Have u ever had amazing sex....  

ArealUnicorn 44F
740 posts
11/19/2005 4:37 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Have u ever had amazing sex....

Ive recently read a blog by bella and it was very interesting to read...her title what "Hot Fuck?" and bascially it was her view of why she feels she is not just a lay but a hot fuck and I agree that everything she said made her a "Hot Fuck"...and I hope she takes this for what it is a total compliment to her. Why because it got me thinking about how I feel about it...and what in general makes people good in bed...so I thought I would do something similar...not exact but quite similar...so here it goes...(and yes this is not typical of me)

What makes sex good.

In my 30 odd years I have had sex...lots of sex with a few different people (not gonna say how many) but trust me Im no virgin...and I must say I have had amazing sex, good sex, adequate sex but never in my 30 years have I had bad sex...imagine that no bad sex ever and I think that has something to do with how I feel about sex...Sex for me is not always just about the physcial act of copulation, it is about a meeting of the minds and sometimes of the soul and yes about the meeting of two willing bodies...so the adequate sex was just that a meeting of two bodies, together to satisfy a physical urge and yes it was "good sex" why because the physical urge and wants and desires were fulfilled...did I always have an orgasm hell no...but I don't feel that is what makes sex good....it helps but isn't necessary, just the feeling of penetration can sometimes be enough for me, good sex is usally a meeting of the mind and body and once again no an orgasm is not always necessary, I find I can be attracted to someones mind therefore I find them attractive and someone that makes me laugh, makes me think and engages my mind that in itself makes the sex good...I think that having dinner with someone, having stimulating conversation is a total turn on...u know the conversations where I don't have to dumb it down for them to understand and where they feel comfortable expressing themselves too...now to get to the great sex, have I had a lot of great sex? unfortunately no...I have had it and will have it again very soon...great sex is a meeting of the body mind and soul, where there is such non-physical intimacy that my mind is reeling all the time where there are thoughts provoked that change my thinking, where I can spend hours and hours (literally) talking with someone and never hit the same topic twice where there is intense discussions without anger about everything from sex to religion to politics to the mundane items of life such as work, sunshine and traffic...when that happens (and I am so pleased to say it is happening now in my life) the physical feelings I have for that person are over whelming...when this happens the sex is amazing (and no once again orgasm is not necessary but Im almost always guaranteed one with sex like this) where the feelings from ur soul are so in sync with the one your with that is is a spiritual experience...an uplifing, mind altering, soul changing expericence...can this be had with just anyone...no...I think that this type of sex only happens with one or two people that you are lucky enough to come in contact with in a lifetime and when you find this person hang on tight because if you ever let this go you will always feel like there is a piece of your soul missing, when this person goes away for whatever reason, death (cause that's the only way they would get away from me) or otherwise that in itself is soul changing too and not always in a bad way as long as u get to experience this at least twice in a lifetime you have truly lived and u can go to our maker happy in the knowlege that life, sex, and love are amazing and soul changing...


demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
12/14/2005 2:20 pm

*HUG*
this is a wonderful post left me all dreamy-feeling, and thinking "see?! it's not just me!!!!"


ArealUnicorn 44F

12/28/2005 3:48 am

No demonicsexkitten it's not just u thanks for u comment, makes it all worth it.


rm_hard2beat77 74M
29 posts
12/29/2005 9:35 am

Nothing quite like a good 'mindfuck', eh?,... of course, when you've made the journey all the way to the north side of three decades, hooking up with a new lover you can 'go south' on is amazing in itself, not to mention completing the mission,... (not a problem so far, but sometimes I wonder if I can hear faint hoofbeats just out of the audible range) heh heh, ok, I lied about the hooves,... so shoot me! ;-D


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