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hiddenmythology 44M
9643 posts
4/23/2014 8:46 pm

To me, the key word in FWB is the friends. If you aren't friends first above everything else, that in my opinion completely negates the "with benefits" part. A lot of people think that FWB is just no strings attached sex and that isn't true at all. My best friend, we would be best friends, sex or not. That is what it means to me. Friends, regardless of anything physical.

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luvtolickclit99 50M
1082 posts
4/24/2014 4:01 am

For me a FWB is someone that I can spent time with, apart from in the bedroom. Someone I could go to an event with on occasion, lend a helping hand when needed. I'm not one to look for a "girlfriend" full time, but it's nice having that person who's open to do more together. Someone you can share your intimate thoughts as well as emotional ones knowing they truly do have interest in everything about you.


Seeming1 37M
29 posts
4/24/2014 4:18 am

A Friend who you happen to be having sex with shouldn't have anything to hide with being in public with you. Friends first because it's what you both want all the time. Having sex when you both want it, which is not always all the time.


johnbaltimore 38M
1 post
4/28/2014 4:47 pm

Who really knows?

I don't have "friends" or whatever. I keep trying, but I can't handle the immense social demands people attribute to friendship: texts all the time, some expectation to spend several hours of every week together, and so on. I have plenty of people I talk to frequently, but get together with once or twice a year if that; apparently these aren't friends, since we spend no actual time together and may go weeks without communication.

I try to establish a mutual respect in all situations. If I meet a girl who is decent but pretty much just wants to suck my dick all the time, okay. If we chat from time to time, that's fine by me too. I've mostly tried to avoid quantifying the whole thing, and just go with whatever works for both parties.

I just don't want a second full-time job.


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