Men....hints on getting your email answered!!  

69caligurl 46F
26 posts
2/24/2005 3:23 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Men....hints on getting your email answered!!


LIke most of the women on this site, I get tons of email, way more than I could ever respond to. I take the time to read each one, and check out the corresponding profile, but only answer the emails that strike a chord with me. Though I cannot assume to represent all the women who visit here, perhaps I might offer some suggestions on how to get a woman to write back!

First of all, make your note PERSONAL. Nothing is a bigger turn off than a generic note with profile attached. Mention something that attracted your attention in her profile, for example. Comment on how your interests and values correspond with hers.

Secondly, be aware of what she is looking for. If it is clear she is looking for a long term, one-on-one relationship, and you want something more sexual than emotional, perhaps you should look elsewhere.

Thirdly, respect her boundaries!! If she won't send you a nude photo, don't press! If she refuses to meet you after one voice chat, don't be offended! Understand that we have our limits and that there are "weirdos" on here, and that we are naturally cautious, even though we may seem wanton and crazy in the context of this site.

Take the time to write a thoughtful profile and an even more engaging and articulate email. Exhibit your interest in her, your wit, your charm, your charisma.....and she will write back and want more...I guarantee you!

Cathy_Dave 54M/54F

2/24/2005 4:46 pm

Wonder how many guys will listen to your advice? Lots I hope.... Cathy


LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
2/24/2005 5:26 pm

I would hope so to but nowing most men I doubt they will.


DCEbony
1586 posts
2/24/2005 6:05 pm

Cali -

Maybe all of the women on here need to post a link to your advice.

If a guy is getting zero response to his emails, he might want to rethink his strategy and check out your blog.

Thanks for sharing!


creasemaster49 67M/62F
3 posts
2/27/2005 3:17 pm

Cali, really good advice! And your sure to have fun!


sportyfun56 106M

3/31/2005 9:53 am

Right on Cali,
It seem obvious doesn't it. You're points are just common sense. Yet it just doesn't happen as it should does it?
I've been telling guys the same thing for a good while... there is never a shortage of guys that need to hear this. Only a shortage of guys that "get it" (double meaning there) ... lol.

good luck hun...


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