Ak_Sex_Lover4u 72M
18 posts
7/10/2006 7:39 pm

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10/20/2007 11:27 am


Boy, am I having a heck of a time tring to hook up with people. I really think other single guys have messed it up for me. I ask singles and couples to meet for a cup of coffee or a drink to see how we feel about each other and see if we want to go futher. They turn me down before they even meet me. How does someone decide they don't like someone, until they meet them? I do realise that women and couples are bomb-barted with notes from single men, but when we are a 100% match, at least here on AdultFriendFinder, why not meet and THEN see how you feel. Very frustrating, especally when everyone I meet likes me. Again, just a thought.

amoldenough 69F
16436 posts
7/10/2006 8:13 pm

You ask the same question as do a lot of men or women on here. I don't know the answer. Myself, I have just recntly turned off my profile because of some of the emails I have gotten. I had the opportunity to meet someone from my area last week. I ended up not going because I could tell by some of his comments that I would be "pressed for sex" and I don't like that. If it had been a lunch that I felt would be just a lunch to see if we liked each other, I probably would have gone. I don't know if any of this will help or not. This is just my own experience.

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lilluv_54 64M
102 posts
8/17/2006 4:42 pm

As a married couple we have had the problem with having a LOT of answers from single men...and married men. We don't have a problem meeting with someone but guys, if you are married and you have your wifes permission to fool around bring her with you so we can hear it from her. If you are just cheating on her....don't bother.

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