Sometimes a new couple will intiate contact with me and have genuine interest in meeting me for a playdate and than ask me to bring a girl to make it a mfmf foursome. When I tell the couples I'm a single man (as my profile clearly states Im single and not a couple) and cant bring a girl. The couples will sometimes lose complete interest and not want to meet me anymore after I tell them that. Why do couples intiate contact with SINGLE (key word single) guys and expect guys to bring a girl with them in order to play with them? If a couple wants to have a mfmf foursome they should just contact another couple and NOT a single guy.
I wanted to know how many times do you allow a person to cancel your plans before you lose complete interest in them? It's a lot of people in the lifestyle that will set plans to meet a single or a couple only to have the other person or couple their meeting cancel at the last minute. How do people feel when that happens? Especially if you were really looking to meet that person or couple for a meet and greet or a hot exotic time. Now most people in the lifestyle has lives outside of the lifestyle and things come up(work, , etc). But it does become a problem if the person your interested in keeps CONSTANTLY canceling your plans and how many times will you deal with getting cancelled on before you cut the person or couple off?
I'm curious to know how do people feel about playing on the first meeting? Are you okay with playing on the first meeting if the chemistry is there or is playing on the first meeting a complete no-no