Excited about a new life..............  

Angel195649 60F
26 posts
11/30/2005 2:35 am

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Excited about a new life..............

So far, even though this site has proven to be odd at times in the past, I am hopeful this is what I need to do. Have the courage to reach out to new people.


semperfi2u 46M
129 posts
12/1/2005 9:23 am

With that smile, I think you’ll have no problem touching whoever you want! Best wishes on your site.


Angel195649 60F
11 posts
12/2/2005 3:26 pm

I've found a couple of lost people from 2 years ago. Both married and I've changed my attitude about casual meetings with married men. They never stay casual. At least not here which probably makes sense. The site has changed. It wasn't always strictly about sex. You could have a lot of friends of the opposite sex. I think it's what you make of it.


Angel195649 60F
11 posts
12/2/2005 3:30 pm

I've found three people I'm fond of from a couple of years ago. Two are married and I've found it's difficult for men to remain just my FRIEND. I suppose that's the nature of the site. And my pictures possibly.I won't see married men anymore under these cicumstances, so maybe I'm in the wrong place. We'll see.TA


Angel195649 60F
11 posts
12/7/2005 1:16 am

I just realized I said casual meetings with married men. I didn't mean it like it sounds. Not sexual, just dinner,etc. Married men don't do well with me on a platonic basis. So far, no one responds much to these blogs. They're kind of confusing.


rm_tender58 56M

12/9/2005 8:36 pm

Why don't men do well with you on a platonic basis? Perhaps, just perhaps, you should seek new and different men rather than the same old, some old


Angel195649 60F
11 posts
12/11/2005 1:26 am

Hi, In response to an inability to have platonic male friendships by Tender58, I have focused on this subject since I left that remark and you are 100% right. In my 50 years on earth (O.K., 49 1/2)I have come to realize that I have chosen the same type of people: possesive, controlling, insecure, co-dependent,etc. I was a late bloomer, maybe even though I completed college and vocational schools I'm also a slow learner. Seventeen of those years were devoted to marriages, add 7 years of engagements to the same marriages, and 21 years building a business,and that doesn't leave much time for intuitive introspection. Did I mention a 5 year custody battle??? No wonder I feel like that's the way life IS. This blog thing might actually make me happy. Thanks to everyone who has commented on my blogs. I have to admit I have felt better since I've been captaining my own ship. Maybe these final years of my life will be a relief vs. a concern. That would be a welcome relief. Angel195649


Angel195649 60F
11 posts
12/11/2005 4:07 am

Thanks for the offer BossRoss69. How did you know the man I spend time with has to cook? I must have written it in here somewhere. He really doesn't HAVE to cook. I just retired after 27 years of it, including large parties for every birthday, holiday, baptism, etc. It's a HUGE plus if he likes to cook. I like to clean and iron, so I hope I'm able to work something out. Can someone tell me what's the member voting supposed to tell me? There goes another tell all idiot question from an educated blonde. I guess it might have something to do with declining I.Q.points as the color is applied to the scalp. I'm sure I offended someone there. It was supposed to be self deprecating????


Angel195649 60F
11 posts
12/11/2005 4:19 am

I wanted to post a blog about verifying identity and safety on line. I just experienced a member stalking me to the point he was able to get my cell phone number and come asking for me in a public place I had just left after making it clear I wanted no contact. He didn't live where his profile stated, I have no idea where he got the phone number and luckily he posted a picture (it's him) in his profile. It's still under investigation, but the police think he's using a different name. An astute employee knew who I was and confirmed his photo after contacting me. I'm lucky that employee knew me. Has anyone else had anything like this happen? You really need to be careful.A


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