It amazes me.  

Angel_ii 53F
1226 posts
7/19/2006 1:32 pm

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7/19/2006 11:44 pm

It amazes me.

It truly amazes me, the number of profiles that I read, where a man is looking for sex, because their wive, is not giving him sex. I have talked to a few of these men, and I have made great friends with one or two. Maybe there is a whole bunch of woman out there that are on AdultFriendFinder also that are not getting sex either, I don’t read many of their profiles.

Here is my issues, why are so many woman, not having sex, being in the situation I am in, I can understand the I am tired and several other factors lead into not always wanting sex. But in all honesty, no matter how tired I am, frustrated, or pissed of at someone, usually a teenage daughter. Sex is one of the most relaxing things I can do. I have at least one usually several orgasms, and I know the person I am with has enjoyed themselves, I sleep better, I feel better, emotional and physical and also the feeling that I get from have sex with someone I care about makes me feel warm and fuzzy all over. OK, that just sounds sappy.

Are these women that disinterested in sex? Do these women think that if the don’t have sex once in a while with their husbands, that they wont got looking someplace else? Men like sex. They enjoy the connection as much as a woman does. Sure a man can masturbate, so can a woman, but its not as fulfilling as feeling a person’s warm body next to you, feeling someone else’s touch, their lips caress over your body. I can masturbate ever day and yes that will give me the sexual satisfaction, but it does not give me the emotional satisfaction, I truly enjoy.


fantasylover_05 62M

7/19/2006 2:19 pm


There are of course MANY reasons for the sexual issues.....

Men (or at least this one) do also crave the deep intimacy and connection which is deeped with sex!!

I wish I had your answers because then I would be able to fix my own damn problems!

Frankly36867 65M

7/19/2006 2:26 pm

It is an age old and women enjoy the rush of adrenalin from meeting someone for the first time. The sexual response is a catalyst for feeling alive and in the society we live in today with all the stimulants exposing us to the opposite sex, it is addictive and hard to overcome, this need to conquer and to have the freedom to explore. Civilizations go through cycles where hedonism is like is what makes the world go around...and I enjoy being like a spinning i sfun, this carousel of life.

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
7/19/2006 2:31 pm

Perhaps these women are getting their needs fullfilled elsewhither? Maybe these men are nicer to you than they are to their spouses? Perhaps their wives loathe them so much they'd rather go without sex?
After all, you are only hearing one side of the story.

Oh well, ya never know...

Blog On!

AstirRelicLatah 64M
1993 posts
7/19/2006 7:57 pm

It's not just the sex, it's the passion with sex. Having sex with no passion is similar to masturbating. It gets you off, helps make you relaxed, but doesn't scratch the itch or need for feeling fully alive.

Snuggling, holding, caressing are wonderful, whether you have good sex or not. All the above makes you feel loved and warm. If you can add passionate, full body sex to the mix, it's at a different level. Sometimes, we love and like our partners. Sometimes the passion leaves. It's when the passion somehow gets rekindled, we forgot we it's all about.

May not be a great answer, but it's one that rings true today.

rm_Jezdatip 64F
1335 posts
7/19/2006 11:28 pm

Seduce me with warmth and kindness outside the bedroom and I will be your best fantasy inside the bedroom. There maybe a partner who criticize and nag the other for hours on end, then hop into bed expecting arousing kisses, caresses and good sex.

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