O.k. Here is a more in-depth idea of why I'm on here ;)  

Back2Blonde2 34F
23 posts
11/14/2005 10:02 pm

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5/18/2006 1:06 am

O.k. Here is a more in-depth idea of why I'm on here ;)

I joined AdultFriendFinder a few years ago under a different name. Since then I have probably had about 5 different profiles, all with different user names and different things I was looking for at the time. Well after the experiences I have had, I am more in tune to what it is that I am truly seeking. I do not want one-night stands because they do me no good except raise the # of people I have slept with. I get no satisfaction from a one night stand. The (b)one(/b) exception is living out a fantasy/1st time kinda thing. Even then, I need to be convinced because I am a little shy when it comes to meeting new people. You see, I have been engaged for the past 3 years. I haven't had chances to meet anyone new outside of connections through people I already knew. I am loking for someone to get me to come out of my shell a little bit. Someone that hopefully I can start a relationship with, whether it be on a friend level or more. I simply am a lonely girl who is clueless how to get out there in the real world. The internet, I guess you could say, has become my crutch. Well hopefully All those you look at my profile will read this too. Please contact me if you truly think you can fulfill what I am looking for.

kje112 50M

11/15/2005 8:11 pm

Hi there! Now that is more in depth about what you are looking for. I couldn't agree with you more about one-night stands. Unless it is living out a fantasy like you said, they give you no lasting satisfaction whatsoever. Sure, you were fulfilled physically, but absolutely nothing emotionally. I also know what you mean about changing your profile around and changing what you are looking for. I too have been on AdultFriendFinder for several years and under different user names. I have come to the same conclusion about things as you have. I'm ready to meet a fine woman and have something more than just sex and nothing else. I'm very ready for a relationship together, whether it's just as friends or it grows into something more than that. I know that there is somebody out there for you that can help you come out of your shell and be a great addition to your life. I sincerely hope that you find that person that you seek. The best of luck to you in your search! Always keep the faith and keep smiling!


SlyCollegeGuy 30M

11/25/2005 3:00 am

hi, my name is Lou and im 19 from DesPlaines (outside of chicago), i had noticed your post in dekalb nymphos and thought i would check out your profile, im looking to try and meet some new people out of my network too, after a while all the people you meet through friends kinda become the same,i definitely know im not looking for just one night stands on this site though, sex is so much more meeaningful when you know the person and thats when i enjoy it best. id really enjoy getting to talk to you some time and getting to know you a lil better. hope to hear from you soon. -Lou

rm_Ilovewives67 49M
3 posts
11/29/2005 12:16 pm

Man my sweet there's no way in hell you should be lonely. I'm John a 38 yr old Chicago native. I would like to talk to you sometime to see if there's a possibility for friendship.

bigbadbubbajoe 50M/44F
15 posts
1/13/2006 1:33 am

All right, there seem to be quite a few of us in the area... Geneva, Des Plaines, Joliet, Wheaton, lots of people in Glen Ellyn, Carol Stream, Lombard...

There has GOT to be some way we can all get our happy asses out to some non-threatening, safe, public place and meet up.

Anyone else up for something like a night out bowling? Darts? Pub-crawl? Sushi?

Ideas? comments? suggestions?

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