women. (Most, not you sj!). They can seem friendly, but that doesn't mean they are interested in anything else. Or they can seem totally uninterested, and not be at all. They can flirt with no intention of wanting to know you, or they can be cold and want you to approach them badly.. Blends nicely with the opportunity subject you raise sj.

How do we know? How can we? Ah, my next blog!


PailsDiverHonks 55F

8/24/2005 7:00 pm

Well??? did you go?


BenefitsFriend69 57M/60F

8/25/2005 8:25 am

sj and greeneyes.. I'll never tell! A boy's gotta have his secrets..


ruready4adark1 56M

8/25/2005 9:08 pm

I love secrets... and oh, I bought a lottery ticket just in case some on that rubs off and I actually got 2 numbers. No, not 6 and 9.

I think men who are the most successful at meeting women are those who are willing to not know the answers and still be willing to be shot down, slapped, drink thrown in face, and laughed at for thinking they have a chance. I am such a man. I've been laughed at, looked up and down, shot down, (almost) slapped, and had a drink thrown in my face when I suggested it was close to closing time and she better pick someone or go home alone. I was drunk at the time. Bad idea. Bad.


BenefitsFriend69 57M/60F

8/26/2005 12:01 am

Heh heh ru... Sounds like we may have had some similar experiences that fall under the category "police suspect alcohol was involved." I agree, I stopped caring what people think about me a long time ago. You gotta ask for what you want in life, and worry about it later... I certaninly do!


BenefitsFriend69 57M/60F

8/29/2005 6:19 pm

If I said no, I didn't go for it, would y'all think I' gay?


BenefitsFriend69 57M/60F

8/29/2005 6:19 pm

If I said no, I didn't go for it, would y'all think I'm gay?


BenefitsFriend69 57M/60F

8/29/2005 9:50 pm

Okay.. If I said I didn't go for it, would y'all think I'm gay?


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