My first post  

Adrian1331 41F
106 posts
8/29/2005 4:28 pm

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My first post

Well I have a blog I might as well use it huh? Though I don't know what to say... being shy can make that tough sometimes. Maybe some of you have some suggestions on how to get over shyness.. I'm up for almost anything if it works.

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
8/29/2005 4:55 pm

welcome to blog land,just be your self on here,no ones is going to bite you,just have fun with it,

I'm a

i'm here to stay

Adrian1331 41F

8/30/2005 3:36 pm

I know, I was just hopin for some suggestions, haha I guess no one has any..

huntergatherr 55M

8/31/2005 4:28 am

Hi. Shy too. The key, I think is to be willing to put yourself out there, which you clearly are. Are you really shy, or just being flirty? I'm shy because I fear looking the fool. I've looked the fool so many times, you'd think I'd be over it. The more I make peace with being a fool, the more fun I am.
Wanna do something foolish, like go to a strip club with total strangers? My girlfriend and I are going to the Skyway Thursday night. Why not join us at eight? Perhaps we'll all feel foolish.

huntergatherr 55M

9/1/2005 11:30 pm

... or not.

Geobach03 50M

9/2/2005 5:08 pm

To get past my shyness, I try to make the first move. That sets the bar for the next move. If you make a mistake learn from it and try again. From your profile you have nothing to worry about.

Adrian1331 41F

9/2/2005 6:51 pm

i met someone tonight... he seems nice... BUT only time will tell... and I have plenty to worry about,, I'm very shy

rm_redhunter14 38M

9/3/2005 12:48 am

Hey you met more then one person I talked to ya in chat, clicked on loal blogs and here ya are Just have fun and give it time, you will be able to open more and say more as you get use to it...or so I hear

playtime44uandi 53M
6545 posts
9/3/2005 1:29 am

Hello Adrian, I couldnt help but notice you in the groups section. Its nice to know someone else in the group likes the bronco's too. Living in cleveland is can be rough on denver fans. lol... Sounds like youve made the first step twards getting past your shyness. Meeting poeple hear can be fun. I met someone friday too. Had a nice time. You can talk to me if you like, I'll do my best to make you feel comfortable.

~We'll Leave The Light On~

Geobach03 50M

9/3/2005 9:14 am

Great to hear!! Just relax and be yourself. There is no better you than you! Have a great time in this game called life! There are no redo's

Landof10KLicks 55M

9/5/2005 6:49 pm

Hi Adrian! It might sound like a cliche, but in my experience, confronting your fears is the best way to overcome them. Being shy is easy enough to beat if you just decide you're going to do it. I used to be very self-conscious about talking to woman, but realized the worse she could say to me was that she wasn't interested. I also realized that I might be missing out on something special if I let my inhibitions rule me, and I always keep that in the back of my mind when I see someone I like and want to talk to them. I'd rather live with the rejection of being shot down than the sense of regret for what might have been.

Starting here on the internet is the perfect way to overcome this, because its all about conversation, not judgement based on appearance. If you run across someone rude or insensitive, you can always move on and talk to someone else. Good luck!

charismasix 44M

9/6/2005 6:03 pm

Here is the thing. When you feel shy you have a way of thinking about it. As an experiment do what makes you feel shy. So as an example if asking a stranger what time it is makes you a little nervous do that.

Get a pen and paper just before you ask a stranger what time it is write down what you are thinking. I have found that I hear a voice in my head and I have a picture of something in my mind.

I don't know what your experience is, write down what you are feeling and thinking. That is the first step - you will probably be surprised what is in your head and you are not even aware of it.

Tell me if you have a physical feeling or a sound or a picture or some combination. You don't have to tell me specifics if you don't want then I can give you further steps.


Adrian1331 41F

9/6/2005 7:34 pm

Thanks for the advice guys... Still workin on the shyness

Sorry about the strip club night huntergatherr... I'd need to go with someone if I were to do that.

Red? I hope you are right, cause I'm still just as nervous as the 1st time.. lol

Hey playtime.. Would love to talk sometime, love the broncos.. almost moved to Denver actually.

Geoback, me? make the 1st move?? I dont think so!!!!! not gonna happen, LoL!

Hi land, thanks for the good luck,, I think I'm going to need it.!

Adrian1331 41F

9/6/2005 11:01 pm

Hey Earl.. odd, your message wasn't there when I replied earlier... I will try out what you said, thanks

playtime44uandi 53M
6545 posts
9/9/2005 8:37 am

So when did you almost move to Denver? What stopped you. I had a hard time moving away from the mountains. But in Denver, I couldnt find the job I have now in Cleveland. So I guess I cant complain. A little give & a little take. Right! I'd love to talk to you more too. I'll try to Email you. But it does take a small miricle for me to be able to do that. Will the site let you email?

~We'll Leave The Light On~

charismasix 44M

9/12/2005 5:40 pm

You can also drop me an IM on the big Y if you like. Since I am not a gold member anymore we can't write here wetlazer on yahoo.

rm_bond19652 48M

10/22/2005 6:22 pm

Adrian, its ok to be shy, the main thing is be yourself...shyness is a very refreshing thing and a very very attractive quaulity... beleive finding a shy woman on this website would be quite adorable and be yourself, take care, Brad

charismasix 44M

12/13/2005 5:02 pm

You never told me if my advice worked?

Adrian1331 41F

12/13/2005 6:09 pm

I didn't try it, sorry.. I can't talk to someone I don't know.. I'm scared I will sound silly

Adrian1331 41F

12/13/2005 6:28 pm

Actually... I can't say that I haven't.. But I was pretty drunk when I did, so that doens't count, lol

rm_larry3163 66M

12/24/2005 7:31 am

Adrian - Saw your picture when you responded to Nipples4sucking's question about approaching a stranger - I would say about the same thing to you I said to her - Your tits are gorgeous - If you showed me that cleavage, it wouldn't matter how shy you think you are, I'd get to know you very quickly - By the way, the only thing that would make that pic better is to take the blouse completely off - Any chance of a picture of bare tits, nipples erect? - You'd know you had conquered shyness if you could show a pic like that - Anyway I love your tits - Thanks for showing them - It's a great turn on -

rm_phoneguymn 44M

12/25/2005 12:45 am

adrian, take it from me, you have no reason to be shy, you are a beautiful woman!! I have been telling you that for how many years? ya its me Rich fncy seeing you in here!!!! I like it though, open up your mind to new experiences, find who you are whatever it takes. you are great babe!!! love you!!

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