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I thought about changing my profile today. Not that there’s really anything wrong with it, but every once in awhile, change can be a good thing. I can see now why the A F F folks wrote that “profile helper” thing… writing profiles is not an easy thing to do! The first question is easy, and I didn’t have to change that. I am a man. But that “Looking For#x201D; stuff… there just doesn’t seem to be a choice that really describes what I’m looking for… maybe because I’m not even sure yet what it is I’m looking for…
Erotic Chat/Email/Phone Fantasies -- Nah… I’m not into fantasies.
1-on-1 sex -- Well, okay, that fits, but that isn’t all I’m looking for; and it’s not even the most important thing I’m looking for.
Discreet Relationship -- Again, that would be nice, assuming that “discreet” means “in private” as opposed to the 50-yard line of the Steeler’s new stadium, at halftime, on Monday Night Football.
Group sex -- Deinitely not. I’m a one-woman kind of guy; always have been, always will be.
Bondage & Discipline -- NO WAY, NO HOW, DON’T EVEN THINK IT!
Cross-Dressing -- They’re kidding, right? I like my own clothes.
Exhibitionism & Voyeurism -- Well, that could be fun, but not what I would pick as one of the things I’m looking for in a relationship.
Sadism & Masochism - See B & D… I couldn’t hurt a woman even if she wanted me to… that’s just not right, as far as I’m concerned.
Miscellaneous Fetishes -- Is wanting pubic hair on an adult woman considered a fetish? Toe-licking is also fun… and some food fun… nothing kinky though.
Other "Alternative" Activities -- I have no idea what this is, but I checked it in case someone who’s interested in that kind of thing might be able to tell me, and then I can decide if it‘s something I‘m looking for.
I liked my “headline” but I changed it a little:
And I still like what I wrote originally in the body of the profile, because it‘s still a true statement, and it satisfies their minimum word count. (I‘m not into writing ads):
I'm your typical free spirit, single and unfettered and roaming the Earth at will. I tend to be pretty normal and down-to-earth; my philosophy on life is stay relaxed, stay mellow, stay loose and be open to whatever happens.
Maybe I should tweek my “Ideal Person” paragraph a bit, but for now, it too is basically a true statement. I guess I really am looking for that someone special, but not really sure how to describe her, so I‘ll just leave this part as it is:
I’m not really searching for anyone here and not expecting anyone here to be searching for me! (But then again, who knows. Sometimes the best treasures are the buried ones... the one's we dig up when we're not really trying so hard to find them.)
As far as the rest goes, well, that’s all “data” and “data” is fact and there’s no sense changing any of that. There is a part that says “Travels to#x201D; but I don’t travel to any one place (or two) often enough to list them. I suppose a 100-mile radius of Pittsburgh would be normal, but I have been known to wander to points quite far from here in Pittsburgh… lately.
Can’t think of anything I’d change in those “Additional Topics” so I’ll just leave them alone for now, too. I took that “Purity Test” thing, though, and that other thing, what’s it called… some kind of “Personality Profile” that I suppose is important to some people; not so much for me, though. (I was surprised at how accurate it is, really!) And that “Purity Test” -- I’m really not THAT naughty! Just because I experienced something once, it adds points to the naughty side. (Yeah, I smoked pot in high school…
Let’s see… what else was there. Oh, now that I have a web cam (impulse buy--it was on sale and came with a free mic), I did a “Video Introduction” but when I previewed it I said to myself, “Oh Jeeze that is sooo bad!” so I didn’t bother posting it. I did do a “Voice Introduction” and it sounds okay.
All in all, I think I’ll just keep the profile thing the way it is. It’s not an ad, because I’m not selling anything, or even promoting anything. But, since you have to have one in order to participate in the Blogs, well… maybe it’ll catch someone’s attention… that would be nice.
12/23/2005 6:06 pm
Caught mine |
12/23/2005 6:14 pm
Decisions, decisions. I wasn't quite sure what to put either. I'm ok with it, but damn...wish on some of the "standard options", they gave a bit more options....such as None of the above, ask me! LOL.|
Yours seems to be fine, I read it.
Nice glasses btw
12/24/2005 1:18 pm
Sure caught my attention.............hhhhuuummm...........|
12/25/2005 9:52 am
I agree wholeheartedly on the 'what I'm looking for' part. Actually I'm not sure whether or not I'm looking for anything anyway, lol. I understand that the database needs something to be able to sort, but they DO need one more category. I was going to write and suggest it but didn't know what it should be. What do you think? Maybe just 'open' or something like that?|
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