How many can host parties?  

ActiveCplSeeking 41M/53F
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11/7/2005 5:42 pm

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How many can host parties?


Well I know that we have done so for regular parties. We have hosted only small swingers parties at our home here. I think that we have learned a lot from the clubs back home about the fuctions of private parties. I guess it helped that the 4yrs at one club and the 10yrs at the last club (working in them and playing too)has given us a lot of insight as how to start and finish them. It helped that I was so close with the owners and that I had been there since the begining of the members only private club that I was able to see and experiance every aspect of it.
We have learned a few ice-breakers (games) to get people to mingle and have a chance to introduce themselves and also to help the shy-at-first people to get into the mood of things to come. Not every one lives a life of Hedonism like my hubby and I. We know this and will help others feel comfortable till they can go it on their own.
We really like to have a comfortable and inviting place to relax and be open and not have to worry about someone in the next room hearing as the party some times gets wild and loud!
That is the biggest reason we prefer a club just for that or in a persons home.
I guess there are times when a hotel would be warranted... for those *no strings attached* times when you are not caring if you ever see the person again.
Most of the time that is not our lifestyle! we value the friendships we make and sex with those friends become more special. So anyone want to open up their homes???

guam_couple 48M/34F

11/7/2005 6:49 pm

well i know some of us would like to open our own club if we had the money to start it so that all the swingers have a place to call home and can come have all the fun they want to ( my dear friends you guys can come over any time you want as my other half wants to meet your hubby still) but we should all look in to our own club...


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