Blowing is not a job...and it doesn't need hands...!  

BaronessK 52F
1646 posts
7/20/2006 7:34 am

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Blowing is not a job...and it doesn't need hands...!


First off, I am making a royal decree that I will no longer call a "blowjob" that...because it's not. Blowing a guy {especially when it's done right, and therefore includes blowing his mind at the same time} is not a 'job'. It can be a pleasure, erotic, kinky, loving, sensual, and a host of other feelings...but it has never been, for me, a 'job'...although maybe an avocation {a job you don't get paid for, more like a hobby that you like to do full time, that you would be willing to pay to do!}.

In fact, it's not 'blowing' at all, anyway! It's sucking...and licking, and tonguing, and nibbling, and playing, and...making me horny talking about it! But what to call it, instead, other than that or fellatio? Licking a stick sounds too juvenile! Oralizing...hmmmm...now that might could work!

I was asked recently when the first time ever was that I oralized. I had to think about it...a long time, actually...because it's been such a part {a natural part} of my sexuality for so long. I didn't really date until I turned 18, and I was a virgin {intercourse wise} until then. The couple or so guys that I hung around with in any kind of sexual way thought that kissing was the ultimate; I don't remember being felt up hardly or even kissed that much {with the ones that did kiss me being rather bad at it!}.

My junior year in high school my aunt from Chicago came to Georgia to visit her sister {my mother}. My sister was dating a guy from our school who lived in a local trailer park; a trailer park that rented lots for travel trailers as well. There was a sub-contractor from some other part of Georgia who was staying there in his travel trailer; my aunt was 'dating' this guy...and trying to work around the guy's roommate {his nephew}. The nephew looked like a young Paul McCartney of the Beatles.

I was busy with accelerated classes in school, and their English term paper specifically, but on a rare break from all that my aunt took me to meet the guy's nephew. Then my aunt and the boy's uncle took off to where ever. I borrowed the boy's cap, put my hair up in it, and offered him a back massage; after all, he was in construction, worked hard, and had long days. {Giving massages also relaxes, resets my fingers from all that writing and typing.} I know I keep saying boy {I'm horrible at names, although I can tell you from memory all about his personality and looks}, but he was actually at least 18.

I don't remember what led to him taking his pants off {being alone somewhere with a female, probably! }, but I definitely remember my first close up look at a real penis. It looked odd {they all do}, but fascinating. I automatically assumed that I was supposed to put my mouth on it. Why? I did read a lot; maybe I had read about oral sex. At any rate, in less than 5 minutes, I had him shooting. I must be a very visual person to do that first time out just from reading!

I also definitely remember now that he never even tried to 'reciprocate'...the wanker! They were finished with their job in that area soon after, and I never saw him again. Fast forward to having been moved from Georgia to Alabama during the summer going into my senior year, and once again I was a stranger in a strange place just wanting to graduate and get out of school.

Mother hired a local kid to help dig back the yard to shore it up with cinder blocks where it sloped so badly. I was always doing house and yard work so I helped him when I could. One night, with the stars shining out, we sat on the open tailgate of a pickup truck parked in front of my house. We were talking about nothing in particular when it came to me to ask him if he was chicken, scared of girls, didn't like girls or what. I was 18 by then, and out of school; I could become interested and concentrate on other things then.

Still, it was me that kissed him first, not the other way around; odd, considering I'm not that aggressive sexually {inventive and energetic, yes}. A while later, maybe a couple of days or so, mother was away from the house again as usual and S and I ended up in my bedroom with the king-sized bed. We kissed, and again I naturally went for giving oral sex. This time I didn't get the chance to swallow {yes, I automatically did that from the start} because it progressed to actual intercourse. He was my first...and up there with my top whatever worst! {You are VERY bad when even a VIRGIN can tell, okay?! }

He didn't ask if I was a virgin, although I had indicated I was, and although I was also not that wet he basically started sex like I had done it before. No, I didn't come; he did not perform oral sex on me, either. Come to think back, he never did perform oral on me at all, at any time. It was the friend of his, after we broke up, that I gave the oralization to in the hospital room {mentioned in a previous posting}. THAT guy, W, knew the male equivalent of Kegel...nice!

Maybe the reason I never go into much detail with my earlier 'partners' is because they were not that {partners}. For the most part they should have known much more about the female body at their age{s}; they should have known how to try to please a woman back. Considering all that, perhaps that is why I liked oralization so much from the start...if they were not going to even attempt to get me off, then why bother with intercourse in what would end in a futile attempt to get off {for me}. That, and it's really cool to see a guy's expression change like that, with their eyes crossing and everything!

There was one gentleman, when I turned 19...I picked him up in a bar! He was having a birthday {his 50th} coming up, and he was down in the dumps. Keep in mind that not only was he still in excellent shape for his age, he 'chatted' me up in a way that made me know that he thought of me a woman {versus a childish airhead, regardless of my age}. When we got back to my house, I undressed him...and my mouth dropped open {in surprise, at first, not readiness! }. I have never seen anyone that big around {although the JRA, who I met coming home from the USMC, was really close!}; he was long, too, probably around 8 inches, but the girth of the 'monster' was over the size of a normal drink/glass coaster!

My first words were, "You don't get laid much, do you horsey? You could cripple a gal in so many ways with that thing!" I don't know what he answered {I don't think anything} because I automatically proceeded to 'meet the challenge'. I have small teeth, in a small mouth, and no gag reflex...but he was BIG. After a few moments, I asked him to lay down on the bed, on his stomach. I wanted to totally relax him first, by massaging him from his scalp to his toes. Once I felt all his muscles, there, relax, I rolled him over onto his back to start doing the same for his front {starting with his scalp, skipping the 'monster', going down to his toes in the front}.

He is softly singing {wonderful singing voice} to Richie's "Hello"...until I zeroed back up and onto his still semi-hard organ by starting to lick his inner thighs, balls, and up and down his shaft until he was nice, wet, and slick from the 'eye' to his sacks. One more lick up the front of his shaft after nibbling around and around, a couple of slow licks to the 'eye', a few more swirls around the underneath of the ridge, then my mouth strained to widen to take the mushroom all between my lips as my tongue swirled around. He said later that I purred in pleasure as I worked the head then most of the shaft into my mouth almost right off. I did hear his intake of breath and the soft moans he began to make.

I remember thinking that it just didn't get any better than that...a willing male, experienced enough to know not to try to deep throat me {as I will, in my own time, way, and rythm} but at the same time to not be afraid of moving, showing his pleasure, letting me feel his signals. One who will let me 'play'...which I did, slowly, faster, slowing down, rotating and playing and exploring for about 45 minutes. Licks, sucks, nibbles, around and up and down his shaft, engulfing his balls into my mouth, licking below at that ever sensitive ridge there {before I learned to ask and/or know the male well enough to know whether he wanted his 'salad tossed'! } and then back up the line to his 'eye'. My head was bobbing and moving with my mouth and lips, my hands supporting my body over him to give me all the access that I needed and wanted. My nipples were so sensitive from being rubbed against his leg hairs on my downthrusts in taking him deep into my mouth. At that point whether he was too excited or he though my mouth might be giving out {I was tiring, just a bit, because of his girth}, my tongue got in a last swipe upward as he pulled me on top of him.

And, since this post is about oralization, and not intercourse...the story ends here! He was gentle, and caring, and careful, and sexy, and willing, and hot.... So, this posting should answer my emailer, my promise to the Oral Fixation Group {and Daighi} to post something about it all, and my need to talk about sex every now and then!

Having said that...yes, I have an 'oral fixation'...and, yes, you will NEVER get to feel it in person if you are 99.999% of the male population! I have been told I was better than the ex-hooker that he dated after me. I don't have to be told that much, that I am that 'good'...because I KNOW it. I enjoy doing it; so much that, if I don't get to do oralization, then I feel 'gypped'. Oh, not to swallow every time, but time to play and explore and enjoy myself {and make the experience the same for him}. I also rarely use my hands for more than propping myself over the guy, although there are times, exceptions, and whatever.

Now, I have also been asked if I thought women gave better oralization than other men; yes, I do {and this has been confirmed, having many gay and bisexual male friends}. As for my sexual orientation, I am not gay {I definitely like guys} and I am not bi-sexual {because while I can see/understand why a female is attractive to someone that does not mean that the female is attractive to me in 'that' way}. I am not bi-curious, because that would mean I had never done anything that would give me a true indication of whether I could find another woman sexually attractive to me; I did cause her to 'squirt', so my oral skills do transfer, but other than that that is as far as my interest went in the whole situation {beyond confirming that I was not bi-sexual}.


Now, in 'honor' of the 'monster' {although I have consciously since then went after bigger sized bodies and smaller sized privates in guys}...I would like to post one of my favorite songs. I saw it performed by Tim Curry himself {on Saturday Night Live, I believe}.

The Zucchini Song -- Tim Curry

Now down the road there lives a man I'd like you all to know.
He grew a big zucchini for the local flower show
And when the story got around they came from far and wide,
And when then saw what he had grown, everybody cried....
Ooooh! What a beauty, I've never seen one as big as that before!
Oh Oh! What a beauty, it must be two foot long or even more!
And it's such a lovely color, so big, and round, and fat!
I've never seen a zucchini grow quite as big as that!
Oh Oh! What a beauty, I've never seen one as big as that before!

He was leaning on the garden gate the other day,
And beckoned to a lady who lives just across the way.
He took her down the garden path and showed it to her with pride,
And when she saw the size of it, the little lady sighed....
Ooooh! What a beauty, I've never seen one as big as that before!
Oh Oh! What a beauty, it must be two foot long or even more!
And it's such a lovely color, so big, and round, and fat!
I've never seen a zucchini grow quite as big as that!
Oh Oh! What a beauty, I've never seen one as big as that before!

Third verse, worse than the first!

And then the flower show was held and everybody went,
To see this huge zucchini, lying there inside the tent.
Soon the judges came along to give the prizes out,
And they only took one look at it and they began to shout...
Now what did they shout????
OOOOOH! What a beauty, I've never seen one as big as that before!
Oh Oh! What a beauty, it must be two foot long or even more!
And it's such a lovely color, so big, and round, and fat!
I've never seen a zucchini grow quite as big as that!
Oh Oh! What a beauty, I've never seen one as big as that before!


Now...I want a popsicle...or a banana...or a sucker...or...well, what I want is to see "How many licks does it take...?" I long ago came to the realization that oralization was one of the greatest pleasures in life. Sure, I like to receive it, as well...well, almost as much, anyway! I'm going back to the group site, now...to get my 'fixation' fixed, for a bit!

"Navy Seal" Awards {for SCUBA 'diving' without air tanks and/or being able to breath through their ears} go to: J and R and...never mind, I don't share well with others!



skyking412004 53M
5363 posts
7/20/2006 1:40 pm

_____It's not fair. It's just not fair...that you should receive SO much of that gift from "The Power Above" when there are SO many women out here lacking in skill and the "need" to want to pleasure there male partners as you so readily can. I haven't been with a lot of women, but of the women that I have been with, very few actually enjoyed being "oral" as much as you genuinely enjoy it. It's just not fair...to the ladies who don't have "the gift" that you have, or to their male partners. Can you figure out how to release some of your energy to the women who need it?


Wordsmith2004 36M
7233 posts
7/20/2006 2:59 pm

Well the term WAS invented by a guy after all....and probably while in the process of receiving one....

You really don't expect us to think straight while being sucked off do you? lol

Conserve Water and Prevent Global Warming: Shower With A MILF!


BaronessK 52F

7/20/2006 4:52 pm

    Quoting skyking412004:
    _____It's not fair. It's just not fair...that you should receive SO much of that gift from "The Power Above" when there are SO many women out here lacking in skill and the "need" to want to pleasure there male partners as you so readily can. I haven't been with a lot of women, but of the women that I have been with, very few actually enjoyed being "oral" as much as you genuinely enjoy it. It's just not fair...to the ladies who don't have "the gift" that you have, or to their male partners. Can you figure out how to release some of your energy to the women who need it?
Well, I could always fly to where you are, or you truck this way? Postings like this, and comments I make in general about oralization...those should help IF the female wants to learn. I joined Daighi's club about Oral Fixation, but I would figure that the majority if not all of the people who joined already are orally fixated as well as in particular being 'attracted' to oral sex. Oh, and Sky, some women are just selfish, anyway! Oddly enough, JM did not like oral sex {giving OR receiving}; it just didn't 'do' anything for him. In my opinion he couldn't relax enough, let me 'take over' in that {or any} way so that he could enjoy having it done. Of course you can figure out for yourself how rare that would be in a guy, not to like having it done {along with his dislike/don't care attitude about massages}; it was more than a bit of a 'bummer' that he wouldn't let me do that kind of stuff. I know that there is much more to a relationship in total, but damn...I missed giving oral more than anything, even when there was no sex at all when he started getting sick and everything at the end. Then again, JM was the one that found my U spot for me!


BaronessK 52F

7/20/2006 5:08 pm

    Quoting Wordsmith2004:
    Well the term WAS invented by a guy after all....and probably while in the process of receiving one....

    You really don't expect us to think straight while being sucked off do you? lol
Shut up and turn around already, Smith...if that is your real name! {Flight of the Bumblebee slightly off-tune work for you, hun? : }


skyking412004 53M
5363 posts
7/20/2006 7:07 pm

_____I give up. What your "U" spot?


rm_anacortes 74M
2850 posts
7/20/2006 7:38 pm

It is great when folks have such fine memories to draw on.. as they say, they can never be taken from you.

Thanks for sharing!


QueenofBitches69 46F

7/20/2006 11:23 pm

Huh, ::sits and wonders if I have "The Gift"?:: Hell I know I do! LOL


BaronessK 52F

7/21/2006 2:16 am

You'll have to wait until my next post -- it's about orgasms!


BaronessK 52F

7/21/2006 2:21 am

    Quoting rm_anacortes:
    It is great when folks have such fine memories to draw on.. as they say, they can never be taken from you.

    Thanks for sharing!
Well, a, you did say you'd share that swing you just got!


BaronessK 52F

7/21/2006 2:38 am

    Quoting QueenofBitches69:
    Huh, ::sits and wonders if I have "The Gift"?:: Hell I know I do! LOL
Hey...the Bitch Is Back! {I've heard that...from a human wolf...that you have oralization skills; I think he wants proof, or more proof, or something like that! }


QueenofBitches69 46F

7/21/2006 8:08 am

Well for him it would have to be proof, cause we ain't gone there. Only the king knows proof! LOL


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/21/2006 10:12 am

Hi BK,well you are definately a woman of her word,& i like that.Why did you stop at the sex part,I'm sure i'm not alone in wondering if you could take that monster in your hot wet pussy?..

Did he stretch you,& how did it feel?I have always thought that women must LOVE guys with large cocks.It MUST a thrill for them to try & slip it in,& i'm sure EVERY woman WANTS TO FEEL FILLED,at least once in her life?

I was watching this porno the other night.It's one of my favorites.It involves a sexy white lady,with a good looking Black guy.His cock was over 12" in length,but also 5" in thickness.I swear to you,the look of amazement & glee on that woma's face as she takes in her pussy,always gets me hard.Normally the actors just fuck & thats it,but These two really looked as though they were enjoying each other.

Her smile,her look,& her moans said it all,she was in orbit,& it just looked SO sexy!

Watching her suck that cock,& play with it,just is the best,as she looks into his eyes,talking to him inbetween the licks & the sucks.

You obviously like what you do,& have become talented at it.Thats lucky for the .01% of guys who ACTUALLY get to feel your lips surround them.mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.....wish i was closer for that!..lol..

Great post hon,it certainly hi the spot.Thank you for mentionin the group also.I think that it's starting to take off now,& shaping up nicely to be an exciting & fun group,made up of wonderful people like you.

Hugs,

D. XXX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


BaronessK 52F

7/21/2006 2:58 pm

    Quoting QueenofBitches69:
    Well for him it would have to be proof, cause we ain't gone there. Only the king knows proof! LOL
QB, I still say...my bet is on him getting collared, not the other way around!


BaronessK 52F

7/22/2006 1:38 am

    Quoting daighi:
    Hi BK,well you are definately a woman of her word,& i like that.Why did you stop at the sex part,I'm sure i'm not alone in wondering if you could take that monster in your hot wet pussy?..

    Did he stretch you,& how did it feel?I have always thought that women must LOVE guys with large cocks.It MUST a thrill for them to try & slip it in,& i'm sure EVERY woman WANTS TO FEEL FILLED,at least once in her life?

    I was watching this porno the other night.It's one of my favorites.It involves a sexy white lady,with a good looking Black guy.His cock was over 12" in length,but also 5" in thickness.I swear to you,the look of amazement & glee on that woma's face as she takes in her pussy,always gets me hard.Normally the actors just fuck & thats it,but These two really looked as though they were enjoying each other.

    Her smile,her look,& her moans said it all,she was in orbit,& it just looked SO sexy!

    Watching her suck that cock,& play with it,just is the best,as she looks into his eyes,talking to him inbetween the licks & the sucks.

    You obviously like what you do,& have become talented at it.Thats lucky for the .01% of guys who ACTUALLY get to feel your lips surround them.mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.....wish i was closer for that!..lol..

    Great post hon,it certainly hi the spot.Thank you for mentionin the group also.I think that it's starting to take off now,& shaping up nicely to be an exciting & fun group,made up of wonderful people like you.

    Hugs,

    D. XXX
The post was about oralization, D...so 'deal' ring a bell?! If you just have to know , yes I could and did...BUT, it was a slow {and uncomfortable, even as wet as I get}. For me, 'too much' is TOO MUCH! I do NOT want a guy who is hung like a horse...because I am not built like a mare. Also, beyond the fact that it makes oralization much harder to do {in playing and for 'end results'}, the first 3 inches are the main nerve concentration for women AND men...so what 'good' is a penis beyond about 6 1/2 inches? The only reason that I give the size to about double 'necessary' is due to the cul-de-sac and all. The girth/width can cause added stimulation, but so can the female knowing Kegel and tightening up!

My family lineage traces back to the Irish {among other things}...but from your recent posts...you're 'occupied' enough lately! Glad the Oral Fixation club is taking off.


daighi 49M
1449 posts
7/25/2006 11:27 pm

Hi BK,thanks for your reply.Yes the oral fixation group IS taking off,& alot of that is also because of YOU.By posting as you have,you have really helped conjure up some interest in the group,& it's great that you have become involved so much.

Thank you for being here,i think your terrific!

I hope to see more of you as time goes on,& hopefully get chatting with you if you'd like.

Hugs & kisses,

D. XX

"Always remember...keep smiling!"

Hugs,

D. XX


BaronessK 52F

7/26/2006 3:07 am

    Quoting daighi:
    Hi BK,thanks for your reply.Yes the oral fixation group IS taking off,& alot of that is also because of YOU.By posting as you have,you have really helped conjure up some interest in the group,& it's great that you have become involved so much.

    Thank you for being here,i think your terrific!

    I hope to see more of you as time goes on,& hopefully get chatting with you if you'd like.

    Hugs & kisses,

    D. XX
Which one of me has gone and joined a club when I should be out and about trying to get down and dirty, damn it? See more of me? Send me an email or network invite thingy...dirty pics, right?


BaronessK 52F

8/6/2006 2:42 am

Okay...I'll practice...saying NO!

No No No No No No NO!


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