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4/19/2006 4:37 pm

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So tell me this do you think it is ok to have sex on the first date . And if not how long do you think you should wait.

rm_joe11753 63M

4/20/2006 1:56 am

I feel, first for me, when I date someone, that I have to be strongly attracted to her. Sure physically, that way, when you tell her how big and beautiful she is, its just not words, but you mean it. Second, also, I have had chances at one night stands, thats not what I am looking for, rather someone that I find beautiful, caring, sexy, can communicate with her. And these arent just idle words either,.
Third, to know you have things you can share with each other doing, like football, movies, fishing etc. Sex only goes so far, but whats from your heart. Deep down inside, I think most of us, want to be loved and appreciated for whom we are, as well as our looks. Now if you add all that in, if your attracted to each other, feel the chemistry, then say how you feel towards each other, and its not going to be a one night stand, but a relationship to build upon.

Then, as far as me, I was raised to respect the woman, always have, always will. If I am out on dates, and the woman is covered up, no cleavage, then I am a perfect gentleman, but cleavage, and I turn to mush. Even going further, I would venture to say, I would be happy on first date, just necking, french kissing and sucking on big tits. Thats why to some degree, I like take charge type bbw women, but at same time, I want her to like me, and not just one night. Because, if you wait for me to make the first move, hardly anthing will get done. Like one woman bbw that I liked, had hots for like 2 years. She finally called me over to her house one night, wanting to know something about the bible. Now, she met me at the door, just a blouse tshirt, but covered up, but shorts on. She hugged me afterwards we talked, I felt her big bosoms, so I told her I would stay. We talked some more, she even told me she wanted to be fucked every day, and she started crying. I held her, kissed her on her forehead, and stayed the night on the floor, while she slept on the couch. Sure, near her, feeling her big tits, I got huge hardon, but at same time, I cared for her, didnt want to use her, or anything along those lines. Finally about 5 am she told me, I had to leave, her girls were coming back home, and she didnt want me there when they came home. Yes, we didnt make love, and I had a hardon for about an hour. But, thats who I am, as a person, I expect the same.
Again, thats why I like buxom take charge type women, I might kiss her on her cheek, or ask for a hug, etc, and kiss her, if she kissed me back, its like ok, time to get it on, she really likes you. If not, just friends. If she puts her tits in my face, or cleavage shaking, then I turn to mush, do anything to touch, suckle her big tits. Hope that helps, towards what I think about making love first date or not. joe

rm_coathanger1 48M
859 posts
4/20/2006 8:25 pm

There is nothing wrong with sex on the first date. If the chemistry is there, why not enjoy yourself. We live in the 21st century and there is a such thing as safe sex. I can see holding out if you're look for love but even then I don't think it's necessary.

It's nice to see there is another blogger here in Tyler.

ftworthtxmale 43M

6/19/2006 10:53 am

Hey, in this day and age, there is very little that is taboo.

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