My friend, My lover.............. part 2  

Angel21 37F
69 posts
10/9/2005 5:56 pm

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My friend, My lover.............. part 2

Well, we spent some time together tonight. And...........

SURPRISE, SURPRISE, the tension was there. So I guess, either you're lovers or you're best friends, but you can't be both.

Tonight we discussed it, at both of us can't get to the right decision. We want to be together, but yet I'm married, and he understands that. But we so badly wanna spend every waking moment of the day with each other.
So what the hell am I supposed to do now????? Our friendship isn't tarnished by us sleeping together, it just got stronger. We'll sit in a crowd and share that 'knowing' look...... that brush against each other or just that unexpected touch..... JY WEET MOS!!!

Tonight we even ventured away from our normal visiting spot just to spend some time alone....
He told me he loves me and I told him that I felt the same.

He knows about my sexual appetite, and promised me that he could keep up and that I wouldn't need AdultFriendFinder to keep me busy. DECISIONS DECISIONS..... Then he says he's even prepared to share my AdultFriendFinder experiences with me. I showed him my AdultFriendFinder profile tonight, and all he did was smile.

What am I supposed to do?? Is it LOVE or LUST? Nobody knows the answer better than I do, cause it's definitely something, but I'm to scared to face my true feelings!!! It just feels so unfair, sharing myself between 2 guys that I really feel strongly about them... My hubby and my friend.

MY FRIEND, MY LOVER..... still not sure. Could he be both??? One never knows, maybe he could be both, or maybe just one of the two. All I know, is that he's prepared to share my life with me no matter what!!

snooker96692 53M

10/9/2005 7:07 pm

Please let me know how it works out. I am presently going through the same experience in that my friend is my lover. A warning will enter a phase where you compare your lover with your husband and will eventually find the comparisoms disappointing. You will be depressed at times, happy, sad, elated, orgasmic, and then sad when you have to leave him an return back to your husband. you will woonder where in the hell is this all going? Should I leave him? Is this lust or love or both?

Your lover will pay you complements while your husband treats you the same as yesterday. you debate whether to share your secrets or keep them contained. You may want to run away with him/her or scream to the world you love them.

You will feel alone when surrounded by people. Yes, it will be difficult, but also full of fun and adventure.

Can you love two people at once. Perhaps you love your husband but you are IN love with your friend.

I am also prepared to share my life with my lover.

My dear, be prepared for a wild ride of emotions. Take care and good luck to you in your journey.

rm_hungry4it5 53M
58 posts
10/11/2005 4:20 am

good for you that you made the transition...NOW the trick is NOT to ruin the FRIENDSHIP...bit of work required but having read your other blogs i'm sure you will pull through....

richardgere1962 54M
7 posts
10/18/2005 12:26 am

Hey Angel, keep your husband seperate from all your other "endeavours"- you obviously never started out wanting to leave your husband, don't let it be a consideration now. maybe you need another lover to compare with your friend - I'd be more than willing to give you a wild and fulfilling time. available and longing to make you horny. Maybe I can even throw some light on your dark decisions. Would love to thrill you.....

Cloaked_ 42M
1 post
10/18/2005 5:26 am

Well let me give you some real good honoust advise. I have been in that situation and it makes it extremely complex. See once you are prepare to enter a world of fun and games you must understand that you need to be strong in mind body and soul. The friend you are refering too only wants to fuck you. Yes he might have feelings too but is he really commited? Secondly it is obvious that you LOVE your HUBBY and have very strong feelings for him. PLAY THE GAME! dont let the game play you.


restong 37M

10/19/2005 6:30 am

whats your phone number

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