Digging up the funds to join  

AusTxman032 50M
32 posts
10/3/2005 12:55 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Digging up the funds to join

Hey guys,
Everytime I look and browse through AdultFriendFinder...it astounds me how many likeminded people there are out there. You would think that it should be real easy for others to contact you if you do NOT belong as a member.....Gold and Silver folks get your winks ...check you out...if they give a shit...or think you are worth their time...they email you...say hello...see how things are.
You would think that.....but NO.
Maybe it is just my situation...and they dont want any manufactured drama...so they stay away..not sure. But I am willing to get to know some folks..nothing should happen at first anyway. If we get along..great..lets do a happy hour and see if I am even attracted to you gals or couples...then go from there.

It is all about just taking a chance and saying hi. I will continue going until I get the funds and wearwithall..to join...like I should...

Take care all of you..play hard..have fun!

tamethytension 54M
2320 posts
10/3/2005 4:11 pm

There is 1 women-looking-men profile for every 12 straight men in the US. Substract the fakes, and the ratio may actually be closer to 15 men to 1 woman.

Women in the US receive up to 100 winks a day, and 60 emails a week. Many friends tell me they turn off theor profiles for two weeks merely to catch up on their email which they feel obliged to answer personally. When they use the autmated answers, they often receive a very nasty email response explaining in detail how much a slut whore they are.

In short, exactly how are you going to stand out?

For me the most cost efficient is the 90 day Silver ... allow 6 weeks for serious contacts to be made. I have not found the extra money for the Standard Contacts worth my while.



jim5131 55M
1296 posts
11/15/2005 6:54 am

Hey AusTex..ran into your profile as a visitor at CnC's site and looked like Austin...cool...go `Horns..

You really think the place to find women is in the blogs? This has been under a LOT of discussion in the past few months and we all had to laugh at it:

we all started here looking to get laid..(amazing, huh?)..on some Friday or Saturday night...searched the local girls, sent out some winks, a few emails to the selected dozen or so...and got NOTHING in return. Then we discovered the blogs...

...and while some bloggers DO get laid, I'm sure, the majority have simply become good friends..I have regular emails in the AdultFriendFinder email system with four, 'regular' email about ten, phone about 5 every week, and visit 1 every few weeks (strictly for dinner and talk...). This isn't about sex anymore.

There are a few that 'make it' and start serious, long-term relationships with bloggers they meet..but it isn't much of a site for casual sex.

What you might want to do is keep a dialog of your thoughts, daily activities, funny stuff, past experiences, impressions of women, etc., in the blog and email 'possible' women, inviting them to the blog to find out more about you....you'd be amazed at the quality of women in here.

best of luck....

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