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scott6250 61M

8/30/2016 4:19 pm

 For me it would be something about the way I do something. Happy Tuesday!
"Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250


cwazywabbit009 59M
6313 posts
8/30/2016 4:20 pm

 The only opinions that matter to me are those of my friends. Anyone else saying something to me that would be insulting gets either "the stare" lol or a smart ass comeback. I guess 37 years of sports officiating has given me a thick skin.
I'm proud of you for firing back though. Let's him know that you won't take it laying down.
Drop in and visit my blog sometime, but you'll probably regret it


Not_here2meet 55F
3843 posts
8/30/2016 4:20 pm

 I let people's words get to me sometimes, too. Misskissin.

I've struggled with this for years, but my problem is that I love words. I love to "play" with words. And, those words? The words they use to describe others, when done in mean tones and angrily? Those words hurt.

I too have been hurt by others when I turned them down for sex. I have been hurt when asking someone to have sex. It's like people, sometimes, don't care about your feelings. It's like they only care about theirs.

And, isn't that sad?

I care about people, and their feelings. I care that my words may hurt them. And, if I do hurt them with my words, I hope they would tell me so we can have an open and honest conversation about it.

Anyway...wordy woman who writes a lot to say a little.

I'm sorry anyone hurt you. You are a fantastic person, in my "book".
Live life to it's fullest!

If you're bored, Read
Hugs
Gypsy


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
8/30/2016 4:40 pm

 It's little things that get to me, unload or tell me off, no problem.

Just the nit picky crap that burns me up.


benard69 66M/66F  

8/30/2016 4:54 pm

 It takes a whole village to raise an idiot...Sounds like you might want to change villages....


rm_1eroticjoe 63M
3768 posts
8/30/2016 4:59 pm

 Meh, sounds like he got what he deserved! Don't give it another thought.

Sometimes a little righteous anger clears your whole being of toxins! Including toxic people. Better sleep tonight... Dream one of those sexy dreams that you are famous for. Tomorrow is another day!

Kisses to you sweetie! You're always giving them to everyone else, you deserve them too!


BrownEyedBBW 55F  
8831 posts
8/30/2016 5:05 pm

 Continued to contact me and I tried to be as nice as I could.

This is a problem. Women are conditioned to be nice and polite. At my age I'm at a point where I say, "fuck it". I don't have to be nice, especially if I've made it clear that there is nothing there.

I can't remember the last time I let someone get to me like that. My BF in college used to think it was funny to see how upset he could get me just to watch me flip out. Back then I had a long fuse, but when it went it was like 100 foot roman candle going off.

Because of him, I trained myself to retreat inside and get ice cold instead of exploding. My body is scarred inside and out so there isn't much anyone could say there. I'm probably a little too proud of my intellect so that might be an Achille's tendon but either a guy is not as intellectual as I am and I will take him on with no hesitation or he's way smarter than me and I'll be pretty quick to acknowledge it.

I will say this, the things that have bothered me were things that had at least some truth to them, so there is that. Did he give voice to something that bothers you about yourself?


onerustyone1 74M
4670 posts
8/30/2016 5:40 pm

 Sorry this person spoiled your day and evening. I have been hurt many times by those rude enough to say hurtful things. The sad part of life is that I recall the mean things that were said. I tolerate less now and avoid many. Hope tomorrow is a better day !


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
8/30/2016 5:41 pm

 Senseless random acts of violence.
Using more than all the road!


flaguy522 68M
1483 posts
8/30/2016 6:44 pm

 MissK...I can relate to that feeling of lashing back too hard. It's an emotion that just seems to take over; an anger that just won't be contained and is vented at the other. The self-recriminations that is felt afterward borders on self-abuse. We wonder how we allowed that to happen. It takes a while to recover. I hope you feel better.


bestfriend2156 68M
840 posts
8/30/2016 6:48 pm

 The thing that gets me the most is when someone disrespects my professionalism.. If you think, as an amateur, you know better and can do better than a pro at least have the class to keep it to yourself.


boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
8/30/2016 6:58 pm

 Not sure! Im sorry he got to you! Hugz


topherific 61M
5209 posts
8/30/2016 7:32 pm

 we are all only human...some more than others just chalk it up to a hard day and wake up tomorrow knowing that there is always someone out here that thinks you are the bees knees


veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
8/30/2016 7:50 pm

 it happens to all of us.....we are human and all have feelings! Take a deep breath and ignore him...if bothers you again....block him!
“Life is available only in the present moment.” Thich Nhat Hanh

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Msmealsonheels 30F  
688 posts
8/30/2016 8:01 pm

 MissKissin.. I feel for you. The worst though, is when it's someone that you just don't have much defense against. When it's someone that just means so much to you, in a sense, you may end up giving them the power to really get to you, for it to just cut deeper, to just sting more than anybody else could make you feel. Unfortunately, I do understand just how this can work.

I will just share a concept with you though. You may already understand every bit of this, I know. I have to work at being mindful sometimes. I know this, because I know what kind of things can happen in situations like this - when I am not watching with both eyes wide open, and purposely being (And staying) as mindful as I can be - even though the other person is trying their best to get me into some other state of mind, that is much easier for them to work with. And often, in situations like this - that is exactly what is going on.

I have watched a very manipulative person work their magic to try to get me to drop from a wiser state of mind, down to a more reactionary, knee-jerk, not-the-wisest, state of mind. The intention was to first get me off kilter, and then work on me for what they wanted from me. It was really very educational, once I saw through what was really going on. Oh, how things can work for some people, once they figure out how to do it...

Maybe once he saw he wasn't going to get what he really wanted, the next best thing was to ruin your day? To get you upset and off kilter was his intent? Do you think he enjoyed it? Got pleasure, or satisfaction from what he accomplished? I have a feeling you already knew long before today that he was not someone of any interest to you. Sometimes a very good defense is to just deny their petty little satisfaction reward. Give them nothing.


Msmealsonheels 30F  
688 posts
8/30/2016 8:26 pm

 Well, maybe I will add... Once in a while, if you can stay calm, maybe things just fall into place, maybe the moment will provide - and maybe you can hand them something right back - very calmly, and matter-of-factly... It may not stick to them, because of the kind of person they are. But if it does...


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
8/30/2016 9:05 pm

 This happened to me recently too, but not on this site. Normally people don't get under my skin, but if they do I'm able to let it go fairly quick. Someone questioned the way I do things at work, and I let it simmer all that day & night... even the next morning. I guess it got to me cause I'm so damned good at what I do. lol
Thoughts from the Garden...


lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
8/30/2016 9:23 pm

 That what I say or do is wrong!


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
8/31/2016 12:05 am

 It can happen anytime - regardless of conditioning -
- no need to introspect too much on it

A crappy day, a moment of not paying attention,
A moment of weakness - happens to all of us :
There's no feasible way you can live your entire life
as an armored combat unit - and no need to , as you'll lose
the finest essences

Scrape it off and chug an extra mile - that's what I do

Cheers - P


yArentWeNakedyet 59M
8 posts
8/31/2016 6:41 am

 People who point at their wrist while asking for the time. I know where my watch is buddy, where the fuck is yours? Do I point at my crotch when I ask where the bathroom is?


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
8/31/2016 7:38 am

 J..I'm so sorry my sweet friend that this happened to you..Some men just don't take rejection well. What the fuck is wrong with people like that. No means no and if they can't deal with it oh well that's not on you that's on them. Good for you for blocking him out of your life. You deserve to be respected by a man who truly cares about you..
Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


HermanG67 56M
8464 posts
8/31/2016 7:50 am

 so sorry.... hate the way those kinds of attacks leave you feeling empty

hugs


sexysixties2 106F
Ask me for a photo
39750 posts
8/31/2016 8:08 am

 I think the thing that annoys me most is when someone insults my intelligence....or hints that I'm only a woman so shouldn't be expected to know about "real" stuff. Jaysus red lights go off in my brain then and I let fly!!!!!
"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


Maybe2day1999 68M

8/31/2016 8:44 am

 I won't go into places that I have told myself, for ever forward, not to go to...but I have had that happen to me too. You are not alone. Moreover, I have reacted like you and been super critical of myself for reacting that way. Thankfully...time heals all. It's that stepping back and looking outside yourself that's tough...but works.


pal334 69M  
45821 posts
8/31/2016 2:09 pm
I am so sorry that happened to you. We all have triggers. I hope it does not happen to you again. Being retired, very little bothers me. I just blow everything off
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bent_whistle 72M
700 posts
8/31/2016 4:14 pm
I always thought this is a great come back...


VenusRising11 71F
4677 posts
8/31/2016 5:00 pm

 Sorry, sis....big hug!


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luvexotic 62M

8/31/2016 7:37 pm

 I don't let things get to me - I just let them slide off, like water off a duck's back. I smile at them and then turn about and walk away.


Turok1969 54M

9/2/2016 9:06 am

 Men can be so sensitive and take rejection personally. its part of life. glad u scraped him off your shoe


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