RANTS & RAVES  

BROC817 43M
874 posts
1/22/2006 1:12 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

RANTS & RAVES


YOU GOT A GOOD RANT OR A GOOD RAVE ??? WELL FEEL FREE TO SHARE THEM WITH THE GROUP Looking For Friendships !!!

MyHeartLost4U 52M
2303 posts
1/23/2006 2:31 pm

Looking for a relationship is a great group and I suggest the group to anyone.


BROC817 43M

1/23/2006 5:08 pm

    Quoting MyHeartLost4U:
    Looking for a relationship is a great group and I suggest the group to anyone.
nick thanks for your comments....i guess we all come a long way from when i first joined !!!


BROC817 43M

1/25/2006 4:05 pm

yeah i dont realy like the voting thing....if your to scared to just speak your mind then most likely there opinion dosent even matter....i think there cowards !!!


MyHeartLost4U 52M
2303 posts
1/29/2006 2:07 pm

I like to add a little note for Steve here. Rest assure that any votes you see anywhere on this site placed on you, did not come from me. If I agree with you on something of importance I am one to say so; if I disagree with you on something, I will say so and let you know it.

Unfortunately there are people that want to try and get under your skin Steve (just like mine) with those votes in the groups. It is just not worth paying attention to them my friend and giving them any satisfactions. You are far more a better person then they are or ever could be.

Broc, just for you to know I will be returning back to your group in about another week. The tests came back negative to being cancer or something serious.


gentleman151 69
30 posts
2/2/2006 6:34 am

I think that it is ok to use the voting method if you agree with that persons article, but if you disagree with it you should write and tell them why


BROC817 43M

2/3/2006 8:43 am

i think people should explain themselves as well.....can be a learning experience for everyone !!!


Shelly_Marie 43F

2/3/2006 9:54 am

whoever it is is probably just being a smartass, anyway...they are waiting for it to get on someones nerves, i think...


jjjoyride1 55M

2/3/2006 2:46 pm

Hey steve I don't have a problem with you or anyone else in this room. Everyone has been really cool here and in the chat room . So hang in there bud .


classyOHlassy 56F

2/4/2006 8:54 am

I've enjoyed the group so far... except I haven't met anyone. I think that will have to change - and soon


BROC817 43M

2/4/2006 3:57 pm

    Quoting classyOHlassy:
    I've enjoyed the group so far... except I haven't met anyone. I think that will have to change - and soon
well whatcha waiting for sweety ??? im very sure there are alot of us who would like to meet you for coffee or drinks !!! sometimes you just gotta speak up !!! i know it took me sometime to speak up....but hell when i first started this group there was only like 10 members the first couple of weeks....lol


classyOHlassy 56F

2/5/2006 12:28 pm

well duh! I want to know who I'm going to be clinging onto


rm_marc44054 63M
936 posts
2/7/2006 9:57 am

Hand me a tissue, I have an issue and I am turning it into a rant.

What the hell is happening in this group all of a sudden? Respect is going out the window, name calling, passing judgements, seem to be more the accepted response to posts. The constant bickering and sniping back and forth between people is ridiculous. No good can be gotten from these type of outbursts. Have we become so self centered, so sure of ourselves that we feel the need to attack anyone who dare oppose our views.

Come on people. We can differ, but still be respectful.


rm_marc44054 63M
936 posts
2/7/2006 10:06 am

Sorry, need another tissue. We had three threds going about emails. There were over 130 responses. And two of the three got out of hand. But, we had a memeber start a thred last week asking for suggestions from us, perhaps some encouragement. There were only three replies to his thred. I am so ashamed. I thought this was a caring, loving, sharing group that took care of their own. Instead, we'd rather waste our time and energy in silly ass squabbles, worried about ourselves.


allforfun5262 54M/56F

2/7/2006 11:01 am

I HAVE A RANT....after posting my most recent thread, "Let's get it out in the open",I had the opportunity to speak with several members of this group in the chat room. Much to my dismay, words were spoken in a degrading way about a fellow group member. I immediately stated that name-calling was not necessary and one member choose to leave the chat room after I pointed out that degradation of woman was not called for. I have had a few run ins myself with this person but have chosen not to stoop to his level and stage an all out war. PLease be considerate of what you say at all times, words spoken in anger or ignorance do hurt!!!!


Shelly_Marie 43F

2/7/2006 3:29 pm

well, i started one of those three threads, but didnt see it get out of hand though...the one about the bossy email, i didnt mean to start anything if it did. was just amazed at someone sending me an email that was kinda 'bossy' and was wondering if that happened to anyone else...lol.


Shelly_Marie 43F

2/7/2006 5:42 pm

oops, i hadnt seen the last few posts to it though.


rm_marc44054 63M
936 posts
2/7/2006 5:48 pm

shelly, no problem with your thred, you didn't start anything, sorry if if you took it that way


Shelly_Marie 43F

2/7/2006 8:26 pm

its ok marc. thanks.


Shelly_Marie 43F

2/7/2006 9:05 pm

oh no...my new post showed up but its back in the archives already
Its called 'close calls'


BROC817 43M

2/8/2006 11:58 am

everyone i think all this might be solved !!! i hadda over moderate some and plain out erase some threads.....now two people have there only warnings there gonna get !!! shelly you fine sweety....lol

im sorry i let it go as far as i did....sometimes passionate people give passionate answers !!! and sometimes its good to get things off our chest.....but the name calling will not be tolerated in our group post.....they will be erased and any comments about them will be to......but i think those people agree that they dont want to mess things up for the rest of the group !!!

i hate over moderating and would like to think we can all get over this....but we'll see what happens !!!


BROC817 43M

2/18/2006 2:46 pm

well steve if its in group chat its pretty much public info....but i do understand what you mean....if you dont want the info out there you might not want to speak on it to certain people.....i have been lucky on this one so far !!! but i have a feeling this is all far from done.....you guys can discuse all you want.....dont let it get outta hand !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


allforfun5262 54M/56F

2/18/2006 8:14 pm

    Quoting BROC817:
    well steve if its in group chat its pretty much public info....but i do understand what you mean....if you dont want the info out there you might not want to speak on it to certain people.....i have been lucky on this one so far !!! but i have a feeling this is all far from done.....you guys can discuse all you want.....dont let it get outta hand !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hey Broc... it's DONE as far as I'm concerned.... we both know who it was written about and it wasn't Steve! He's probably right that I shouldn't have posted his question in the thread...but... it wasn't a fair question either. Just one reason why I don't go in to group chat alone either...I always bring a buddy with me, just in case.


BROC817 43M

2/21/2006 4:16 am

well theres a few ways to handle this and none are good !!! i been trying to leave some room for you two so things can be said but with some kind of respect !!! i cant tell a member they can post in one certain persons thread....even though if there are realy trying to avoid you they wouldnt post in yours......i guess we as a group will see how it goes !!!


Shelly_Marie 43F

2/22/2006 6:27 am

If i am in a situation like steves and bbw's i usually just try not to read their replies or posts. out of site...out of mind, maybe? it might help...


BROC817 43M

2/22/2006 8:34 am

thats the way i have delt with a few people on this site as well....i cant see eye to eye with members of other groups so i just dont make any comments to them....but to each there own i guess !!!


Shelly_Marie 43F

2/22/2006 3:39 pm

lol broc, i mean not even read their replies in the posts or whatever to begin with cause its too hard not to say something back. but once one or the other decides not to reply no matter what, that will end it, I have realized that that puts me in control of the situation, basically....I finished it..lol.


BROC817 43M

2/23/2006 1:15 am

well i guess time will tell the story.....kisses to my shelly !!!


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