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Nothing needs to be reworded, you did good! Maybe I should leave this site as I am not looking for sex. If I was, I want the intimate experience as well....I'm not the wam-bam thank you mam kinda guy!
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Nicely written...nicely put...I would know what to add so I won't. There you go That's all and none of it tragic.
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I agree with all the other comments- this is a great post. My wife has said to me many times, speaking about her youth..."If only I knew then what I know now". She's also noted that there's not much point in dolling up for men- all you need to get laid is a pussy. She dresses up for me because she loves me, and believe me, I'm grateful. She had friends who were downright homely who had all the one night stands they could handle- more, in fact. And she had other friends who were sweet and nice looking who couldn't get a man's attention- they exuded principles, and weren't about to fuck at the first meeting. A little patience goes a long way, and good things come to him who waits. All of which brings us to....we need sex education in our schools, but not the kind the kids are getting. They need role models, and I don't mean cousin Bubba. If kids are going to treat other people like human beings, they will learn it from us. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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Yes, I think you are correct, stimulate the mind, the body will follow, one needs a friendship connection or the sex is not great and one needs the sex to be great, so the friendship is most important .
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Nice article, well written, and very true for most people. Thank you for sharing.
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Agreed! I think most men understand that..... however they're quite outnumbered on this site by the neanderthals! (and let's not undervalue the occasional really really good "one of", sometimes they can surprise ya!)
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Very well said!  
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I concur with your thoughts and opinions on this...we all need connection first! I believe this site would be a better site if they Market better to the ladies and less to the guys. That is why there more guys on here....and why there is less females on here. This causes the guys to feel jaded....too many guys and not enough females on this site. To me it's no brainer....change the site to make female friendly and the guys will naturally follow....See ya! “Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh Come and read my blog! Become a watcher! veryfunnycple64 
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There needs to be some sort of connections. .
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I agree, a good connection between the two people outside of closed doors makes what happens behind them so much better.
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1 post 12/3/2014 8:48 am |
so true,,some of us men need a mental connection also,,,laught ,,,smile and stimulate my mind,,is how to stimulate my world
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Like you, I like some kind of connection with the woman I'm going to have sex with. I like to know something about her and how she likes it. But not everyone feels the same about that connection. I'm not saying either one is right or wrong... but we have to be respectful of each other and what we want and what we are looking for! You can visit my blog here FreddiesFling!
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My feeling is that casual sex is for guys who can't attract repeat business. Even if the relationship is just going to be sexual I want to know something about the woman. You can't have great sex with a total stranger. It takes knowing each other and responding to each other. The slam, bam, Next ... type of sex isn't much better than masturbation as far as I'm concerned. I'm more interested in quality than quantity.  Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated. 
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Great post, and I agree. If you read this site's guarantee for men to get laid, they have to follow a proscribed method, most of which is to let women get to know you first, not just hang your johnson out there as bait. They want men to sign up and pay, which drives their revenue. By meeting and forming a connection with a woman, even if the end result is sex, you tend to build some nice sexual tension. This results in some great sex for both, even if its the first time together.
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In my limited experience, Sex gets better the more you know your partner. I'd imagine sex with a stranger would be pretty poor .... I wouldn't know how to please them, nor they me. So, my preference would clearly be for someone I already know well enough to be friends. That being said, if I was alone in a different city with nothing better to do and a total stranger walked up to me and said lets have sex, and she didn't look like a skank, I really don't know if I'd turn it down. After all, for me and I believe most guys, some sex almost always trumps no sex. And while I'm too shy to ask a stranger for sex, I doubt that it would take much more than a fairly brief conversation (ie a lunch) before I'd no longer consider her a stranger!
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Absolutely nailed it!
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Well said and I totally agree. The guys complaining about a lack of success on these web sites only want that "fuck and run" experience. A girl-on-a-shelf, I was once told. I'm not surprised they have a disappointing time. Taking the time to be a friend should not be a problem for either sex. All that is being looked for is some "Hi how was your day conversations".
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Thanks for saying this, I also have denied friend request because of this Ric
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12/5/2014 12:01 am |
Very well said. Their are men out there who agree with you.I am one. I have experienced the best sex by cultivating friendships.
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What is considered casual sex? Not all of us women want a committed relationship or even to just see one many at a time. I've had recreational (casual?) sex because it was fun and exciting and enjoyed it immensely. I like the fact that I have that option, as well as the choice to explore other options out there.... the sex because of mainly physical attraction, the FWB who I might go out with occasionally or on a regularly basis, the swinging lifestyle, or just about anything or anyone that may sound intriguing and provide me with new experiences. I've met a multitude of men on this site and have never had a horrible experience. i don't fuck everyone I meet, but seldom meet without the hope that there will be a physical attraction and the potential for some sort of sexual relationship as well as friendship. I feel fortunate that I've had plenty of both.
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12/7/2014 5:15 am |
Couldn't agree with you more. When I first started out here I thought "Kid in a candy store" Well sometimes that candy leaves you lacking for real substance. Now I am a firm believer in getting that substance rather than the sugar rush. SO yes, knowing someone is always better.
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12/9/2014 3:58 am |
Well said.. I know I don t have the face, and damn I know I don t have the body..LOL for sure.. and I know I sit in my bedroom with my computer and jack off way to much.. but it s also cause I don t have money, or I would call my married lady friend over more and let her and hubby have more fun after she is done with me.. I don t know if I ever really explain our time together but it s not a wham bam $60bucks maam type of thing.. it s she get here.. (ok I m naked when I m home and I don't get visitors, so I m naked all the time) and we go to my bedroom and she lays on my bed, and I m in my computer chair, and we chat, I ask about hubby and how work is going for him and well she got laid off so , she isn t "working" she a mother, of course she is, she has two kids on in college and one in high school. Ask how they are doing and we chat about what I m doing and how I am and the events of the day , and as we are chatting she tells me of the last time we were together and how she told her hubby what we did.. and then she gets undressed.. there are many ways women play big roles here on this site. and we the guys pay the big bucks to have women on this site get freebies from the site.. and I m glad cause if it were all guys.. well .. that would be boring.. I would be on another site like dick.net and while it s good for a while .. it s boring...LOL face piles of trials with smiles.. MOODY BLUES please feel free to visit my blog happy blogging
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12/16/2014 11:54 pm |
intendadiversion replies on 12/15/2014 9:35 pm: Are you saying that you have a female friend that gets some money from you after you have sex? If yes I think that is a fair trade and you are helping each other I re read what I wrote. I an I don t see where I wrote anything confusing.. now maybe that s cause I wrote it and re read it . but it seems plain as day to me that yes. I m paying a married lady that I know her hubby and they get off as much as I do.. and yes I believe it is a fair trade.. and yes we are helping eachother with what we do and everyone goes home, well I m home but the big factor is HAPPY!!! face piles of trials with smiles.. MOODY BLUES please feel free to visit my blog happy blogging
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I whole heartedly agree. If I don't want to have sex with you for anything other than a big dick, then when you don't have one (according to my specifications) I leave because there's nothing else to hold my interest. If you can't get hard or cum too fast, I leave. No second chances. If, however you talk to me and even listen, I might stay and negotiate. I might even agree to meet knowing full well you haven't checked any boxes on my wish list.
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There is nothing too feel if there's nothing there.Guilt by association robs so many decent people with good intentions and the frustration it sometimes evokes can and does become irreparable. Using more than all the road!
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Excellent. A woman is still a woman, even when she wants sex. Any guy that doesn't get that is unlikely to get any.
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The best post ever! Sweetly said, well written without condemnation of those men who don't get it, better to take time to know someone and sleep with some one you can cuddle with after, and are willing to hang around and have breakfast with. I too want to know whomever I hook up with, and get to know more and more each time rather than quick sex and back to searching
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I wish men would understand that women are different from them. Most women do not want empty sex, If you don't get a connection from that person you are having sex with, I know I don't enjoy it, I know I am not turn on. I think if men change their way of thinking about this site, they may have better luck with women. Yes their are women who can have sex with a stranger and enjoy sex with them. Just like men do not want us to put them all in the status, They need to do the same with women. Everyone on this site is different but we all have the same goal, we want a sex partner.
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I agree completely. I sent an Angel to watch over you last night, it returned in a hurry. I asked why, it said "Angels can't watch porn." Thanks for fucking traumatizing my fucking Angel! Don't bother trying to figure me out. Not even the little voices in my head understand me. It's pointless!
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So rightly said and well written too If you can't connect in mind and create space in comfort zone its aftertaste is not good sex has to start in space between ears for it to be enjoyable between ears
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Makes for a great story
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Ironic - since so many men and women treat the site as advertised. There are plenty of couples that see it as an opportunity to meet other like couples and individuals for the swinging activities as promoted. There are plenty of women who tout their uninhibited ability to get gangbanged at will and even exploit and share the characters of their successes in the chat rooms. Then the individual women/couples who rave at achieving a greater number of cum fill pussy events this year over last while openly wishing for greater success in the forthcoming year. And, while your experiences and desires are not at all unique, neither is this approach to stipulating what exactly it is that you are seeking and such preferences without defining the difference between getting fucked and having sex. But in the end, such stipulations are always lost in the cloud and smoke screen of complaining about how others approach the site.
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you are correct at your point ..we need casual relationship and easy going but not that easy ..you need to expend some HRS to understand the mutual needs.
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To share good sex you need chemistry, which takes some time and connection. First you have to both have the time and desire... Don't mean a thing if it ain't got that zing...
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