I play but I don't play mind games...  

Balibabe19 42F
534 posts
6/29/2006 3:58 pm

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7/2/2006 6:05 pm

I play but I don't play mind games...

I went out last night to meet a possible playmate and was left with the impression "You know what..that ain't me!!"

First off it was friendly emails..text messages and cheeky banter all the while being clear..no pressure no gaurantees.

After pushing back the time by two hours...it was clear the guy had met up with a mate..(he is from down south) and wanted to pretend to meet me at the bar and then join him and his mate for a drink...etc etc....you get the idea.

Whilst I entertained the idea...I thought about my previous post and I how I try my hardest to be me, all the while allowing myself to evolve, tricky but worth it. So in saying all of that I walked, I called him to say I was not about to play games and pretend to be something I am not...there are other gals out there that will but not me...

Not this chicky

So after offers of taxi fares to return and dangling of Free Supercars Ticket...I graciously declined and went home. I am happy I made that decision, I feel better for it.

mis_match70 47M
1373 posts
7/2/2006 4:25 pm

Good move methinks also. You have to use your head and treat people with respect and most importantly treat yourself with respect.

open your heart and mind

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