The River of Poison thru Blogville.  

Barbiebunny69 43F
1457 posts
6/22/2005 12:40 pm

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The River of Poison thru Blogville.

I had hoped for a bit of a vacation from posting.. but I noticed things and the current of my precious sweet blogville is being injected with venom and I'm drawing the line in the sand, sucking it out of the veins, spitting it out into the owners shameful faces.

WHY? Because I've weathered the toughest of storms and I CAN. Just because people tolerate it doesn't make it right. Sometimes people must stand up and protect their shangri-la from being pissed on. Righteous Indignation has set in.

Last week I had read thru blog after blog of pain, lamentations, and even hypocritical judgment cold to the human condition..
Now im not talking about the people that have a terrible day and need some support, those people have also happier days posted on their blogs.

I'm talking about the ones that drone on and on and on about THEIR PAIN. Foolishly lamenting in the past not forgiving themselves and guilty to live in the PRESENT and missing the minutes so precious in the PRESENT. How selfish u are and the foolish to be drug into it. Mask it all u want it still oozes out poisoning my lovely blogville. AND im dragging it all into the light...like a mangy tough dog bringing in the bone from a skeleton of a dead body.

That is the biggest abomination against life itself.

In a world where we are ruled by abuse and shame we can choose another kinder, gentler, more productive path.

Yes that power to choose....Happiness despite the circumstances. I choose THAT.


Apolybear 54M

6/22/2005 3:54 pm

Now Buntzer (may I call you Buntzer...lol) people have the God given right to wallow in their own misery and self pity if they so choose. And, you have the same inalienable right not to read their blogs. Sure, it's annoying as hell and you just want to slap some of them. But, is censorship really the answer oh wise and adorable hare…


purejoy4fem 46F/44F
682 posts
6/22/2005 4:28 pm

Computer went down for a few days and all hell broke loose, glad our resident super-hero is here to save the day


Barbiebunny69 43F

6/22/2005 4:55 pm

Bear its not my intent to censor them but to merely shine the super bunny flashlight in their miserable dark caves and see what is going on.. Yes i agree u can skip their blongs but overall their energy does dump into the overall atmosphere of blogville. And i seem highly allergic to it and u may call me Bunnzster

Missed U purejoy!


SeekingFun337 63M/60F
657 posts
6/22/2005 4:57 pm

Bunny... Not guilty, Not guilty.... and. seriously hope my posts have not been unwelcome. Enjoy the discourse, and thoughts.... and ...

I am at attention, Sargeant.... in more ways than one...

Many need to share, when they are unhappy, sad, or have problems... and we all have our moments, but I understand that you want this to be a forum to share, and exchange the positive about where we are, what we are experiencing, and build with our posts, not tear down... Life is better with positive friends ... and people... for those times when life isn't going our way...

Finished my push-ups.... and.... boy is the view great from down here... (guess why....?)


Barbiebunny69 43F

6/22/2005 5:30 pm

Seeking , Hey everyone goes thru a rough patch.
And we need to be there with love and support..

Im talking about the ones that continually non stop wallow in their pain over and over without a positive blog in sight...or one that turns a judgemental cold eye to human sufferings or proclaim good people expressing themselves as liars, sluts, and assholes.

those are to whom this blog is ment for and probebly will never be read by the offending people. But i hope the readers of them will and be looking upon them in a better light.

Now Seekeking bootcamp starts next week..take some Laps around the track


rm_Aristotle30 43M
13 posts
6/22/2005 5:54 pm

I think what the real problem here isn't so much of those that choose to post their feelings and some of them happen to be bad.. It's more with those that have nothing but bad feelings.. I know exactly what you're talking about Bunnz.. They're a freaking drain of life, energy, emotion, and just about everything else that you can think of. I mean.. we all have good and bad days, and if we wanna make those public, then so be it, but those people who are constantly just miserable beyond belief, I gotta think that most of it is self inflicted.. They're that way because they CHOOSE to be that way. They're that way because they wake up in the morning, and the FIRST words out of their mouth or in their head is, "God damnit today is going to suck." So ya.. I hear ya Bunnz.. I think after everything that I've been through, I choose to remain blissfully ignorant to how bad things really are.


BLONDENEEDSSEX 57F

6/22/2005 9:53 pm

Sorry if my blog depressed you or made you mad bunny.

Huggles Blonde


Apolybear 54M

6/22/2005 9:54 pm

Ok Bunnzster, if we're talking the morality police, I applaud your efforts. You have my complete support to flame um good.

Shine away caped wabbit...


AmberSolaire 42M

6/22/2005 11:35 pm

Hey I got energy to spare, point me in their direction and I will lend them some.


Barbiebunny69 43F

6/23/2005 12:14 am

NONONONOno blonde NEVER!!!!!
Im your No1 fan. Im not talking about you at ALL. nfact im proud of your for what u shared! **kisses your gold balls**
Please read the email i sent.

Bear..(gets out her whip and cracks it) no..thats not what IM SAYING.. Im not the morality police (well maybe i should as im pretty morally flexible) But im not gonna sit around and let things pass idly by that affects the postive energy of blogville. I think ure reading into some assumptions that just arent there.

It was never ment AS A FLAME, but rather to point something out that IS happening. And worst of all sad that it does happen. I tried to NOT name names but everyone like i said probably SHOULD READ IT AND TAKE IT TO HEART WONT BECAUSE THEYRE TOO WRAPPED UP IN THE PITY PARTY OF PAIN.

GOD I HOPE THIS HAS BEEN EXPLAINED ENOUGH!!!

THanks amber for getin it.


Barbiebunny69 43F

6/23/2005 12:36 am

NONONONOno blonde NEVER!!!!!
Im your No1 fan. Im not talking about you at ALL. nfact im proud of your for what u shared! **kisses your gold balls**
Please read the email i sent.

ps my cape is still hung up im working in my wabbit hole.. Amber u got the feed from the cameras yet?


BLONDENEEDSSEX 57F

6/23/2005 12:51 am

Amber darlin cum give me some energy, hell if you have that much I`ll dazzle you with my chains and Bunny can make you speachless with her corset , just as long as we get to gently whip that oh so cute butt.


Jerosd 47M

6/23/2005 3:02 am

Mmmmmmmm...bunny and energy...where have i heard that before....lol


Lapkin4u 42F

6/23/2005 5:43 am

People that wallow in pity and pain are weak people. I'm sorry, that may seem harse but everyone has been through tough times in their lives, some more so than others, but that is no excuse to live in misery, and for those who do choose to live that way....don't spread your misery around we have enough of our own. It is sad that some people can never see the light at the end of the tunnel, I just keep praying that someday they will find the strength to pull themselves out of the black hole they have created. It's so much more fun to be positive.....and if someone like me can remain positive after all I've been through than anyone can. I hear ya bunny and I'm with ya sister! Sign me up for a Campaign Happiness button and I promise to wear it proudly and do my best to spread smiles and good will.


areugame4 46M

6/23/2005 6:49 am

Have enjoyed the time I perused Blogvile! I was exposed to so many aspects of life and differing opinions. I Think the most memorable was that old cliche phrase "Don't Judge a Book by its Cover" Oh wait that actually wasn't from here but would make a great blog I am sure. Has been a very interesting 2 weeks indeed. I learned many things about myself, but most of all I was taken out of my own small reality and exposed to the greater society. I have to say I was not impressed. I think more of us should look within themselves as opposed to fixating on others. I learned the true meaning of friends and what friendship is all about. I don't know if it was a subconcious deceision that I made in order to reduce my Christmas card list or whether it was the result of observing my surroundings and those within it. Either way, this holiday season will not be so burdensome! Infact, should be able to get my shopping done in a day! While I have released many I have also choosen to pick up a few. Yes we were all about to embark on some new adventures together. I was packed and ready to go. But then it dawned on me I might miss a friend. So regrettably I won't be able to make this trip maybe next year we'll see. Well back to life I go.


ByteChaser2 52M

6/23/2005 7:59 am

<-- Adjusts his cape and mask... Warms up the Bunny-Mobile... Checks for expiration dates on the depression repellant...

Yep. All systems are a GO! Ready when you are Bunz! LIXXXXXXXXXXX


SeekingFun337 63M/60F
657 posts
6/23/2005 9:03 am

Bunny, thanks... Runing laps now, but I find myself distracted by the way you fill out that uniform... I may end up tripping over... Just ran into the bleachers, but it was worth it ...

Let each one find beauty where they can, joy in what they find, and revel in life's journey, and the gift of life itself. How often to we find that our way is litered with those who are determined to complain about the fertilizer, and miss the beauty, and smell of the roses....

Pointing this out is a nice reminder ...


GleesFlakyShawl 50M
1620 posts
6/23/2005 1:15 pm

bunny ur own bright overshadows the flashlite

<< still not a single clue what this post is all about >>>>


sportyfun56 106M

6/23/2005 1:31 pm

Barb...
you're a gem hun.


rm_RandomXS2 62M
88 posts
6/23/2005 3:13 pm

Errrrr...I can rant (Heck! I'm GOOD at it!) but it's because I see stuff that's WRONG and wonder why the hell we can't find a way to overcome or fix it. I'd hope that's positive even if presented negatively...how can we move forward unless we see the ways we're holding ourselves back??? (And hope you're not talking about ME, Thumper Luv...)


keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
6/23/2005 5:33 pm

I hear ya bunzy. Yet blogs can be many things and serve many purposes. Perhaps dumping some pain in here releives them of the necessity of unloading so much of it out there?


rm_talldarkavg1 105M
10172 posts
6/23/2005 6:51 pm

Maybe it's just the human condition. To a greater or lesser degree, aren't we all here for some sort of recognition? From the moment of self-awareness we all seek out affirmation of our existence. Each reaches into the darkness seeking comfort in their most familiar way.
Gropping to validate our very being, clinging to hope moment by moment. Some needier than others. Isn't this what Shakespear introduced centuries ago?

Perhaps our experiences and resultant scars have desensitized us all toward others. Driven us to the point where we are intolerant of needs, and feelings, unless they are our own.

Just a thought. Or do I need to up my meds?

[blog talldarkavg1]


Gunslinger1954 62M

6/24/2005 7:08 am

Would you shine that light in my cave? It's getting dark in here 'cause nothing I post or email sticks.


rm_pchamp012004 55M
2672 posts
6/24/2005 10:09 am

keith, maybe you should open a practice as a blog-therapist?

bunny, I'm with you, happiness is so much better than the alternative


Barbiebunny69 43F

6/24/2005 12:35 pm

awww Ginslinger..dont tell me that..i love your posts!

**goin off to powers that be land and gonna show em smackdown blvd**


mnfun952 102M

6/24/2005 3:16 pm

must..avoid..the sphere...of negativity...

Just as an 'exercise' ... people should force themselves to write blogs of positivity. Sure, posting feelings is a wonderful thing...but I'm convinced that you can 'write' your way out of down times. The very act of writing about all that's good in your life can do wonders for your mood. The trick is to mix it all up... post the bad (it helps to get it out)..but then don't give it any more power by going on and on about it..instead, actively explore (in your writing) what you can do to flip it all around.

I love you bunny.... you do a wonderful thing for the world by simply being yourself.


hotimes90 46M
19 posts
6/24/2005 8:47 pm

yes, yes and more yes, too much pain, not enough gain, stop the pain, stop the drain, move on to pleasure, passion, ecstacy and thoughts of joy involving the latter. regards, always, your pal, hotimes90


Barbiebunny69 43F

6/30/2005 5:29 pm

lol guys like i said we all need to vent..Im talkin about the dreary extreme cases..

But i love all your thoughts and thanks for reading..i really want to see everyone here happy and shaggin!


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