Can you fuck and be friends??  

Balibabe19 41F
534 posts
5/29/2006 4:16 pm

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5/30/2006 8:11 pm

Can you fuck and be friends??

First off I think you can..I have the love of my life and the love I have for him is beyond any other I have ever felt..that being said is it possible to fuck and be friends?? Have your experiences told you otherwise and if so how did it work out??

wildcat_n_foxy 41M/45F

5/29/2006 5:13 pm

We feel that if both people are truly adult, open & honest, then yes - for the most part, you can fuck your friends and remain friends post-coitus. Friendships generally seem to suffer when one of the parties exhibts emotions that would normally be seen as more-than-just-friendly. There is a fine and subtle balance to be maintained, but if that border is strayed over, then the odds are that you can kiss your friendship goodbye.

W&F xx

rm_hunka99 43M
22 posts
5/29/2006 5:43 pm

In my experience it can be done. However both parties have to enter the 'deal' with eyes wide open and all cards on the table. As soon as it starts getting 'emotional' listen to those bells ringing and get the hell out, otherwise you will not only lose a good 'fuck buddy' but a great friend as well...which is the biggest loss of all...
But you know what they say...practice makes

gypsy1629 41F

5/29/2006 8:19 pm

I least not with my ex partner of 7 years, I am to emotionally attatched...maybe in a couple of years I could have sex with him but not now it is too soon...onto regular plain old friends...I did manage that....much easier when there are no personal strings attatched...


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