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LilSexyVixen 60F

3/29/2006 9:50 am

You are like too many others unfortunately who have fallen into that rut within a marriage and are incapable of finding the way out. I was once in that same position and I too had tried anything and everything imaginable to change the downward spiral. However after 7 years of trying and no reciprocation from my "ex" I finally came to the conclusion that things would never be the way they once were nor the way I want or long for them to be. I figured I am young enough to find someone who can, will and wants to be that special person in my life and me be theirs in return.

I give you alot of credit for trying to keep your family intact, I tried for 7 years too. But one day, one of my children (who were only 5 at that time), asked me why Daddy and I do not love each other. Well that was it for me, I was a product of a very miserable family life when I was growing up and I swore to myself if I ever had children I wouldnt do to them what I experienced. Besides the fact that what sort of example was being set for a child who was that young but also that smart to figure out that the relationship between their parents was a loveless one.

I am not suggesting you should leave your family, that is definitely a personal choice. Just thought I would share my experience with someone who seems to be in the same position which I was in (which by the way is such a difficult and unhappy place to be). I truly empathize with you and I think you are a good person for trying to keep your family together, if you ever want to talk please drop me a line here and we can connect offline somehow. Hugs to you hun!!!


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