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The Friend Dilemma  

ourgoodlife33

2/6/2012 1:10 pm
 We haven't been in the scene for long, but have already met some great people for fun times. Lately we've been thinking perhaps it is time to throw a small party with some of our new friends to see how much fun we could have in more of a group setting.

Here's the dilemma... We have been friends with a couple for about a year now. They are not in the scene, but about 2 months ago wife had an alcohol induced 3 some with them. Since then they have admitted they enjoyed it, but there has been some flirting, but nothing too strong and no discussion about doing it again. We both really want to play with them more, but don't want to screw the friendship up or scare them away by being blunt and asking them if they want to come to the party. Should we take a chance and invite them to a sex party? How do we minimize the risk of losing their friendship which is very important to us, more so than one night of good sex?

All intelligent thoughts are appreciated.
timeforfun219
2153 posts

2/21/2012 10:30 am

 Interesting dilemma that you have. Alcohol can be a great lubricant for such situations but you need to keep in mind that it might have just been the alcohol making them act the way they did that evening. It is very possible that they have discussed being with others and where unsure of how to act on it. We have a few friends that are working up to moving forward with us and it takes a long time. We aren't pressuring them just some flirting like the two of you.

Offhandedly, you can always ask them if they would be interested in visiting a swingers club or something else lifestyle related. It is a very tricky line to walk between keeping a great friendship or risking it all for one night of sex.
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