WHY??????????????????????  

AngelEyes19777 39F
4 posts
8/25/2006 12:21 am

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8/30/2006 5:42 pm

WHY??????????????????????


I never understood why men didn't really go for some of the shy girls that they knew. I mean the shy ones are the ones that are most likely to be the most sexual, why do men only go for the good looking women? Why not go for the ones that aren't really that hot? It's most likely that those women are going to be the ones that are most sexual, maybe they don't look like super models but they are still pretty whe they let their hair down and take their glasses off. Why not go for the women that are sentative or tender hearted, why not go for the women that you only look at once and say ok she's not bad but I would want someone that looks diffrebt for this reason or another. Well let me tell you guys something ok, the girls that you are really looking for don't really exist, Ok it would be nice for you guys to actually meet up with these girls and then you wouldn't have to worry about us girls that only get looked at every once in a while but think about this at least when you go for a girl that actually has feelings or that don't look like super models you don't have to worry abouther finding someone better than you, you know the whole well he's ok but I want something better. He'll do for now but once I find that more good looking person he's gone. See the other girls won't cheat, Why you ask? Well because it's us plain girls that really know what it feels like to have been cheated on by a guy that wants to have someone that looks better but I promise you this they won't treat you better.....

economickrisis 54M

8/25/2006 1:05 am

What agreat first post. Welcome to the blogs.

Some of us actually prefer women who are shy or reserved, so expect the unexpected in here


LoneTraveler4U 47M
1 post
8/27/2006 1:21 pm

Good post but I to am attracted to shy, quiet women also.

Also, to be fair, a lot of women do the same thing. I can go through the profiles here at AdultFriendFinder and find lots of women who say they are looking for guys that look like this or that. It's not solely a flaw of men, but a flaw of mankind, in general.

Yes, I admit, the first thing I notice about a women is their looks and since I don't know them as person, that's all I have to go by. But, if I were to meet 2 women one night and got to know both, I would choose personality over looks.

I am a quiet, shy person myself and can honestly say that women do the same thing. I have watched guys I know to be rude, self absorbed, asses get approached often by women because they are better looking and/or life of the party kinda guys. Meanwhile, I sit back in my chair or play pool without getting a second glance.

So, now that I think about it, it's not so mmuch the 'hot' people who get attention, just because they are hot. Maybe they get the attention because they are the most confident and outgoing ones and therefor are noticed more than those of us who are reserved and quiet.

Anyway, just my 2 cents worth. Sorry, didn't mean for reply to go this long, lol!!!


rm_ascbarehugg 58M
4 posts
9/17/2006 9:07 pm

Been trying to get up with you for a month.(((((((((((((((((((Hugggggggggggs)))))))))))


rm_ascbarehugg 58M
4 posts
9/25/2006 4:39 pm

Maybe because when someone writes a personal email and it never gets read or answered he has no choice but to loose the good thoughts and move on!!


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