Friend or ?????  

Angel21 37F
69 posts
9/19/2005 1:50 am

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Friend or ?????

Oh my gosh!!! I have this excellent friend, we talk about anything and everything. Some nights he keeps me up for hours just talking. Not that I complain, cause I really enjoy it!
But now there's one teeny little problem. This morning I realized that there's so much sexual tension between the two of us!! WHAT NOW?? Can a good friendship like ours last, if we had to sleep together? We always use to joke that "Friends don't do Friends"
We see each other every single day!!! How do go from here? I know, it can't stay with that one kiss we shared.......

DukieZA 46M

9/19/2005 7:10 am

Well you will always wounder and maybe it works maybe it dosent. You have to decide do you want to take a chance.

keenone62 55M

9/19/2005 8:12 am

tough one...i slept with a friend, turned out ok, we repeated our performances a few times then decided that the sexual attraction/tension was out of our systems & we reverted to the friendship, which is still very much on the go, so in my instance, it worked, but ot could go the other way as well...

MadF2005 46M

9/20/2005 10:31 pm

Hi Angel... Go for it and shag your brains out!!! You don't want to get to 35, look back and say i should have shaged that friend!!!!

rm_MajesterZA 46M
5 posts
9/21/2005 5:49 pm

I have successfully done two friends before. The important part is to talk alot up front and more afterwards. As long as you're both clear about respecting each other's reaction to the new arrangement, you are unlikely to lose the friendship if it doesn't work out. Problems only come up when one of you gets hung up on the other. In both cases, it was great, but not what we were looking for - and we agreed to reset our relationship to good friendship sans the sexual tension. We're still buddies after 10 years.

123partytime 33M
2 posts
9/24/2005 2:49 pm

Dont sleep with him no matter how much tension you have. Believe me from experience, it really screws things up. (excuse the pun). There are so many guys on this site looking for sex, it is unbeleavable. Go on let your hair down, go and get your rocks off.

rm_hungry4it5 53M
58 posts
9/26/2005 11:52 pm

difficult .....but friends "help" friends....if you know what i mean...LOL

Mavericman2004 41M
3 posts
10/5/2005 6:13 am

This is never easy. from experience it can go both ways as the comments above. I have had two fortunate f-buddy's where it was all about sex with no complications after but I had a good friend who I ended up having incredible sex with after a number of 'nearly's' and we don't talk really anymore. What can end changing the relationship is that after the fact somebody invaribly realises that they feel more for the freshly satisfied friend. So one person is going "that was so cool, we should do it more often because it really helps during a dry spell or in between relationships and the sex was great" but the other is thinking "I realise now I love him/her". Here ends the friendship!.

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