Physical attraction...or just another way to live with yourself?  

Balibabe19 41F
534 posts
5/15/2006 5:55 pm

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5/22/2006 7:07 pm

Physical attraction...or just another way to live with yourself?


A nasty thought occured to me recently..do we seek perfection because this medium allows us to pick and choose?

The freedom of screening and the ability to say thanks but no thanks is much easier here..admit it..however on the flip side if the lover is talented and genuinely knows how to please the senses but unfortunately for them they hit hit every branch of the ugly tree as they fell...is that being fair? Absolutley not...I am just as much the hypocrite..I like my men tall, athletic and keep an intelligent conversation on my terms..too much to ask...I hope not...fair to others..hell no.


I am not without the realisation same prejudices are played against me also...not young enough...thin enough...docile enough and just not pretty enough..I accept that.

So I pose the question is it really about physical attraction or just another way to live with yourself...? And the choices we make to share our sexuality can they be made without prejudice? That was my two cents worth..

Balibabe19 41F

5/15/2006 6:21 pm

Suppose it could be to do with a number of things, Too thn,not pretty enough etc.....what do you mean by all of that....are you trying to compete with 21 yr olds? I would've thought that there were more important and more rewarding objects for your satisfaction. Curiosity,experimental and by all means....maturity and tactfulness......I think sex gets better as we mature. Maybe it comes with experience......or perhaps I really appreciate good company ...... a good partner who appreciates the excitement and exhiliration of the adrenalin soaring when 2 people thoroughly appreciate eachother? Lots of factors have to be considered.....moods....setting....opportunity.....who knows......it can all be rather 'in-depth' ......and we are all still learning.....maybe variety does help in our sex lives.....what do you think about this Bali Babe....and others....any opinions? I'm definite that it is not all physical attractiveness that makes for good sex.


Balibabe19 41F

5/15/2006 6:23 pm

Hey that post up above was supposed to be mine........GIVE IT BACK BALIBABE!!!!.........Grrrrr,,,,,,,have fun...xx


Balibabe19 41F

5/15/2006 6:26 pm

Bloody hell....it happened again.........I mean the Blog Post........not that silly!!
anyhow..the above posting is MINE....Davetbone1000......no glamour boy.....no rich big wig......but an honest happy Aussie bloke trying to getalong in this world and trying to meet and make as many friends as poss.


rm_LoyalCumpany 46M
3204 posts
5/16/2006 12:33 am

Holy hell, the clones have escaped! RUN!

I am JoJo the Circus Boy!


rm_sexpicsoo 51M/47F

5/16/2006 12:43 am

Being a model is not important, cause we sure as hell would not qualify as that, but there must be some attraction. That can be mental as well as physical though, nothing as sexy as a woman who makes you laugh. A little thought from sexpicsoo, as the babe is being made to look as though she is talking to herself, could be the first sign of something.


DaveTbone1000 50M
3 posts
5/17/2006 9:38 am

maybe going a little crazy do youthink Sexi,,,lol, 3Wonder if this post will be mine. LOL at the clone comment.......just thank God I did'nt turn into some kinda computer virus.........dunno where I mighta ended up if that bloody happened....


DaveTbone1000 50M
3 posts
5/22/2006 6:52 pm

This is stuffed hey?
How does one get in touch with you Bali Babe?
You are a standard member ,so am I,....so tell me something please?.....How do you manage to meet up with all the other members .....how can you initiate contact if you are only 'standard'??
Or do you swap from name to name ?
Have a nice day.....x


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