Anal sex - what's the attraction?  

ANewLevel4Us 38M/37F
226 posts
8/22/2005 2:08 pm

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Anal sex - what's the attraction?

I was just sitting here thinking, and wondered... what exactly is it with anal sex that is so attractive to guys?

I'm guessing the sensations you get are different than those experienced through plain jane vagina sex? I don't have a penis, so I wouldn't know. I imagine it is a tighter fit?

Or is it more along the lines of being "different" or "taboo"? Is it exciting to be participating in an act that some people consider wrong?

Just curious what other people think.


rm_bearleee 71M

8/22/2005 3:48 pm

For me the pleasure is in the pleasure being derived by my partner. If a woman enjoys anal sex then I get a tremendous amount of pleasure out of giving it to her. If she doesn't, then I may feel challenged in getting her to enjoy it (perhaps by going down on her and using my finger in her anus to help her achieve orgasm as a start).


MisterPriapus 57M
6980 posts
8/22/2005 5:26 pm

4Us~

Personally, the taboo aspect plays pretty strongly, although I can't discount the strong, sometimes spastic clutching action... unequalled even by GI Joe's Kung Fu Grip!

It's kinda like Thanksgiving's Turkey w/ all the trimmings- it's a special event, or treat, not something that necessarily gets served up every day.

What's one person's Wrong, is another person's Blog topic! Different strokes, and all that- what works for you may not work for me. What gives one person pleasure becomes a plank in another's campaign platform...

Seriously, if any of us here in Blogville were all that worried about the negative thoughts other people may have about the site and us for presenting on it, I'd guess those folx were winnowed out a while ago!

I've noticed y'all have an interest in definitions. If I may add a pair of my own (with apologies in advance):

Love: When your girl blows you, then she fucks you, and then lets you finish up in her Poop Chute.

TRUE Love: When she lets you fuck her, followed by her taking it up the Hershey Highway, and then she blows you.

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WildWon1982 34M

8/22/2005 5:52 pm

I don't get it, myself. If I see it in porn, I fast-forward, especially if it's interracial. A black guy doing anal looks like something horrible going on in the bathroom. And when I chick blows the guy AFTER it's been in her butt, that's just disgusting. I hope to God she's had an enema.


ANewLevel4Us 38M/37F

8/22/2005 6:24 pm

It's really unhealthy to put a penis anywhere after anal sex unless it's straight to the shower. True love? Sounds more like a bad case of pica. You know.... eating things that aren't meant to be eaten LOL.


MisterPriapus 57M
6980 posts
8/23/2005 2:29 am

LMAO

Hey, c'mon y'all, it was just a joke..!

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patsam69 51M/51F

8/23/2005 6:45 am

my husband likes the taboo part AND ....it feels extremely tight. I won't do it all that often...cause...it hurts!...So when I do offer it to him...he gets excited at just the thought!


patsam69 51M/51F

8/23/2005 6:47 am

I just read Misterpriapus comment....THAT is the nastiest thing ever! I am not offended...I just think it is so gross when you watch a porn..and the girl is getting fucked in the ass...and then she blows the guy...so freaking nasty!


MisterPriapus 57M
6980 posts
8/23/2005 4:34 pm

PatSam~

Couple of quick points:

First- If it hurts, DON'T DO IT (or at least practice techniques that'll work for you both)

Second (Reiterated)- It was JUST a sick joke!!!
I've never participated in such activity, nor would I want too! Eventually, you're goona get to the Good Night Kiss.

'Nuff said!!! lol

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captaindischarge 45M

8/23/2005 6:41 pm

i think i just like the view, thats why i like doggie style so much too, i guess i am an assman at heart


rm_titsandtires 51M/41F
3656 posts
8/23/2005 8:21 pm

hey bearlee-
your not alone out here. for me it is the thought of my partner getting aroused that makes the whole thing appealing. in other words, if having her elbow sucked was a huge turn on for her, guess what? i'm sucking elbows. the thought of something being really enjoyable for her and maybe a little different is more appealing than the thought of doing the act itself. in other words, sucking elbows on another chick wouldn't be any fun if the chick didn't get off on it.


ANewLevel4Us 38M/37F

8/25/2005 12:27 am

sucking elbows... now there's a kink LOL


MisterPriapus 57M
6980 posts
8/25/2005 2:23 pm

Particularly if you can do your own...

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Been a while since they last let me out into polite society. Resurfacing, catching a breath, & catching up.



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Lately...

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