AlanShore63 93M
9 posts
4/12/2005 11:20 am

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Okay, so does anyone REALLY read this stuff. I find it a little hard to believe that anyone who care enough to delve into the life, thoughts and musings of someone they don't know. Oh sure, there may be a FEW people who know that person, but if the relationship is nor exactly IRL, than its hard to say you truly know the person well.

Okay, so why am I on here...? Apart from bordom, it's hard to say, In some ways, I would love to think that I could be like ever other male and just have discreet encounters with people I don't know that well, and think nothing of it. However, I have learned that for me, this is simply not the case. It seems that some of the women here are more detached about it than I am. For some reason, sex just isn't enough. I prefer love to mere sex.

While I can't say that I am exactly surprized about the vast preponderance of "cock shots" on here, I must admit that I am sorry to see that more guys aren't the slightest bit discreet about such things. And, I also have to say that there are some mighty large cocks on here! It make us averages guys a little bit intimidated, thinking that that's is really want a woman looks for. E.g. that size really DOES matter. (Well maybe that's just my own insecurity...) I guess it might be the same feeling that some women whob are smaller breasted may feel.

Still I am faced with the fact that I am a bit short by the standards of what most women look for. (In stature I mean) Being only 5'8", it makes it difficult to fulfill the basic "requirements" that women like to put forth, of a man being "over 6'". (It's a bit hard to be a woman's "knight in shinning armour" when you are 5'8' or shorter.

I am also personally annoyed with the fact that I have seen SEVERAL guys on here who are nothing short of brazen about it all. No finesse at all. Maybe all men are dogs after all.

So if some of this bugs me, you may well ask why I am here. Honestly, besides boredom, I honestly don't know. Sometimes it's hard for even ME to know my own motivations.

I guess the short answer is that I was kicked to the curb in the middle of 2004 and have still not completely recovered from that. (More on that in another posting.) I can only surmise that it's all about killing time. And such diversions are usually quite welcomed. Otherwise the chronic depression takes hold. (Maybe more on that another time as well...)

So here I will end my very first entry, of my very frist blog, ANYWHERE on the net.

playfulwithyou33 56F
961 posts
4/12/2005 5:33 pm

Let me be the first to welcome you to blog. As for why people read/post...sometimes its fun to see that other people are as whacked as yourself? For me, the internet is fun for several reasons...while I goof off in the real world, the internet opens up other people to me that I would be unlikely to have met otherwise...A fair number of smart, creative, sassy folk available in a small space (the monitor); and I can play in my negligee instead of having to constantly be dressed...LOL

Cathleen (Catt)

playfulwithyou33 56F
961 posts
4/12/2005 5:35 pm

And regarding size? Skill baby, skill...

rm_Almondnut 42F
115 posts
4/12/2005 9:03 pm

you need to blog more then....I find it very relaxing to post about the daily things and get it off my chest. Also, its very entertaining to read what people post (well, except for the mindless sex stories/bragging posts..those are dull)

GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11240 posts
4/13/2005 4:01 am

Welcome to blog land

And as for 'size'... it's about what playful says.... and about what tools you have and how you use them... so skills again

Hope you have fun

AlanShore63 93M

4/14/2005 4:00 am

Thank you all for your kind comments. Yes, I realize its all about what you do with what you have. However guys DO get mixed signals about size mattering. For those men who are well endowed, its not really an issue. But for those of us of average size, well, as you said, all you can do is what you can do.

Anyway, thanks for reading and thanks for your comments. Hope you come back again.

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
4/17/2005 8:33 am

Hello Alan and Hail! I saw several of your comments in other blogs that I regularly visit and I liked how you express yourself. So I followed the link above your picture to discover your blog and see what it would be like. (just to let you know how people find you and that blogging works). Now I am off to read the rest of your posts. Blog On!

AlanShore63 93M

9/29/2005 3:43 pm

Almondnut: I am sorry that I probably did not respond to you post. I honestly haven't blogged since April, but there has been a ton of upheavale. How everI am back although it is on a limited basis.

Unlike you, I don't find blogging as cathartic. When it comes down to more serious feelings I am less inclined to be so forth coming. I know lots of people write stories of thing that are happen that are usually liitle consequince. When I write, I do try to share a little, but I don't want bloging for me to end up like an online journal. So, when I DO write, I try to at least write something somewhat humorous in its style.

Would love to hear from you again if you are so inclined. Hope things for you are well.

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