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rm_1hotwahine 70F
21089 posts
3/3/2006 9:43 am

 I agree with you re: lust and longing. Lust is a specific thing and longing is a feeling that can be applied to anything. And yes, I think that it is more generally relavent to emotional things.

I'm thinking that anyone who wants sex, but doesn't think of it in terms of sexual pleasure, is actually wanting something else. most likely love or power.

Why did you make me think on a Friday?????? LOL
Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]


ByteChaser2 60M

3/3/2006 10:22 am

 Me? I think it's all about the fantastic forthought had for ensuring us animals actually procreate.

Think about it... if sex (the act) didn't feel really good - even when it's bad - if were just an act like any other of the millions of mundane things an animal does... do you think there'd be so many animals on the planet? I doubt it.

I think the lust, the need, is born from an acquired dependance on that endorphine rush and the bliss filled sensations that come from sex and it's nature ensuring the world continues to be repopulated.


CuntSlurpa 53M
131 posts
3/3/2006 12:11 pm

 As far as I am concerned, "I lust for you" and "I long for you" are very different.

Lust, for me, involves wanting to obtain physical intimacy with someone. Longing for them is more spiritual intimacy. Of course, there is no reason why both lust and longing cannot be present at the same time.

Of course, lust can get out of control too. I would say that it is lust which causes us to take someone other than our normal partner to bed, or allow ourselves to be seduced by a willing co-conspiritor.


TTigerAtty 69M

3/3/2006 12:42 pm

 Ditto re. [blog 1hotwahine]'s and ByteChaser2's comments.

Ditto to what you said in your post ...

"The wanting of sexual pleasure, well, that's the stuff of the spending a couple hours pleasuring each other as much as you can and then taking it to the shower and starting over. That's the wanting to suck him dry and make him cum so hard he can't move for 10 minutes. That's the being fucked to the point that there is no IQ left and animal lust and nothing else in the world exists except that which is happening between you and your lover."

.... and repeat the process over and over for a nice three-day weekend in a quiet, restful setting.

OMG, now you got me thinkin' naughty thought!


wantonwill 67M

3/3/2006 4:55 pm

 lust and longing are different....I agree....but sex is sex...it's all great for me!


rm_BULDGEBULDGE 54M

3/3/2006 9:32 pm

 I neeed some sexual pleasure contact me at BULDGEBULDGE or e-mail and I would be happy to treat you like a goddess and have sex with you.


cheyenne31963 61F

3/4/2006 6:14 am

 I do believe there is difference between lust and longing. But I want to know if you put this much thought into the sexual satisfaction for yourself and your partner(s) which is where they both lead in the end?


LustyTaurus 55M
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21250 posts
3/4/2006 10:08 am

 I agree, %100.

Good Post!

lustytaurus


warmandsexy52 71M
13158 posts
3/5/2006 1:46 am

 This is a great post sexy. Most of us seek meaning in the the things that we do, otherwise there is a nihilistic pointlessness that doesn't satisfy. Libido needs a context, otherwise we'd simply stick to masturbation (after all you're in the best of hands). Pleasure is in itself part of our emotional landscape, so great sex always has an emotional dimension. The question then is how existential such an emotional reality can be.

To my mind at the heart of great sex is communication, and that differs between partners, which has to be one of the delights of sex with different lovers. A preference for a particular lover and a desire to be with them is as understandable to me as preferring to have a conversation with one person over another, the only difference being the intimacy of the intercourse.

Hmmmmm! You've got me thinking .... always the sign of a really good post.

warm xx


SatisFakshen 45M
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3/5/2006 11:01 pm

 Lust is like a bootycall and hot desire for sex right away. Longing for you can be more sensual or long lasting and not just a one night thing.


SatisFakshen 45M
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3/5/2006 11:03 pm

 cheyenne yeah i have the same question too


singlem1969 54M

3/6/2006 9:16 am

 That's the problem with us intelligent people, so many question end up seeming rhetorical! LOL. I agree with you on both counts - the difference between longing and lust and the difference between sex and sexual pleasure.
I think you hit the nail on the mark with "longing" being something that includes emotion and thought while lust is a primal drive.
I agree sex in the pure for is mostly (almost comletely) physical while sexual pleasure involves more emotions and thought (in my opinion pleasure is very much derived from the mind.
I do have a disagreement though. Mammals are not truly driven by sex drive except for instinctual procreation, particular during those seasons set for that purpose. Generally, you will not see wild (untamed) animals jumping on each other's back to "fuck" unless the female is in heat or it is mating season. Only humans have this unqualified need to satisfy our sexual urges tempered by social, moral, cultural boundaries. Of course there are always exceptions.
Just my 2 cents!


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