Day 6: Still no hits, and still making changes to my profile...  

AGNJoe1 46M
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11/14/2005 7:29 am

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Day 6: Still no hits, and still making changes to my profile...

Well, it's been a while. I checked again today, and I had no views or hits. It seems I guess I'm not sexy enough or people just don't want me. Kinda sad. However, I won't let that discourage me. I'm going to stay positive, and hope that someone will want to hook up with me.
I also asked for advice regarding my profile and I got another response, and according to her advice, my ideal person section could use some more updating, so I'll modify that later in order to fix it in hopes it doesn't make me sound self absorbed, which is so not the case, but words here are everything and they need to be set up just right to sound pleasing enough to draw a connection.
What is it they say? "You can draw more bees to honey than you can with vinegar."
I didn't have time to take any more pictures yet but I will try to do so later today and add them into my profile as well.

This weekend was pretty busy for me as I had a lot of work around the house. I tried talking to my wife again in a heart to heart sit down and she said that her sex drive is just not there for me, and that she just does not want to have sex anymore. She said it's not because she does not love me, but she doesn't want sex. I'm beginning to wonder why. I've asked her if she was seeing someone behind my back, but she adamant that she's not and I have checked up on her a couple of times. Like once she said she was at her mom and dad's house, and I called her mom to check, and her mom did say that she was there at those times, so I know that she's telling the truth.

I just feel there has to be a reason for her not to sexually attracted to me. I mean, she married me when I was heavy and I've lost 25 pounds for her, so I'm looking better than before. I try to help her out so her day is less strenous by cooking and cleaning the house so she has more time to relax. I try hard to listen to her when she needs something from me, and talk to her to keep up lines of communication. And I try not to push her away or make her feel bad when she denies me sexually, because I do not want to pressure her or make her feel bad. It's just that I don't know what to do anymore, and I cannot deny my sexual needs. I crave sex, and want it so desperately from her but she does not what to give me what I need. It's just so difficult. I wish there was another way.

Well, that's all I have for now. I'll post again when I have some more time. Thanks for reading...

A Guy Named Joe

devildoll6923 48F

11/14/2005 8:18 am

Don't give up hope!!!!!!!!!

AGNJoe1 46M

11/14/2005 3:34 pm

Thank you for my first comment to my blog! I don't plan on giving up on my wife anytime yet, but man, I could sure need some hardcore sex right about now.
See, sex to me is just While there is still some emotion to it, it's a lot different than love with my wife. When I'm with her physically, it's more than just sex. There's a emotional connection that is much more than sex would ever be. Sex to me is a release. Which I've been deprived of now for quite some time.

Anyway thank you for posting. And by the way, if you are in the Chicago area, send me an e-mail. At this moment, I'm very much persuaded to drive a bit of a distance for sex at the moment, so if you are close, we could arrange something.


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