Friends/Lovers definite NO  

Angel21 37F
69 posts
10/19/2005 11:59 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Friends/Lovers definite NO

OK, so some said it could work, and some said it can't. Now I'm starting to believe that it can't! I love him, he loves me, but we both know we started something that won't take us anywhere. And it's unfair of me to expect him to be with me, while i've gotta devide my time between him and my husband.
And a casual affair is the last thing we want from each other. It's either everything or nothing. I love my friend but it's time to let him go, and allow him to go on with his life.

Today it's been 4 days since I've seen him and it hurts, but keeping my distance is the best answer I think....

Saturday we had our last intimate moment.... and it will last me a lifetime!!!!!

rm_JDX_x_X 40M
6 posts
10/20/2005 6:57 am

Hi there Cute Angel21

I am sorry to hear about your miss fortunit predicament. My mother use to say u made youre bed now sleep init.

It`s harse words but its true. We always tend to seek a bid excitement in our lives and then tend to get to emotionaly involved. You did a brave thing in giving him his freedom and by doing that you did get some back for youre self.

Its only human to get atached to people hope you survive the ordeal.

Best of luck.

Angel21 37F

10/20/2005 12:43 pm

There was always emotional involvement from both sides. Remember we've been "best" friends for a long time. We never asked for our feelings to turn into LOVE, it just did!
Yeah, I made my bed, and I'll sleep in it!!!

rm_JDX_x_X 40M
6 posts
10/21/2005 1:45 am


How are u doing, are you ok?

rm_hungry4it5 53M
58 posts
10/25/2005 5:45 am

sorry om te hoor dat julle dit moet 'laat gaan'....but it may open 'new' doors...not saying it'll be the same ...if you know what i mean...LOL

rm_082HMHSS1D 33M
1 post
10/25/2005 10:31 am

Hi there,

I’m sorry that you had to experience this, forbidden love tends to eat us from the inside, especially when we can't really talk about it. We can't really choose who we fall in love with. Eat lots of ice-cream.

Honestly hope you feel better soon.

rm_hungry4it5 53M
58 posts
10/28/2005 4:42 am

angel???? very quiet....any prob's....? i hope not....hear from you soon

naughtyboy9005 49M

11/8/2005 8:57 pm

May your days be filled with joy and laughter cause you made the right decision!

equitiestrader 49M

11/9/2005 6:31 am

Hi Angel,
Sorry to hear about your pain. I am also married and that is the single thing that worries me most, emotional attachment. If in future you start feeling these emotions, cut the relationship immediately to avoid the same thing happening again.

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