Day 242: A recent question with a much more recent answer...  

AGNJoe1 47M
385 posts
7/10/2006 8:37 pm
Day 242: A recent question with a much more recent answer...

It's just that the negativity amassed here is so overwhelming. And then you try guilt manipulation to get people to reply. Expecting to get the kind of results you want from that just doesn't make any sense to me. Honestly, Joe, from your posts I always feel an undercurrent of "I'm owed something," or "You owe me something."

Why? Feeling guilty?

No...nobody owes me anything and I'm not expecting anyone to owe me something.

I'm just stating the facts that I used to have women come by a hell of a lot more because I used to mention women here stopping by and now that I've stopped doing that, there have been a lot less looks, a lot less e-mails, and lot less winks.
Now...I wonder why that is? Could it be because they might have used me by looking at my profile or winking at me, I'd mention them, and because of me mentioning them, it would make them look better that they stopped at someone they thought might IMPROVE their profile by looking at an average guy, and thus they would get more traffic on their profiles? A possibility.
Could it be that they were actually nice and wanted to say hello? Possible as well. I don't honestly know.

All I do know is once I STOPPED mentioning names here, I got less women stopping by because I wasn't mentioning THEM.

See right now...I don't know what to think. I do know there are a couple of women here in which I can trust here because they've been honest to me from the start, and I respect that. And there have been some women here that were completely dishonest and played me like a sap. Now that's no different as there are people who are honest and dishonest, whether they be black or white, men or women, gay or straight, religious or non-religious.

If anything, I do NOT think I'm owed anything, and I know for a fact I'm not trying to manipulate anyone into thinking anything.


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