Life sucks  

Angeleyez1906 30F
5 posts
5/25/2006 6:46 am

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5/25/2006 6:41 pm

Life sucks


I was on my way to a very good thing a few months ago. I had a steady income, my own place, great friends, and a really sweet guy to vent to, even though we weren't dating. And now, i'm back living with mom, i'm this close to getting fired, my hours are dropping, that sweet guy isn't talking to me, and i have 2 friends total. I still don't know quite what happened. It was just, boom. All of a sudden, my life turned around. The weird part is, nothing major happened to make it that way. I'm just confused.

ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/25/2006 8:00 am

Angeleyez, I've been in your shoes before and I can assure you things will get better. I don't know about your job ordeal but i've been there too. Irregardless of what happens, keep your dignity, remain positive, remember things happen for a reason, even though understanding the reasons is not always clear. You have nearly a full life ahead of you. People in your life will come and go. Friends will stay thru thick and thin. Ask yourself these questions. Am I happy with myself? Do I need to to change my ways? Am I a good communicator? Am I willing to listen when someone speaks? Do people do the same for me? Am I easy to get along with? Do I like what I see everyday in the mirror? Am I willing to change if I have to? Do I have a positive attitude? If stuck in a rut are you willing to make a change? Remember change is and can be good if you are willing to make a change.I have a phrase I really like."Accept people for who they are and not what you want them to be." I hope this may help you.


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/25/2006 8:05 am

Angeleyez, I've been in your shoes before and I can assure you things will get better. I don't know about your job ordeal but i've been there too. Irregardless of what happens, keep your dignity, remain positive, remember things happen for a reason, even though understanding the reasons is not always clear. You have nearly a full life ahead of you. People in your life will come and go. Friends will stay thru thick and thin. Ask yourself these questions. Am I happy with myself? Do I need to to change my ways? Am I a good communicator? Am I willing to listen when someone speaks? Do people do the same for me? Am I easy to get along with? Do I like what I see everyday in the mirror? Am I willing to change if I have to? Do I have a positive attitude? If stuck in a rut, are you willing to make a change? Remember change is and can be good if you are willing to make a change.I have a phrase I really like."Accept people for who they are and not what you want them to be." I hope this may help you.


ososober1 41M
69 posts
5/25/2006 8:06 am

life is kinda like that, im the same way, do not let it get you down otherwise it could spell disater

last year, i thought i had my life sorted,

then one year ago, (august 2005) my life turned upside down, first, the best man at my wedding marrige broke up, this in turn casue events in my life to change, and so did my marrige, we sold our house and went our seperate ways.

i am also currently living with my mum and dad, although it is as far i can see temporary, with little or no friends, with me I work 6-7 days a week 10+ hours a day (small business owner) and also no girlfriend or lover in sight.

so, life is not all that bad, just think, you still have a job and people that care for you, iof you can focus on these then your life will surley turn around.

keep focused and positive.

Ososober


rm_wwyd4me 36M

5/25/2006 11:56 am

everyone has there moments where things seem to just slip away. The key is to stay positive and keep smiling. It is unbelieveable how a little smile will change your day. So look at the good things that are happening in your life, stop and smell some flowers, watch a sunset, just relax and enjoy what you do have and forget about what you don't.


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