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SirTeezalot 74M
21966 posts
9/28/2015 2:32 am

Well as much as I love tits, I am really glad to see you back without one.

Sir Teezalot

WAR IS ABSURD


manninp 66M
2660 posts
9/28/2015 3:00 am

I have had two sisters get it, lost one. It is pity she did not have the same opportunity of getting rid of like you.....


HamburgDave2 80M
16526 posts
9/28/2015 3:22 am

Hi Vixen, Glad you are back

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insatiable_man2 65M
2032 posts
9/28/2015 3:27 am

Welcome back Vixen. I still see you the same.


oldbstrd55 67M
3292 posts
9/28/2015 6:31 am

I'm glad to see you back and now I don't have to try and decide, should I go left or right. Don't over do, I would hate to see anything happen to you.


kzoopair 72M/71F
25831 posts
9/28/2015 7:28 am

It's really good to see you back here, Vixen. Scar or no scar, you have a very sexy belly!

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nightsoul1962 61F
17828 posts
9/28/2015 7:30 am

Oh Sweetie....WELCOME back!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm glad you're back home, where you can heal in the comfort of your home. Now, please don't do too much, and follow doctors orders!!!!! You're just as beautiful as you always were!!!!

WITHOUT PASSION LIFE IS NOTHING


PeterPiper2020 54M
133 posts
9/28/2015 9:15 am

Really pleased that you made it through.

It's good to have you back.

Worryingly normal, Frighteningly sane and Intriguingly different!


tickles4us 62M
7262 posts
9/28/2015 7:21 pm

Glad to see you survived. Haven't been hearing any ringtones emanating from anywhere have you?

I don't think I've seen your sexy belly before. You look a bit tender. Kisses for your boo boo.

Don't be pushing yourself, let things heal.

You know there could be an advantage for your lover with you having just one. He would be able to give full attention to the one instead of having to give equal time between two. But I couldn't blame you if you wanted a more balanced situation.

Vive La Difference


Not_here2meet 55F
3843 posts
9/29/2015 6:34 am

Okay, so I go away for a bit, come back and you've had a mastectomy. Wow..I truly didn't see that one coming.

I'm glad you made it through this! Big hugs girl...big hugs

Live life to it's fullest!

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Vavavoom_23452 49F
896 posts
9/29/2015 8:37 pm

Vixen, you didn't have a choice, as you say, but not many have the fortitude to show themselves so frankly. I still see (where your profile appears a little in the frame, and your belly) a beautiful woman. I have no idea how you will re-learn your new body and love it differently, but I really hope that you do, at your pace.

BIG HUGS!!!


niceolguy 84M
37 posts
9/30/2015 1:17 pm

Great to see you back -- and I've NEVER seen anything offensive about you ! Biggg Hugggs


thirdeye4u2 66M  
148 posts
10/1/2015 9:38 am

I am glad you have your spirit intact after all the trauma and worry and pain and worry again. Be easy on yourself let nature repair you rest and let life get back into normal slowly. Again I applaud your courage and spirit


CynicusMaximus 52M
1844 posts
10/2/2015 3:10 am

This is my first time on your blog, and i just have to say, I applaud your choice to share.
I hope you're in the clear and i wish you the best of luck.


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
10/3/2015 8:59 am

I applaud your bravery, and good spirits despite going through something that would crush most women. Big Hug for you darling!

Thoughts from the Garden...


guy4frot 64M
2811 posts
10/3/2015 6:12 pm

Kudos for putting up the pic of your scar. It has a defiant beauty. You must have been through a lot between diagnosis and your op. Hugs to you and best wishes for your convalescence and return to normal life.

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Wanton_Wench2 62F  
1027 posts
10/6/2015 2:29 am

Glad all went well for you I think you are very brave posting the pic too

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NaughtyInSO 113F
9755 posts
10/6/2015 5:13 pm

Welcome back, you courageous woman!
Your scars are battle scars of a battle you won.
I'm proud of you, admire you and wish you a 100 years of perfect health and happiness!

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luvpink83 40F  
48 posts
10/11/2015 10:32 am

Wishing you nothing but the best!


rickyspanish76 48M
7843 posts
10/13/2015 4:57 pm

Only I desire that your recovery is quick.
You are a brave WOMAN. All the best for you.


magnaotter F
4037 posts
10/15/2015 6:45 pm

Nice clean scar!

If you're thinking of going through the next two of the Holy Trifecta (Slash, Poison, and Burn), and want to talk with someone whose been through it twice (once as a support person; once up close and in person; Stage 3 and Stage 1 respectively), let me know.

We are the toughest girls I know.


alwyzplz 43M
4 posts
10/16/2015 6:40 am

Wow Respect for you woman !


ERoosevelt 55F
299 posts
10/19/2015 6:02 pm

I see nothing unwomanly or ugly about you, good Lady. Thank you for reminding us that beauty is much more than body parts, but courage, strength and attitude too


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
10/20/2015 1:44 pm

Ted knows a good thing when he sees it., attempt at humour. Thank you for sharing this, sending you positive vibes. Hugs


NrthnVADragon 63M
197 posts
10/21/2015 11:30 am

Am so sorry to hear this, I am a cancer survivor myself, mine was caught early tho, and yet, I remember well what I went thru. I will hope & pray for a good recovery for you, assuming you choose that path! HUGGS


Imalookinnow 57M

10/22/2015 8:35 pm

My thoughts are with you- hoping for a smooth treatment plan and that you are able to get past this and get healthy again. Your determination and unique outlook to not get down is inspiring. Best wishes!


SomewhereNTX 62M
1624 posts
10/28/2015 6:09 pm

    Quoting  :

Evening,

First let me say that I wish nothing but the best for you after reading about what is going on with you in your life when I resurfaced. I so enjoy your wit and intelligence. The big C needs to just take a hike and go away.

Second, yes they would say such a thing to your face. Been there and had women tell me about how they were attracted to 'real men' in response to me wanting us to progress into a relationship since they loved how I treated them like no one ever had before. Seems I was an option for them and only there to help them recharge so they could make a 'real man' a priority. When I was younger I would put up with it thinking they would change their mind with time, boy was I dense.

Anyway. You take care and I'll be thinking of you and wishing nothing but the best.

Goodnite,
H


SomewhereNTX 62M
1624 posts
10/29/2015 3:47 am

Morning,

I let those comments bother me at one time, then I took some time off to explore my soul and decide if I they were right and I was just delusional or if they were the ones messed up. I decided to believe in myself and have been fairly happy since then and having fun.

You're correct, most don't have the balls to voice their rude remarks to someone's face. I've seen many cases of those that fire them off due to someone speaking the truth to them or to justify their own bad behavior or shortcomings too. They just need to grow up!

Take care,
H


reddirtbluesky 74M
353 posts
1/7/2016 1:26 pm

Bless you young lady. I can understand some of your difficulty. We don't seem designed to last forever, and they are still not sure what triggers the dreaded Cancer. When they found my first cancer they wanted to strip all of my lymph nodes out, even though they did not know the source of the cancer. Scared the pee out of me the way the surgeons were talking. Then they found another type of cancer elsewhere, then another, and yet another. Well you have to stay positive, and wonder what you were exposed to that started those crazy cells on a different path. Keep up your positive outlook on life and you will do great. Bless you and Teddy, you have been a great source of blog reading and you keep me smiling.


ILoveHer33Years 72M
12 posts
2/12/2016 12:11 pm

Dear " Damnedvixon " ,
As a so called " standard member " , I don't think that I can write you an e-mail . If I could , I would probably say even more that the long message that follows , but I don't pay , so , .................
I am writing to congratulate you on your attitude . As a man in love with my wife who is ( to quote her ) , a " bi-lateral babe " .
You are absolutely right when you say it is just the way it is . Anyone who don't like it can just go up there in the upper right corner , and click on the little red X .
As far as in real life , they can just leave .
What makes a person , is that which resides between their ears . That is what makes them wonderful , beautiful , sexy , sexual , ..... that is what makes them ... THEM .
Keep being real . There ARE those of out here who love based on WHO a person is , not WHAT a person is .
When you say " (warning, explicit but not sexually alluring pics) " , I suppose that may help some , but I assure you , I found my wife VERY sexually alluring when she had just one breast , and I find her absolutely sexually alluring now , too . I just can't get enough of her . When I see her chest , it is HER chest , and I am still in love with her , so I am in love with her chest . Some don't " get it " , but that is THEIR problem .
I dated my wife when she had two breasts , one breast , and no breasts . It is still HER in that body , and I love HER . ( In fact , I asked her to marry me long after she became " bi-lateral " . )
She has spoken of " reconstruction " , a few times , ( a very few times ) , and I have told her if that is what she wants , fine , but I certainly don't need or encourage it . This is because I love HER , not her tits , and I think the surgery would be hard on her physically . I will hold her hands physically , and mentally if she ever decides to do it , but it is SO not necessary for MY sake . I also encourage her to do without the prostheses any time she pleases . Again , if someone has a problem with that , that is THEIR problem .
I was ECSTATIC when she recently asked about a nude beach . ( I certainly don't want to disgust anybody with MY nakedness , but I LOVE that she even THINKS about being naked !!! ) She is BEAUTIFUL . Yes , it may shock someone , but again , that's THEIR problem ! ( I just hope it's " clothing optional " , because no body wants to see me nude . )
So , Damnedvixon , Congratulations , and THANK YOU for your public service . Once your regular skin tones return , I hope you post more pictures , so others can see just how physically beautiful you are , and just how NOT scary it is . That would be a further public service .
I have spent some time in prayer for you . I hope you don't mind . ( I know that there will be those who find it odd that someone of faith is on this particular website , but I am , and I would bet that there are lots of us here . ) ( If I was a PAYING member , instead of a lowly " standard " member , I would do a search for people of faith ......... out of the 40 or 50 things you can search for , it's 4th from the last , but it IS there !!! )
Sincerely ,
ILoveHer33Years


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
2/18/2016 2:40 pm

This is my first visit to your blog. You go Girl. Thank goodness you didn't have to do the slash and burn it is NOT a bowl of cherries. Take good care of yourself and remember spring brings new life to all

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Halal_Pork 49M

3/30/2016 10:45 am

I wish you a speedy and complete recovery. I have a friend who is now at the beginning of the very process you've gone through, so I know it can be very rough.


pacnwlover42 55M
9808 posts
4/21/2016 2:09 pm

So much to go through in such a short period of time for you. I wish you all the best during this tough time in your life. Take care.

Funny women are incredibly sexy!


Pringles0510 49F
313 posts
4/25/2016 4:01 am

Brave, strong and beautiful woman.
You wear what you like, who cares about other people getting uncomfortable.
Hope you're doing well.
x


Wowmedic 42M
48 posts
4/27/2016 4:22 am

well once cool thing is that you can start shopping ahead of time for new boobs. Plastic surgeons in the US handle over 500,000 breast adjustments a year. The great thing about new boobs is that they cant grow tumors like the old ones and they wont ever show side effects of age.


VenusRising11 71F
4677 posts
5/6/2016 4:01 am

So sorry to hear of your troubles. Damned cancer, anyway - touches everyone's lives. Your attitude is amazing. I applaud your strength. Sending you lots of hugs and support.



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ULIXBIG 69M
9288 posts
5/15/2016 4:07 pm

It is good to see that you are positive and you will get through this. I have overcome (a very differnt kind of) cancer myself and can sympathize. All my very best wishes for your recovery and going for those 101 ...


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