Can we get past the nervous stage and meet?  

ActiveCplSeeking 41M/53F
17 posts
7/26/2005 4:44 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Can we get past the nervous stage and meet?

I have done a lot of chatting with others in the lifstyle and unless they are in a swing club or house party it is hard to just go out there and plan to meet others in local - public places... for some reason, no matter the length of time you have been swinging it seems that the nerves get you. I can understand this. But I also try to see the situation as far as possible, so I can focus on the forcoming pleasures or just aquiring a new friend in the area. Those thoughts can kick the case of nerves to the side and let the meetings begin....

rm_amagumo 44M
3 posts
9/3/2005 5:12 am

Hmmm... I think the most important thing is to think of it as any other meeting in a public setting. You are their to talk and chat and get to know each other better. If things look promising, you can always move the meet to a more private environment. It's not like your expected to participate in lewd acts in public the first time you actually meet(unless you are into that kind of thing).

ActiveCplSeeking 41M/53F

9/25/2005 5:30 am

I really enjoyed your response to this. That is what we try to explain to the "Newbie's" and even some not so new at this lifestyle. Believe me, we would not jump all over people in public so hopefully if others read this, they will go forward with public meetings and just enjoy that they are meeting a new person or couple.

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