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Blog, My ASS!
Blog, My ASS!
Well, this is my first post! What do I write? I ma so full of so many different things I don't know where to start.... do I write a sex story like all others....one that is full of bullshit like most other mens? Do I talk about wants and needs and desires?
What do WOMEN want to read about from a guy? HONEST guy. What would you like to know if you could ask a guy and know you werwe going to get a no bullshit answer because he wants nothing from you. He doesnt want to meet you. He wants nothing. Just to talk.... vent.....help someone.... and talk!
Am I gay, your probably wondering.... Nope, that would probably make my life too easy! BUT....... I am OPEN and into all kinds of stuff. Some you might find "weird", "gross" or out there, but I am not one who cares a lot what people think about that kind of stuff. I do what I like with a partner I am with and am not one of those guys who lies or hides the "kinks" or fetishes from his partner. If I cannot be myself then what is the pint of being in a relationship with that certain someone? ( Hey, maybe THIS is why I'm single!) No...seriously..... IM not into the one night shit.....I dont judge anyone who is.....but as for me I like to know someone REAL good and have them know me also, because so much of sex is in the head if you know what i mean.....if I know your wants and true desires.... if I know what makes you go completely crazy, then I can give you the best sex you ever had.....and if you know those things about me also..... then you can do the same. I'm not oone to be having sex and thinking about things I can't voice to my partner! SO many guys have fetishes and fantasies and they keep them to themsleves because they are afraid to share them with their partner, or simply ecaseu in some cases they know their partner is so closed minded they would freak out. LIke if a guy has a foot fetish and wants to suck his gf's toes.... some girls would freak and say thats gross! Well.... girls.... THIS is one reason (not a valid one but a reason still) that your guy is out at strip clubs or finding some girl who will let him do these things.... its all about COMPROMISE..... I have found.... that if I am good to my partner....GF.... that she is willing to do about anything to please me. I always go out of my way to try to find out any "special likes" she may have and to fulfill them as good as I can.... NOTHING is off limits to me if I am in love! I find when I treat her like this, that she gives it back 500 per cent!
I do admit however...and have been told by all my ex's............. that most guys are not like me. That I am just so different. I always hear that i am easy and fin to talk to also for some reason. My guess is because I ENCOURAGE kinky and unusual behaviour! No.... I think its because I dont ever say...... You slut.... you want what?????? And I never will, because I have my "kinks" too and do not want them to judge ME.
So.............. what does anyone think about my first post?