BaronessK 52F
1646 posts
6/18/2006 3:50 am

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He was {and still is} indescribable. So I try to explain, sometimes {badly I think}, what he was 'like'.

He was {and still is} irresistibly lovable. He's been dead for almost 19 years, yet his memory is there for me {and for those who never got to meet him}.

He wanted, unlike most men, for a daughter more than a son. I was his second child, his first daughter, and was more than a son or a daughter to him always.

I was his 'Princess'; he was my father...and 'tho I am almost 42 years old, he is still my 'Daddy'....

rm_cru1972 44M
4407 posts
6/18/2006 8:32 am

Such a wonderful post

BaronessK 52F

6/18/2006 12:07 pm

Thank you, cru...but I feel like I don't ever do him 'justice' when I talk about him. No matter what I say, it's one of those, "You just had to have been there....".

Oh! Thanks for stopping by -- are you Yin or Yang today?

wildoats19622 54M
3483 posts
6/19/2006 11:33 am

I'm glad you have the memories. I have mine too. I look so much like my dad it's uncanny. I see him in my drivers license photo in particular. I didn't have a mustache then. He didn't let his grow out to a beard or mustache.


Crosswords increase your vocabulary. Cross words increase your blood pressure.

rm_anacortes 74M
2850 posts
6/19/2006 7:17 pm

I have one "child"; one daughter..

Thanks for your lovely post..

I am thankful for my blessings like having a daughter...

BaronessK 52F

6/19/2006 11:42 pm

I have the memories; now if I had the words.... Mother claims I look like her but act like him -- actually, I look like my father's mother {and damn glad of it, looking like DeDa and acting/thinking like Daddy}. Razor burn, ahhhh *giggle*...that's my Daddy! Wet willies and jumping up/smacking his ass/landing and laughing...y'all just had to be there!

BaronessK 52F

6/19/2006 11:51 pm

Mother says I was young, but that I was NEVER a 'child' of the very few things she has ever been right about.... I miss Daddy, especially more so when I am trying to tell my sons about their grandfather; he was and is indescribable.

skyking412004 53M
5363 posts
6/20/2006 6:03 am

_____There seems to be a special love between a good father and his daughter. That was touching.

BaronessK 52F

6/20/2006 1:43 pm

He wasn't the 'greatest' in he wasn't {couldn't be there...but he was 'there'...and still is}; he was, and is, the greatest to me, always....

intierzha 43M

6/21/2006 12:55 am

I haven't had kids yet (nor do I expect to), but I helped alot (emphasis on alot) with my siblings, especially the youngest, who just had her first child, and the first grandkid for my dad. (Finally making me an uncle... I have two young cousins that refer to me as such, but this is finally official Still, there is such an underlying sadness to Father's Day in my family that I almost want to ignore it, just like parts of December and January. He thinks about his dad and my brother alot on those days, and while it has been almost 10 years now, it's still hard for him. I can't imagine how hard, nor do I want to. Me, when I think of them it is now more like how you remember your father. It's always better that way.


BaronessK 52F

6/21/2006 3:12 am

Especially, mzhuny, when you know that he WANTED a girl {female}.... He called me that...Princess. He was a prince, a King among men....

{Unforgettable: version with Nat King Cole and Natalie Cole, his daughter of course}

Unforgettable, that's what you are
Unforgettable, thought near or far
Like a song of love that climbs to me
Is the thought of you that stings to me
Never before
Has someone been more
Unforgettable, in every way
And forever more, that's how you stay
That's why, darling, it's incredible
That someone so unforgettable
Thinks that I am
Unforgettable too
No, never before
Has someone been more
Unforgettable, in every way
And forever more, that's how you stay
That's why, darling, it's incredible
That someone so unforgettable
Thinks that I am
Unforgettable too

BaronessK 52F

6/21/2006 3:16 am

intierzha, now...what do I do about the mother {look, I learned half a word...!}? Never mind..rhetorical anyway...I've already booby trapped her assisted living facility....

lightswitch1963 68M/53F

6/21/2006 2:09 pm

Mr l here iam 58 and lost my father when i was 16.....i still miss him. Good post.........Too many had bad's good to hear a story of the good dads........wish there was many more.......see ya in blog land..........

We'll leave the light on for you..............

BaronessK 52F

6/21/2006 11:23 pm

I almost think of it as 'There but for the Grace of God'...although with my mother {look, dear, she learned half a word!} it definitely 'balanced' {and then some}. OTOH, if mother hadn't been such a psychotic bitch, who knows if I would have been as strong as I am {although I do believe a lot of it is genetics, foremost}. As an infant, a child, a teenager, an 'adult''s always too soon....

*Where are my manners?! Thanks for the light, and the post....*

brute472 74M
3480 posts
6/25/2006 2:14 am

This is the first time I have come across your blog so in advance I apologise for posting so late.
I too am one of the men who loves their daughter and when we planned to have a family I always said if the baby wasn't a girl it was going straight back.
But I am lucky I have my princess and best friend and she is now almost 17.

BaronessK 52F

6/25/2006 4:02 am

Well, brute, someone has to be 'not first', right? I have actually slowed down, quite a bit, on posting {was doing the mzhuny posting thing once a day...or more, in my case; semi-hiatus here and there now, so I have time to READ blogs, other than my own}.

Your daughter is lucky; may you both have each other, in this world, for many years to come.

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