Standards and expectations....  

ArealUnicorn 44F
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11/16/2005 12:15 pm

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1/6/2007 11:14 am

Standards and expectations....

I have often been told that I have very high standards and expectations...that has often made me wonder if that is true and if perhaps I should lower them, what would I gain by lowering them...a few more friends probably, a man in my life permantly...maybe...but I never could lower those standards or expectations for anyone, friends family or my lovers...and boy am I glad I didn't...no one (well maybe someone) knows how glad I am that I didn't lower myself in anyway...I have kept my standards and expectations high realizing that I may never have them totally met by a lot of people and imagine this...my expectations and standards are being met by more and more people...why I ask myself, and guess what the answer is...I am attracting people who can meet my standards and expectations, woman friends are in abudance, male friends are there, my family is as close as ever and that ever elusive mate seems to be right there too....so what would lowering my expectations got me in the long run...sadness, grief and a poor self esteem....I have kept mine close and now the pay off is here....and the pay off has, is and will continue to be the most wonderful journey of my life...


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