Are you one of these??? If you are not then......  

ArealUnicorn 44F
740 posts
8/27/2006 4:18 am

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9/10/2006 9:47 am

Are you one of these??? If you are not then......

It's very funny that the men on this site complain about the lack of woman. Well here is a story for you.

This weekend I didn't have my child all weekend. From Friday at noon to Sunday at noon. Pretty open weekend right. I should have had lots of plans and I did. I had a gentlemen that was suppose to come up on Friday from halifax for the weekend. Well guess what Friday at 1pm he cancelled. So hmmm not to be deterred I had another gentlemen that was suppose to call on Saturday (back up plan cause I thought he, the man from halifax would cancel seems to be the way with him he has cancelled too many times not for me not to have a back up plan) and we were suppose to chat, meet and see...well no call...hmmmmm so not to be deterred or jaded I was in chat and a guy from halifax heard me talking about being cancelled on and that men aren't serious on here so he pipes in "oh i am very serious" I will drive to meet you today...Saturday...this was 10am...so I laughed it off as usually why because in my experience men are not that serious about driving even 45 mins to meet. So I put my cam on so he could see what I look like ...no Im not ugly...Im an average looking woman. So he continues with his little speil about being serious...so I tell him infront of everyone fine...I will email my cell phone and I did...told him to call me when he hits Moncton...he asked if that's where I was...obviously didn't read my profile...so I told him no that's the halfway mark he continues with he is very very serious and let me say this he is a cutie....I wouldn't have minded meeting him...well he goes to my cam and starts to private me....oh I want to come up your hot yadda yadda yadda. Well I don't get that call and he doesn't seem to keen on being in chat now.... Then to top it allllllllll off I get a message from a "friend" that I have been in contact with, havent met yet but was planning on it, well it's not from him it's from his profile tho and it basically says I know you haven't met "sonso" yet but this is his friend and I would like to meet you. Then he im's me on my IM....wtf....and I ask him what am I to be passed around like a party treat or something and he doesn't get why that pissed me off

OMG people (men) what is wrong with you guys...not all of you...some of you. YOu complain and complain that you can't meet anyone well now you know why....holy crap...what a weekend...am I jaded friggen right...am I deterred a bit....but mainly I am pissed and sick and tired of the players on here....

Is this a bit of a rant perhaps...am I angry now...nope not at all it's actually quite funny....Im still horny tho that's the worst part of it....and this is funny and this is why because we woman keep a list..yes a list...we tell each other in my local chat room who is a player and who stands woman up etc so it doesn't bode well for these men now does it....

So basically what I am doing here is letting the men know why you have a hard time meeting us....

So people if you read this...woman included but mostly men....take some advice...don't string people along, phone if you say your going to, dont tell them your coming if your not why because it makes you a looser, not the people you stand up or cancel on your the looser and if your one of those nice people that doesn't do this....then

"UR NOT A LOOSER LIKE THESE PEOPLE"


MikeNB 59M

8/29/2006 2:42 pm

Looser? i'd say were being generous if that's the worst you have to say about them.

I think it really comes down to a level of maturity (and that has nothing to do with age!) and respect. Not only respect for others but yourself. How can anyone keep making excuses and not following thru.

Or maybe it's lack of confidence, opps there I go being generous, who am I kidding it's down right ignorance and total disrespect to act the way those guys did.

All I an do is apologize for the rest of the male porition of the species that doesn't seem to know any better!


ArealUnicorn 44F

8/29/2006 5:23 pm

Oh Mike my sweet...I know...you are a true gentlemen....and there is no need for you to apologize...one did so that is a start....one seems embarrassed and the other well we will see...

Lack of confidence perhaps....ignorance and disrespect I do think there is a bit of that as well....

As for your apology Mike...no need I like the big cock pic so...


InopsPetitMeads 61M
282 posts
9/1/2006 10:22 am

I think Mike is correct to some extent about their lack of confidence...but, there are too many reasons to list for this type of immaturity or total lack of respect.

BTW---you are in no way average looking....and that is one of the reasons I believe some of them lack the confidence to follow through with meeting you.

I have noticed you mention this "cancelling, backing out,etc" in the past and I really find it hard to fathom that so many idiots would do that to you. I would think they would be estatic to meet you....but the fact that your physical appearance is also matched by a strong, self sufficient and self confident woman is also imtimidating to some men.....


ArealUnicorn 44F

9/2/2006 6:48 am

Thx Nick ur sweet to me....I am that person most of the time but these men who back out, cancel or just don't show do lack the self esteem and often blame us for their short commings...oh well....off to search for a spine....


rm_artistRay77 39M
1 post
9/2/2006 11:36 pm

Distance or not, the biggest problem with these guys is that they lied to you, which in turn got your hopes up, then they didn't deliver - I'm a firm believer in following through with promises, if you can't, don't make 'em.

For the record, you're far better than average in the looks dept. And any guy would be lucky to meet you, let alone have you.
XoXoX


ArealUnicorn 44F

9/3/2006 11:39 am

wow artistray very kind words thxs a lot...life it funny that way tho isn't it...the lies that they tell...affect more then just me tho...it's like a ripple in a pond it expands....


InopsPetitMeads 61M
282 posts
9/4/2006 10:25 am

roflmao....."off to search for a spine".....I love that....


ArealUnicorn 44F

9/4/2006 11:31 am

well Nick I have my own but I would like a spare....


rm_tryyouharder 48M
22 posts
9/9/2006 6:54 pm

Damned shame it takes you so long to find a real man when there are so many out here that could make you happy. Just keep your fingers crossed and your legs open (for the right one). I know you haven't been looking for someone like me, but the right gentleman for you will come along, I promise.


ArealUnicorn 44F

9/10/2006 9:47 am

try you oh I know just these loosers that keep standing me and other woman up need a boot in the bum....


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