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mrwiggley_1959 64M
47 posts
11/6/2014 2:20 pm

Ditto


kzoopair 72M/70F
25831 posts
11/6/2014 2:30 pm

I idid. After I decided to divorce my ex-wife, I met someone I didn't want to live without. I didn't expect it but it was too good to pass up. So, if that's cheating then I cheated. That made it appear that it was the "other woman" who was the reason for the divorce- it wasn't, and I wasn't about to let appearances get in the way of spending my life with the woman who is now my wife.

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shakeurbonbons 39M  
202 posts
11/7/2014 1:48 am

guilty... :S


funbitimes 45M
1329 posts
11/7/2014 3:58 am

I used to cheat all the time. Never again.


nudecountryboy2 71M/70F

11/7/2014 5:15 am

I used to---but don't anymore

there is one exception to that ---but her and I have agreed it's not a good idea--but all she has to do is ask

which won't happen


_JKH_ 69M
5448 posts
11/7/2014 6:15 am



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golosa1115 62F
1066 posts
11/7/2014 7:16 am

I don't understand the reason for cheating. Maybe I am too much of a romantic, but if I am with someone its because I care for that someone and to cheat would be to hurt that person. To cheat is to lie and living with a lie its just not for me. When I realized my spouse was cheating, I tried everything to understand his position. But like I saw briefly on a show yesterday, the majority of time a person that cheats does it for no reason at all, other than selfish needs. They do it because they can get away with it, they do it to proof to themselves that they can still get it elsewhere. They do it out of no self control. Its like a Kleptomania. The drive, challenge. Lol I tend to be so considerate that when I've been seeing a booty participant for a good while I freeze from seeing others. Even though I can imagine they're seeing who knows how many others in between our sessions. >>!


glu04 55M
187 posts
11/7/2014 8:13 am

who doesn't do it .. on very first chance


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
11/7/2014 10:55 am

Actually did once, was waiting for the ink to dry on the divorce papers.


ProfessorNaught 111M
1406 posts
11/7/2014 4:47 pm

Why would you / anyone?
Its a rhetorical question!

The bottom line is: if you cheat, its your character that gets diminished.
And, if you're single, dating someone who has a spouse or partner,
then you're likely to be cheated on in the future by that person of lesser character.

Least not consider, those who cheat or have no dating morals are more or less exposed to sexual risk.


ProfessorNaught 111M
1406 posts
11/7/2014 4:50 pm

Olivia,
When a woman starts to have that look of yours "in this photo",
is it really cheating if the man simply turns tail and runs for his life?


FreakMaster561 63M

11/7/2014 7:14 pm

of course, I cheat al the time


babyneedsanewtat 64F
1 post
11/7/2014 9:19 pm

I have at times been "In love" with 2 men at the same time.


ScorpioNOV1972 51M
415 posts
11/7/2014 10:54 pm

I don't believe there is a right or wrong answer. I however have never cheated on any of my partners and have never forgiven a partner who has cheated on me.

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slave2end 61F
37 posts
11/8/2014 2:12 am

cheating whether it is physical or emotional is damaging in any relationship. that means you have lost TRUST, RESPECT for the other partner. cheating is selfish on the part of the cheater! complete disregard and disrespect for your partner!

I never did and never will!


slave2end 61F
37 posts
11/8/2014 2:17 am

    Quoting AmTrdr:
    I cheated on a great girl a few months after we started dating. At first it was because I could get away with it, to prove I could definitely get it elsewhere. 6 yrs later it all came back to bite me in the ass and realized I hurt an amazing girl.
I am hoping that someone I care about deeply realizes this as well!


sirfelix7 32M
20 posts
11/8/2014 7:05 am

no. never. a huge break in trust and relationship.


rm_soulhappy41 61M
8 posts
11/8/2014 10:34 am

try not to butt never know lol mmmm uwanna cheat
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ElDeano64116 66M

11/8/2014 12:36 pm

I have to admit I cheated on my wife numerous times in the last years we were married. Rather than talk to her I went out and found what I wanted on my own. Sadly and gladly we divorced. We are both much happier now and sadly I am much poorer now. Not only was it expensive but the hurt caused was too deep to mend.
No regrets for the divorce, but how we ended up there wasn't the best way.
Now if I am seeing someone I definitely do not cheat. I would rather stop seeing that person and move on than to hurt them otherwise.


piercedcock4u40 51M
2 posts
11/8/2014 6:17 pm

I have cheated, working those late nights at work, putting all that over time with a female, you just get feelings. One night after work we met on a dirt road and it just started from there, I layed her on top of her hood and we had a wonderful time under the stars. Needless to say we kept on seeing each other as I made her squirt.


Oceana1969 57F  
442 posts
11/8/2014 8:21 pm

Never. I became a divorced Mom of three because of it. I know the pain it causes a family. NEVER EVER EVER


picouple2o7 63M/57F  
10 posts
11/8/2014 11:21 pm

No never have and would break up before I would.


Dustabhis 45M
65 posts
11/9/2014 4:11 am

humans were not meant to be monogamous.
we society become selfish and try to be different from other living species on this planet.


GryzzlyadmsWtits 110F
1 post
11/9/2014 10:20 am

After all the men that have approached me to cheat on their wives/gf`s...it has tainted me badly.
When I was younger...I listened to men`s stories about how their wives just aren`t interested in sex anymore, but divorce wasn`t an option. I would get all kinds of stories...pathetic stories, just so they could win my sympathy, get laid, and then go home to their wives.

I wouldn`t have the stomach to do it to someone else.


Nocondomswanted 59F

11/9/2014 1:34 pm

my ex-husband and I played together with others (male and female) from the day we started dating and into our marriage as well. So I answered "yes" but I am thinking twice about that answer now.


15love2 60M
1 post
11/9/2014 3:22 pm

People normally cheat because their needs are not being met. I am not condoning nor am i saying it is right..there is usually more than 1 story and it takes two for this...:The one who doesnt care...The one who is not getting their needs met..


rm_dickmias 63M
2 posts
11/9/2014 6:59 pm

I haven't, but I've had a few partners that accused me and I guess really believed I did. And it wasn't that we were on a break.


LadyTeddieBear 66F  
1131 posts
11/9/2014 7:48 pm

Yes i have cheated on my first husband he wanted to do a 3sum so he found a man to do it with. I didnt want any part of it but he did give the man permission to date me and have sex with me so i went for it. after we did the threesum my husband got jealouse and told me i couldnt see the guy anymore. So the man and I contunied to see one another for another 5 years and we fell in love with one another. So he left his wife after 41 years of marriage and I left my husband of 26 years. I got my divorce first in 2007 and he got his in 2010. We were married in Feb of 2010. In June of 2010 we had the wedding that we had always wanted. He and I had a huge Nude Swingers Wedding.

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I_BRANDY 75M

11/9/2014 8:06 pm

I've cheated on both wives, and I'm on here looking for that one woman that is in the same boat as me. I love the experience of sex. Giving and receiving pleasure, but not getting it at home for an acceptable reason. I love my wife but she doesn't need to know the gory details of how I maintain my sexual health. Rosy Palm needs a break. >>!


I_BRANDY 75M

11/9/2014 8:13 pm

Am I on the wrong site?


TravelingMan524 71M
241 posts
11/9/2014 10:42 pm

I'm not proud of it but yes, I have cheated and will again.
.
I prefer married women and couples.
.
I don't do it often but I'm not ready to roll over and play dead yet and sex is the only lacking part of a 40 year marriage.


FreddiesFling 61M
3707 posts
11/10/2014 6:12 am

Yes, I have cheated in the past... but have not cheated on my current partner... but there is still time since I'm not dead yet!

You can visit my blog here FreddiesFling!


rm_PrisicaK 49F
479 posts
11/10/2014 5:04 pm

We need to define cheating. I cheated on my first husband, but he started it by staying out all night at another's woman's house and putting her picture on his desk at work. I cheated today. I sucked someone's dick but my regular friend told me we weren't boyfriend and girlfriend although he introduces me as "his girl". If you cheat first I'm just playing the game too instead of sitting on the bench


icedrosee 34F
6 posts
11/11/2014 6:51 am

I cheated on my ex husband before we separated, afterwards sitting there in the dark, I knew I needed to go home and change something. I did it a few more times before I got the courage to end my marriage. Cheating and keeping the secret was easier than going public with ending my sexless marriage. He shrugged it off with a well someone had to be keeping you from bugging me.


rm_ANALyzer68 55M
19 posts
11/11/2014 12:16 pm

I define "cheating" as having a sexual relationship with another person without your spouse/partner's acceptance of doing so.

By that definition...Never have, never will...and don't want to be involved with anyone that does. I have been cheated on, and I never want to be responsible for making anyone feel like that.


willgo0007 44M
22 posts
11/11/2014 2:28 pm

All depends on the Cheating Concept... there are many of them... some women think that if we look to another women, we are cheating already... if we jerk off to another woman, we are cheating too... so...


BbwDevilBunny 47F
20 posts
11/13/2014 4:50 pm

I have and it took me years to forgive myself.


rmjennied20 37M/36F

11/13/2014 7:29 pm

No I would never do that.


2FOR1OR2OFYOU 72M/F
24 posts
11/14/2014 8:47 am

NO! I Don't Have To, We Party Together And (I'm Bi)If I Want To Meet A Bi-Guy She Go's With Me!


manninp 66M
2660 posts
11/14/2014 12:26 pm

In my humble opinion, cheating is cheating...there is no excuse for it. If you are in a sexless marriage and you did not agree to it, then get out of it now.....and please, do not profess that you still love the partner, because if you did, you would be with any body else if you did....

Oh and to your claim on your profile that "married men do not fall in love" you are so kidding yourself if you really believe that....you just want to upset other women.....


rm_night5508 34M

11/14/2014 7:08 pm

i had a sex with my girlfriend sister. she was so hot i could not resist.


twomuchfu 64M/29F

11/14/2014 7:36 pm

No I'd have no interest at all. Hell I don't even want to look at you.


JohnC1902 51M
379 posts
11/15/2014 4:34 am

No, but my wife is cheating on me.... I think thats why I'm here...


boyswillbeboys1 54M
4 posts
11/15/2014 9:03 am

if you find the right person and it is both amazing go for it


ManOManOMan55 69M
1 post
11/15/2014 10:53 am

No head at home makes a person vulnerable to looking for it somewhere else.


twomuchfu 64M/29F

11/15/2014 10:21 pm

No neither one of us has ever done that.


un4get2ble 49F
14 posts
11/18/2014 2:26 pm

Yes..but he was my first love


Wonderer196104 62M
2 posts
11/18/2014 2:35 pm

I haven't cheated yet, but I plan on it.
Married over 29 years, can't imagine my life without her but I know time is finite.
She is my best friend, but there has been too many years of frustration...
Matter of fact, going out on a date tonight. Hope she is the one and I really don't care what anyone thinks. Until you walk a mile in my shoes, keep your comments to yourself.


shadylover4u 50M
589 posts
11/19/2014 11:03 am

I did and i so am. I don't judge people, but i also can handle being judge. I have my reasons.


witeman01 55M  
6 posts
11/20/2014 7:17 pm

Guilty as Charged your honor...


banditandcocoa 53M
22 posts
11/21/2014 1:19 pm

i was in a relationship for 22 years and i never not once was unfaithful


BBC3377 47M
51 posts
11/22/2014 8:36 pm

That tv show cheaters is entertaining.


open4ne 59M
5 posts
11/25/2014 8:26 am

I cheat on my wife only because she ignores my needs. I have told her over and over again that I need more intimacy but it falls on deaf ears. I love her and I love our family but I am a man and I have needs. She never gets horny, ever. Last year we had sex exactly twice - and the year before that, not at all. When I bring it up she gets angry and says that I only think of myself! about five years ago I was contacted by an ex girlfriend from my high school days, we started an e-mail relationship that led to one night of real passion but I couldn't leave my family for her so that had to end. I have a good friend who wanted to see his wife sucking another man's cock and I was happy to oblige. then she wanted to see HIM sucking a man's cock! my first bi experience and I loved it. we now have bisexual threesomes and sometimes just he and I get together for sucking and rubbing our cocks together, it's really hot, another friend from my past found me on facebook. we were "friends with benefits" long before that was a phrase. she's married and also in a sexless relationship - so we get together whenever she's in the area for some mutual release. she says that her one goal is giving me ultimate sexual pleasure, and she does. So, yes, I cheat - but not without reason. I would prefer to only have sex with my wife, I still find her extremely attractive, I am beyond hot for her but that heat is never returned so I cheat.


9231884317 44M
2 posts
11/25/2014 11:34 am

Never spent a single month in my life sleeping with just one girl. Don't think I can ever do it.


abcd7941 43M
5 posts
11/25/2014 12:05 pm

well not easy to control...


velvettouchbigrl 66F  
133 posts
11/26/2014 9:17 am

I don't believe the human animal is capable of monogamy. I've tried hard not cheat, but I never last more than 7 years in any relationship. I don't know if I just get bored or if I need the passion and excitement. Right now, I love my husband, but he has not libido and mine is through the roof. I do what I can to satisfy that need while being discreet enough to hope he never finds out.


daytimedanny 61M
1 post
11/26/2014 11:45 am

I've only cheated on one long term relationship, and that was after years of accusations of cheating. Finally decided if I was getting accused and paying the price, I might as well get some pussy!
If I'm not trusted when I'm honest, there never will be trust, and thus no relationship.

Kinda funny, after 20 years, she wrote me recently forgiving me for every terrible thing in her life since I came into it...and I owe her $800 for some tragic event I caused in her life. BTW, I was 22 at the time, she was 42, who used who?

Currently I'm attached and not looking to change that. We have played in the lifestyle together and separately. Neither of us sneaks around, and if problems arise, we step back from playing for a few.
This time I am the older partner by a good margin and we are quite different to the average observer. We tend to have better luck swinging separately because most couples or singles like either of us bot not so much into the other.

Some can make this work, some can't.
One thing I notice is many have no problem playing with a married woman without her hubby (he's usually not invited), but a married guy playing solo and honest about his attachment is a cheating pariah.


Prober716 40M

11/27/2014 3:01 am

I cheated on a girlfriend, but only to get back at her for cheating on me.


REG17Z 44M
4 posts
11/27/2014 10:37 pm

Ditto - she wanted to play away from home without having the decency to fess up beforehand, even though every opportunity was given. After the initial WTF sunk in, I decided I was free to exercise my options (if that was what it would take to make me happy).


luvinitat53 62M
11 posts
11/28/2014 11:02 pm

Screwing wifes best friend while she is at work. She knows and says make sure I wrar protection. She screws her too!


likcumoutpussy 60M
18 posts
12/1/2014 8:28 am

I have on numerous occassions in the past, not so recently though. LIke many others, (men and women) who are literally starved of intimacy, I've had affairs and one night stands.
I tried everything I could think of to rekindle that part of our relationship, but to no avail.
It lowers your esteem and confidence when your partner constantly rejects you, makes you question whether they still want, like or need you.


phatkatt205 56F
1 post
12/1/2014 5:13 pm

Olivia........that would be exactly what I'm doing now n


sassylassylay 44F
3 posts
12/1/2014 9:21 pm

I have in the past


68justlooking68 56M
7 posts
12/3/2014 4:26 am

while my wife has very little sex drive, she has given me her permission to do whatever as long as i dont tell her. but i have not.


rm_WalkSwim 60M
30 posts
12/7/2014 6:11 pm

Obviously yes.
Sex with same person all the time becomes boring, especially if the person (spouse) is not sexually adventurous.


rm_Hotjeli 72M
3 posts
12/8/2014 8:37 am

Cheating is in the mind of the beholder. If you are honest with your partner and it's okay with them, it's not cheating, it's a hobby.


nudemotorcycle 71M
3 posts
12/17/2014 3:21 pm

got a girl-young with big tits-gives delightfull head


Oganookie 67M

12/19/2014 12:59 am

I've cheated. Not for a long long time. I outgrew the ability to deal with the stress and hassle. It's not worth it. Life is too short.

Life's a beach, then you surf.


bonus_draw 51M/42F
7 posts
12/23/2014 6:09 pm

I have thought about it (the husband talking) almost went through it but didn't. But now we have an open relationship and i am honest to women i am label'd a cheater. But had i lied to them they would have been more than happy to continue. . Its really sad to be honest on here and get verbally stomped on, but lie your ass off and the cloths come off. Know many male and females that have been on here and done just that.. truly sad...


rm_WalkSwim 60M
30 posts
12/25/2014 10:16 am

See my poll - a bit more detailed: men vs women, and cheat vs sex approved by spouse vs never cheated.
Main result is same though - most people cheat or at least have partner-approved sex outside.
We do want variety in sex!


rm_cltplzer 58M
1 post
1/6/2015 5:07 pm

She did it to me for the last time!!


harley52341 72M
288 posts
1/9/2015 11:14 am

Answer was yes and must be a gr8 dog.


1of2dorks 53M
273 posts
1/12/2015 12:26 am

Never cheated.
Been tempted, but have not done so.
I think some one else put it best "it diminishes your character"
Then I have also considered, if I met some one who tempted me enough, it would mean it was because I was leaving the relationship I have.
That is to say if I am thinking it is greener grass on the other side of the fence so to speak. Problem is The grass usually grows greener over the septic tank
That is to say there are problems everywhere. some are just hidden beneath the surface and you don't know about them yet.


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