My Observations So Far  

74ShovelHD 53M
48 posts
5/20/2005 10:02 pm

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My Observations So Far

My first dive into Blogland....

Having viewed profiles, chatted with, met up with and just spending time observing members here, I often wonder why are we here? What is it that draws us to this site? What do we want to get out of it?

In all the members I have come into contact with, one of the first questions asked is "what are you looking for?" I, myself have yet to come to a final conclusion.

It seems there are three general categories of members... married couples - who have wonderful relationships and are adding excitement to there lives (I applaud you!), singles - who are here to find there soul mate (??? not the site I'd choose), and finally (and the one of most interest to me) married singles that are searching for something... sex, excitement, adventure, passion, or just friendship and conversation.

I've been here, left and came back because I missed the interaction, the fun discussions.

I'd like to know what others are here for, and what they want out of it.

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
5/20/2005 11:20 pm

There is a fourth category...that you failed to mention...i fall into that category...I am a single, sexy female who loves sex...and that is all i am looking strings sex...fuck buddy arrangement i guess you could call it...

EightVocesByron 43F
3 posts
5/21/2005 12:19 am

Hi Shovel! nice blog...It's good for all of us to begin asking the same question...

I received good comments about my profile coz it explicitly says the reason why I'm here in this site. But I guess very few took it by heart, many have only wanted to explore the most exciting part - that which says i'm open to having sex. Good enough I can discern between the lines of emails, text messages, etc.

I feel I must add to the 3 categories of AdultFriendFinder members you mentioned - HORNY PEOPLE (ANY STATUS) WHO WANTS TO EXPLORE AND UNDERSTAND MORE THE PHYSIOLOGICAL, EMOTIONAL, PHYSICAL AND PSYCHOLOGICAL REASON OF THEIR HIGH SEXUAL DRIVE. It may sound absurd, but there are really people like me in that category.

So far, I am getting what I want from this site, met people who contributed to my reason of being here, and learning so much from them!

The good and the bad guys we meet here will all help us to understand more! You just have to accept everyone as they are.

pussnboots694 73M/78F

5/21/2005 8:28 am

welcome to blogging my friend, if you read some of my blog postings you will understand why I am on here... I would love to chat with you, please let me know if you are interested
from puss

LustGoddess2469 50F  
2453 posts
5/26/2005 5:26 am

Well, I first signed up here looking strictly for on-going, casual, no-strings sex with gorgeous men. That worked out pretty well, with a few exceptions here and there (being stood up a few times, a couple one-night stands, etc.). Then everything changed. I got an email back on April 2nd from a man that soon thereafter sent me ass over teakettle into a dizzying tailspin. He was (is) everything I could hope for in a man. He's extremely handsome, sexy, funny, smart, responsible, AND he wears a uniform. YUM

I finally got to meet him this past weekend, which was awesome. BUT, and I knew this from the get-go, he's not looking for a serious or long-term relationship. I thought I would be okay with that, but as I was driving home from his house on Sunday, I realized that this isn't what I truly want anymore. I want to feel butterflies in my stomach. I want to feel weak in the knees. I want someone that cares as much about me as I do about them. I want to feel that high of falling in love.

Well, enough babbling. That's where I'm at right now.


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