Go ahead asshole, hit her again. So fucking wrong.  

634694u 46M
257 posts
11/13/2005 7:36 pm

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Go ahead asshole, hit her again. So fucking wrong.


At some point in everyone's lives, bridges need to be crossed, stands need to made and asses kicked. I wrote a post the other day that emphasisized how little attention men are paying to women. I also wrote a few words about how little (none!) compassion I have for men that beat, and/or harm women in any fasion.

I have subcome to the reality here lately, that, one of my callings/duties in life is to be sought-out by those in pain. I did not ask for it nor do I look for it, they find me. I enjoy nothing more than putting a smile on a woman's face that has been hurt. Whether simply heartbroken, battered or even worse (trust me, some of the things I have seen men do to women is beyond awful.) Maybe my coming here serves some strange purpose that I have yet to realize, to appriciate afer the fact. The fact is, I am here, I am real and know that no matter who turns my head, increases my bloodflow or just makes me smile, I'm doing something right, something good for someone. maybe this dumb little blog is a majic pill for those who need a smile, or, maybe I'm just full of myself? I honestly cannot tell as I write if maybe I'm being egotistical or helpful?

Everyone here is looking for something, something missing. If your looking for something that means you don't have what you want-do you look for things you already have? You may be looking for a good roll-in-the-hay, to find an ear that will listen or a true heart with compassion. Whatever the reason, your looking for something missing in your life. Maybe whats missing from mine is someone to give a hand out to, to help them up from a bad time. I see so much hurt here, so much anguish and indecision, so much loneliness and yurning for warmth.

I also see compassion and understanding, empathy, laughter and honesty here also but the one thing I enjoy the most is reading about someone smiling. Someone who wrote something that brought about a smile in someone else is priceless.

Getting back to my long, drawn-out point. I have been subjected to (and subjected myself to) some rather uncomfortable situations over the years. One day I came home from a friend's house to find my neighbor driving back and forth in his driveway with a handfull of his girlfriends hair in his hands. Yeah, it was still attatched to her head. I resolved this by returning the "hair yanking" favor to him through the window until he had freed her, and get this, he wanted to press charges against me! The police arrived and told me to just disappear. So I did.

Another young woman that crossed my path was Sarah. Her boyfriend beat her constantly. She would come to work with shiners and split lips. One day I simply looked at her and said "whenever you want out, call me". Two weeks later she did. My roomate and I drove to her house and moved everything she owned at 1:30am and then made one more trip back (36 miles each way) to get loose ends and her car. Her "stud" of a boyfriend threatened my roomate uppon our arrival so my buddy went after him, whata ya know! he ran away-what a fucking surprise! After all of this, we pooled our money (about $600.00) and gave it to her, we let her stay with us for a few weeks until she felt comfortable to get out on her own. Last I heard, she was with a good guy and now has two children. I will always feel good about that. I have eleven more stories like those, all real, some worse than these, some a little better. I was involved directly with thirteen of these happenings-why me? My own sister was one, Yeah, my former brother-in-law slapped her-only once though. My father and I made a good team.

I am not some macho, bullshit-artist looking for sex or attention, I am just becoming more and more aggitated at things I see, hear on the news and I am just simply confused. The ratio of men to women here is about twenty to one so why do men seek women (not just here but everywhere) if thier only intent is to harm. Should these men be allowed to live?
I am a rather gentle soul but could easily kill a man harming a woman (or a child)-really! It angers me beyond the point of having a concience-I'm getting pissed just writting this! Has our society forgotten the moral fabric of honor, Standing-up for whats right or is the line of right and wrong so blurred that nobody really knows what to do when something un-just happens right in front of thier face? Are we so worried of being sued for doing what's right?

Forgive any spelling errors, the spell checker took a dump tonight and I'm too lazy to proof read this right now!
I'm all pissed-off now, see ya.

Synn74 42F
1206 posts
11/13/2005 8:00 pm

I am really glad I posted this on my blog now Men of blogland who make me weak
to show everyone why I love your blogs



I welcome you to the House of Syn...


sexyeyes375 47F

11/13/2005 10:44 pm

Great post. Hope you have cooled off now.

I am off to cross some bridges, make a stand and kick some ass. Thanks for the inspiration.


curious082385 31F
4925 posts
11/13/2005 11:29 pm

A post like this is deserving of a wonderful reply...there are to few men like you in the world. But, once again, you've taken my breath away and with it my ability to think clearly. (i'm getting used to that with you) So I'll keep it simple...thank you.


freetime648 52F

11/14/2005 4:48 am

Amen Brother!!!! I had alot of things go on in years gone by and I made it through, and with the help you have to offer your friends, they will too. I am impressed that this comes from a man. A true man! Your friends are truly blessed to have you on their side!


xx FREETIME648 xx


frbnkslady 48F
6183 posts
11/20/2005 3:56 pm

WOW.. and this is from someone who survived that..I now have a cast iron skillet on my wall with the saying' For the next owner of a fist who desires to punch.'
My dream if I ever win a lottery is to provide new 'homes' for women and children. For them to start over.. in another state.. I have posted a blog on this.
I was one of the lucky ones. I was able to call family and they helped me get myself and son out of state in a matter of a few hrs and make it across country. I have raised a wonderful young man, a spoilt one , yes... And I like to think I have learned from my other mistakes as I have gotten older..and continue to survive.
I do wish I could find a man like you.. please, please teach a class to men..
I hope when she finds you, she will truelly appreciate who she has. T

T




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