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OK I gave in...
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May 17, 2007 5:56 pm
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I was not going to renew my membership fee here on Adult FriendFinder, but I gave in. I have decided that I am not going to allow this website take up family time. So if you drop me a line, wink, or hotlist me and I do not respond right away do not take it personally. I will respond to all messages it just may take me a day or two to get back to you.
Hope this finds you all doing well...
Annie
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Love/Hate Relationship
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May 2, 2007 7:37 pm
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My membership is coming up due again here on Adult FriendFinder and I love meeting the new people, but I hate the time that it is taking away from my son.
I have not at this time decided to or not to renew my membership.
Things I hate about Adult FriendFinder:
1) Guys think that just because I am here I just want a piece of ass (not all but hey this is a sex site).
2) The amount of time I spend on this site, checking out who has visited my profile, read my blogs, and who took the time to write me a message, wink, or hot list me. I respond to everybody.
Things I like about Adult FriendFinder:
1) I have made some good friends most of them are just that friends not Friends with Benefits.
2) I love blogging, writing about what is on my mind no matter what the topic. I also enjoy the positive and negative responses.
3) I enjoy posting pictures taken by my very best friend.
What about you? Tell me what you like or dislike about Adult FriendFinder.
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Chances of getting Laid?
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Apr 29, 2007 11:00 am
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I so enjoyed reading this post that I lifted it straight out of bad_assed_witch blog.
I felt the need to spill my guts on this one, because I have had success on the site, and have heard so much about how stupid some guys here can be from each of these women.
1. Most importantly, you will not get laid within minutes of joining this site. I was on here, actively, for 3 months before meeting someone in person. Don't think you are going to get laid here any faster than you might at a bar one night. Sex does not come that easily and if you are a loser in real life, you're going to be a loser here. If you don't make a girl feel comfortable, you will not succeed. (don't talk about sex within 2 seconds of getting her IM name) Talk to them and LISTEN, her mind is her main sex organ. Set yourself apart from other guys, just look through a few other guys' profiles and see whats in there, it doesn't mean you're gay to look at someone else's profile.
2. Yes, there are real women on this site. There are alot of fakes, yes. You can spot most fakes very easily though if you pay attention;
-a fake almost never has any friends
-has an extremely hot picture, that looks professional....though I have MET some women who had this, they amount to 1% of the women on the site
-has their birthday in their name
-will reply to your email as 'yes i'm interested in talking more' and then you'll get no further response
-advertises their cam in chat, and says nothing else
-sends you a wink (though this is rare) in response to yours, or hotlists you continuously without ever replying to any email
-asks for your email/contact info in their profile....you are stupid if you give it to them, in fact, don't put your email address or phone number on here period, anywhere
-asks for every picture you have, and has some other quality listed above....your picture just got used in another fake profile dummy
-occasionally you will meet some sicko who is appearing to do everything right, talks on IM to you, phone, my space, etc....and is still fake...so until you meet someone in person do not be stupid and open yourself to identity theft
3. Read their damn profile. Show them you read it and respond to whats in there, with one caveat...e.g., if its "i just want alot of cum"...don't tell them you just want to give them plenty. Don't tell her what you're going to do to her. In person you may be a funny guy, but your personality probably doesn't come across well on line, so if you know you are not going to appear to be in her league, don't waste your time. I realize that some put basically nothing in their profiles, or just use the damned Adult FriendFinder form profile, but you should at least TRY to talk to them like normal women.
Guess what, if she says she's looking for women, then she's looking for WOMEN. So leave her the hell alone if she doesn't want a guy.
4. Take down your cock pics. I know from each woman I've met or even talked to, that they hate seeing it. Guys, you know what one looks like don't you? Don't you think they all look the same? She's got to look at your FACE first, remember that. If you are hideous she's getting nowhere near your cock! If SHE is the hideous one or she actually does go for your cock, then you should hear a voice in your head saying "Run Forrest RUN!"
5. Don't be a stalker, or a LEGHUMPER. If she does not reply to your 1st email within about a week, don't hound her with several more. Some girls get tons of mail to sift through, and some might actually forget to answer yours. You might get away with trying a 2nd, but no further than that.
6. Just because she accepts your friend invite does not mean she wants to bang you. Some do it for the same reason why people invite 10,000 people to be their friends on myspace....i.e., just so they look cool...Some may do it because she likes the picture, but don't assume she'll fuck you.
7. Participate in the site and learn about women. Spend a week in the magazine and you see the same questions come up, but you might learn. Look at the blogs, but realize some are just full of stories or other bullshit. Start your own and get them to notice you. Try the chat rooms. I have noticed some guys get on and ask "any girls in xxxx area?" and say nothing to anyone when there aren't.....why don't you just talk normally and chat a few up, show you have a personality and you could succeed.
8. Insist to meet in public, and be a man, stand by your word. Honesty goes a long way in all things. She'll know if you're a liar, probably before any talk of meeting. Maybe she'll talk about you later in her blog or somewhere else, and any guy with half a brain knows that this is a good thing if she has something good to say.
9. Be upfront about what YOU expect from the site. Most have appreciated that from me. Even the most meat headed guy will admit to himself that if he meets a girl here who rocks his world and gets along great with him, that he would not stick to his "Just friends with benefits" preference. 99% of women aren't going to meet some guy for a one-nighter and never want to speak to him again.
10. Do NOT be pushy about meeting, or insisting on contact info or pictures. Its fair to ask about face pictures if she doesn't post one, but don't be a leghumper.
Finally, offer to be her friend. Fuck-and-forget rarely happens.
Are you getting what you want from this site ? Why ?
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OK I admit it...I am BORED and HORNY
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Apr 7, 2007 3:04 pm
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OK, I admit it, I am bored and really horny, to make matters worse this weather is not helping any (cold and rainy)...this is the type of weather that I love to spend in bed in a mans arms, making sweet love, sleeping, and making love again and again. >>!
At least if it was sunny and warm outside I could work off my frustrations some other way...but that would be asking too much it would seem, as the weather is going to be like this all weekend.
So I guess I will have to lay in my bed all by myself and play with my BOB.
Hugs and Kisses to you all...
 
Annie
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What does "Whatever" mean to you?
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Feb 4, 2007 11:06 am
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Whatever is what I say when:
1) What I want to say will be taken wrong
2) I am hurt by what you said
3) I am flirting with you
4) I give up and tired of fighting for what I want
5) Not sure how to answer as that there is no good answer to a tough question.
6) To the fucking mind games that everybody plays.
7) You are so full of shit
So to those who really wonder what I mean when I say "whatever" will have to figure this out on their own as that I will be whatever I want.
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