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sunligth56 57M
1113 posts
2/8/2016 6:09 am

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rm_txcoal 70M
205 posts
2/8/2016 6:14 am

dressing casual... all being at ease with it... the clothes have a good chance at being on a heap on the floor... its not the clothes that are involved in whats going to happen.. least on a man...lol


Stay_In_Reality 56M  
2209 posts
2/8/2016 7:15 am

It depends on what plans people make, although I prefer to be casually attired


itcurls 41M
59 posts
2/8/2016 8:51 am

I feel that a guy should dress nice and smell good wearing a t shirt and jeans or a dress shirt and slacks. Going to meet a married couple or a single ladie.


Slim1der100 51M
123 posts
2/8/2016 11:35 am

I will show up, wearing a nice jogging suit cause I'm definitely gonna WorkOut! "Easy Access" is what it's all about. But hey, that's just me...


1ForeTex 70M
120 posts
2/8/2016 12:00 pm

I will show up with a nice shirt & nice PANTS . Not paints I'm not painting the house!


lilluv_54 71M
103 posts
2/8/2016 2:46 pm

Although I do normally where a t shirt and jeans for everyday wear I do have and do wear a nice shirt and slacks when going out or going to meet someone.


08540Tantrafun 60M  
1072 posts
2/8/2016 3:58 pm

Dress as if you are be going on a date. Semi formal/casual elegance.

"Rules for happiness: something to do, someone to love, something to hope for.”― Immanuel Kant .


love2pleasu13 56M
6472 posts
2/8/2016 4:18 pm

Go casual


extra1980 61M
301 posts
2/8/2016 4:22 pm

If I was coming to meet you at your house a number of factors comes into play. What time of the year and how are you going to dress, never show up the host. I don't wear gym clothes unless I am going to the gym, as for jeans and t-shirt I can dress them up or down, depending on the situation. I would smell good too.


Married4aLova 69M

2/8/2016 4:26 pm

If its a first meeting you should always put your best foot forward and show up clean & nicely dressed.


_JKH_ 69M
5448 posts
2/8/2016 5:11 pm

Wear something decent and comfortable.

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RockCock1984 39M
73 posts
2/8/2016 8:14 pm

As long as you make sure you're clean, and taken care of, I think you should wear whatever you're comfortable in.


rocky2774 49M
565 posts
2/8/2016 10:53 pm

i'd say .. be what you are and get the best out of the moment.. be comfortable and self confident.. these are the keys which makes you desirable...

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ROCKY!!!!

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Pulsator552001 63M
132 posts
2/8/2016 11:57 pm

It's just common courtesy to make an effort to look smart, even in casual clothes. I despair sometimes in restaurants when I see smart girls sitting opposite scruffy guys (in baseball caps - worse still, baseball caps turned the wrong way round).


xxxsasaxxxx 48M
719 posts
2/9/2016 2:18 am

>>!


iraduu 43M
3598 posts
2/9/2016 6:41 am

dress is sexyyy for fun


d4oral 43M
38 posts
2/9/2016 10:35 am

Gotta be somewhat hott. make them wanna tear your clothes off.


Bdysnatcher 61M
1021 posts
2/9/2016 10:43 am

Gotta look somewhat decent unless the couple says just be your self!!!


iraduu 43M
3598 posts
2/9/2016 11:10 am

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm sexyyyyyyyyyyyy


Pulsator552001 63M
132 posts
2/9/2016 11:12 am

Jeans and t-shirt can look fine - the important thing is to make it look like you've taken a little thought and trouble.

Wearing something that it's easy to take off is a good idea, too.....


A1LOVER2004 50M  
177 posts
2/9/2016 12:38 pm

EVERYBODY IS DIFFERENT. NO ALL WILL WEAR SOMETHING NICE. ESPECIALLY IF YOU MEET ON THE INTERNET. GUYS ONLY EXPECT SEX FROM THE INTERNET. SO JUST BECAUSE A GUY HAS ON A T-SHIRT AND JEANS DOESN'T MEAN HE CAN'T FUCK. SINCE THATS WHAT HE'S THERE FOR DON'T COMPLAIN. IF YOU WANTED A FASHION MODEL THEN GO GET A FASHION MODEL. A DECENT APPEARANCE IS FINE TO EXPECT. BUT LETS NOT BE TOO OICKY.


iraduu 43M
3598 posts
2/9/2016 12:39 pm

very sexy pussy ,


iraduu 43M
3598 posts
2/9/2016 12:39 pm

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luvs2getsukdoff2 59M  
77 posts
2/9/2016 1:41 pm

Freshly showered, clean fresh shave, top and down there. Nice collar shirt, nice pair of jeans and my cowboy boots!


mrbadwxample 64M
115 posts
2/9/2016 3:05 pm

It kind of depends on the people you're visiting...if you've met them in person, go with the style they go with...or just ASK!

Sometimes you just have to say fuck it, drop everything, and go to Vegas.


smoothbutt1972 51M
10 posts
2/9/2016 4:42 pm

most of my hookups have to travel to me and i usually meet them at my door in a skimpy gstring and shirt if i have to travel i opt for tight fitting shorts and a shirt [post 3774489


rickyspanish76 48M
7843 posts
2/9/2016 5:05 pm

T-Shirt and Jeans for me....

Simple...


older051952 71M
96 posts
2/9/2016 6:25 pm

If you want to be invited back you better look clean


massiveguy 46M
2082 posts
2/9/2016 7:48 pm

T-Shirt and Jeans

Ola eu sou MassiveGuy ,e gostaria de conhecer melhor as mulheres que por aqui andam.


Time4Play41 50M

2/9/2016 8:31 pm

Can't believe some of these comments. No wonder some guys have such problems getting laid or meeting women. Geez !! Your dress and hygiene should be as if your taking a girl out on a first date, since that's what this essentially is . . A first date.

If you smell questionable and are scruffy, chances are that date isn't gonna get off the ground let alone lead to another one. Same applies here. It's a matter of self respect as well. It doesn't matter what they do, ( the couple ) . . Do what you do, set the tone, handle your business like a grown man , not some punk. Shake their hands and say thanks when it's over.


MFM4UNOW 66M
57 posts
2/9/2016 9:23 pm

Dress and hygiene yourself like you respect yourself. If you don't respect yourself, how is anyone else going to respect you.


psucker1951 72M
89 posts
2/9/2016 10:17 pm

I like to wear nice shirt and long pants.


Depeer3 63M
146 posts
2/10/2016 2:09 am

I am always well groomed when meeting, casual dress but smart, shaved in all areas, and ready for action.


Wanton_Wench2 62F  
1027 posts
2/10/2016 2:23 am



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Eviloutlaw1 62M
5180 posts
2/10/2016 2:42 am

Depends on where we are meeting. If meeting at a bar, I dress in what would be normal for that type of place. The more up scale the better I dress. For example, I wouldn't wear a three piece suit to a country road house, and by the same token Jeans and a T-shirt wouldn't be proper attire for a four star place. As always what ever the occasion, being freshly bathed and smelling nice doesn't hurt.


notsure1949 74M
10657 posts
2/10/2016 7:22 am

Dress shirt and nice paints is ok, suit is too formal


SPITNREADY 65M/F  
34 posts
2/10/2016 9:07 am

you want to presentable and also attract to them not like just coming to have sex and thats it


asiaas 55M
747 posts
2/10/2016 10:44 am

It depends where you want to meet at, if casual or little fancy. It really is about being yourself and honest.


firedup_19 62M
1684 posts
2/10/2016 12:48 pm

She deserves her new partner to spend just as much time prepping for the gift you guys are about to share...


WeLuv2GoNude 68M/66F
81 posts
2/10/2016 12:56 pm

We both like to dress nice when meeting others. If you can't put forth the effort to look nice, then don't think the playtime would be any better.


ur_Black_desire 54M  
57 posts
2/10/2016 1:53 pm

I would think one would dress in such a way that leaves her licking her lips while knowing she is in the presence of a real man and someone who's in the moment.


LittleDrummerMan 40M
100 posts
2/10/2016 2:00 pm

Good hygiene and grooming is a must. As far as clothing goes, it really depends on where I am going and who I am meeting. Some folks like the shirt and tie while others like a more rugged look. When in doubt, I usually go with a nice pair of jeans and a button up shirt. It's casual, but shows a little concern over appearance.

Sometimes I'm clever and other times I just babble. You decide LittleDrummerMan


njsurf75 48M
10 posts
2/10/2016 3:46 pm

I would wear clothes held together by Velcro....just kidding. What you decide to wear and how you groom yourself makes a first impression. Make it a good one!


idblueswoman 65F  
830 posts
2/10/2016 4:55 pm

The question is confusing... You ask about dressing for meeting then you ask about a guy showing up to your house for a threesome. Hopefully you aren't meeting these men for the first time at your house.


psucker2011 72M
72 posts
2/10/2016 10:33 pm

Love to wear TShirt and Jeans when going to see my girl friend.


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2/11/2016 1:06 am

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funbeingnude 71M  
392 posts
2/11/2016 2:20 am

people are so sloppy in the way they dress anymore


I_willoralu 49M
1684 posts
2/11/2016 10:40 am

I like to dress up some for the first meet. Doesn't have to be a suit but something a little nicer then just short and a t-shirt although that can be fine depending on where and when you meet. Jeans and a polo would be better then jeans and a t-shirt

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funsnellvillecpl 66M/54F  
3901 posts
2/11/2016 11:23 am

WE enjoy select men , but have had to tell some no thanks when they showed up looking like unkempt slobs. If you have a birds nest in your crotch , it isn't happening, Shaved ( top & bottom ) , showered , smelling good


arousedcoupleMT 49M/51F  
3 posts
2/11/2016 12:18 pm

As a couple (not exactly the poll question), we try to make a strong first impression. We both shower, trim, shave, etc., and try to dress casual but nice...jeans and a nice shirt for him, and nice jeans or cute skirt for her with a sexy but classy blouse. And...maybe the most important thing to wear is a smile! Some of our negative meetings have been with couples that can't smile and take it easy, whether they're too nervous (understandable if they're new), not on the same page with each other, or just straight up dour people to begin with. We're in this to have fun, so relax and at least try to smile, right?!

That probably goes for single guys, too...and anyone in this lifestyle. Just our two cents...


climbing14ers 67M/68F  
6 posts
2/11/2016 12:59 pm

First dates are first dates; a job interview. Dress to impress. And for heaven's sake, trim the Zohan bush. Facials, ie. nose, brows and ears. Your cock, pussy, and ass had better smell and taste like you attend to them regularly. When my nose smells anything but sweet and good, it main lines a message to my cock to drop dead!!


DoctorBooty 43M  
6426 posts
2/11/2016 4:54 pm

Every time I have met a couple at their house or at a hotel, I've been reasonably well dressed. Polo shirt, dress shorts or pants depending on the heat.


bisexualcharle69 59M

2/11/2016 7:48 pm

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TravelingMan524 71M
241 posts
2/12/2016 1:46 am

If you look like a tramp you should expect the same.
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Guys should show a little class.
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Great sex begins in the mind. A guy should look so good that the sight if him starts the juices flowing.


psucker20114 72M  
190 posts
2/12/2016 3:47 am

Love to wear proper dress shirt and nice long pants.


raysteven123 62M
59 posts
2/12/2016 6:16 am

just look good and have fun


slowrider8649 59M  
189 posts
2/12/2016 1:28 pm

I think he should be himself. He should look neat and clean, as to show some effort for the special occassion. If the chemistry is there and you are having fun in the end the clothes won't matter.


NubianDC 55M
224 posts
2/12/2016 7:14 pm

Why wouldn't you want to look nice? It's part of the attraction. I'm not saying you need to wear a suit, but being clean and looking nice is not asking too much especially if it is a first meeting.

Sooner or later I'll figure this thing out...


Maize32 55M  
1391 posts
2/12/2016 7:25 pm

You can never go wrong with a dress shirt, slacks, good hygiene and a bottle of wine


Yourwishismy2 56M
1 post
2/13/2016 7:33 am

Two Thoughts .... "Dress for Success" / "You get, what you tolerate "
I would be VERY concerned about those I meet, if sloppiness is the norm.

Just Sayin !


oldoak1 68M
2 posts
2/13/2016 7:43 am

I always felt that if you are going to be with people in a threesome for pity sakes look good, be clean and ready to please


jackhammerdeluxe 60M
140 posts
2/13/2016 9:06 am

For all first meets, you dress with impression and style. I prefer someone who dresses to the occasion. Jeans are out.


Tjregal1976affx 66M  
116 posts
2/13/2016 1:15 pm

I dress depending on the weather and where you are going. I wear jeans and a nice shirt meeting the lady.


golosa1115 62F
1066 posts
2/13/2016 5:20 pm

3 and 9 mention hygiene.


David_1025 51M  
2 posts
2/13/2016 8:00 pm

My comment regarding "Clothes to Wear when Meeting Folks for the 1st Time"... Well, I would love for her to meet my exactly like your profile picture... Body slightly bend at the knees, feet positioned shoulder-width apart, upper torso slightly bent over with a slow clock-wise rotation... Your profile picture provides a very good example of desired situation -- good girl!


omangslave 29M

2/13/2016 8:33 pm


menoly1973 51M
10 posts
2/13/2016 9:27 pm

Something that is comfortable


JPEORIA 54M
287 posts
2/14/2016 5:17 am

go buck naked!


amkamk48001 56M/54F

2/14/2016 5:53 am

Something that is comfy but not looking like a bum either. Good hygiene is the most important thing. Don't show up without showering and make sure if you share a photo it is up to date!! Had one who showed up and was nothing like his photo. Was fatter and also smaller dick than what he said, wife was honest and asked him to leave and to please update profile.


asitreallyis66 54M
9 posts
2/14/2016 11:01 am

To Be Honest With You, It's Been So Long Ago, I'm Finding It Hard To Remember. However, If I Were To Be Invited To Such An Event Now, You Can Bet Your Bottom Dollar I'd Be Wearing A Look Of Utter SHOCK & AMAZEMENT!.


asitreallyis66 54M
9 posts
2/14/2016 11:08 am

I Did That Once For A Swingers Halloween Costume Party. I Showed Up Wearing Nothing But A Pair Of Roller-Skates, And a Shoe String Tied To My Dong. You Guessed It, I Went As A Slinky Pull-Toy!.


iraduu 43M
3598 posts
2/14/2016 12:59 pm

your add me frieend,your very hotttt delicious


vanillanmocha 43M/40F
28 posts
2/15/2016 3:58 am

3 & 9. If the Mrs has spent a hour getting ready they should spend min. 30 mins getting ready ( shave, shower, manscapping etc)


wantowatchufk 74M
55 posts
2/15/2016 11:20 am

if I was meeting you wearing nothing at all would be fine with me . . .


NubianDC 55M
224 posts
2/15/2016 2:55 pm

    Quoting  :

I think that says it all. The hot wives that I have met go out of their way to look sexy for our meeting and I appreciate that. When we meet I want to look good so she's thinking she made the right choice.

N

Sooner or later I'll figure this thing out...


ClassicFriction 62M
956 posts
2/15/2016 5:44 pm

If I have the good fortune to be invited to a threesome with you at your home, I'll be squeaky clean, shaved above and below, and dressed as if it were a first date with a single lady. No jacket or tie, but everything else will be very professional and polished. While women have the advantage of sexy lingerie, I've got special underwear that I'm hoping you can't wait to remove.


psucker20114 72M  
190 posts
2/16/2016 1:16 am

I love to meet me lady in TShirt,Jeans,and good hygiene with a nice perfume.


tkmeout2daballgm 65M
4 posts
2/16/2016 8:07 am

I like to wear an athletic body shirt umbro, addidas or nike usually black. My skin tones go best with black. Also usually wear same type of jogging pants with no underwear. Nipples stand up nicely and my bulge is evident right away. A kiss usually takes care of the pants and the top is off as soon as the nipples get pinched or rubbed. I think you wan't to be casual but ready to rock. If the first vibes in the door are let's get a feel for each other before we play, then I adjust to the moment.


6inches4urlips 76M
15 posts
2/16/2016 2:16 pm

when i have a new guest over for some play time and sex i always make sure i take a shower and smell good,and wait for them naked and ready to get started.


nwohiocpl81604 57M/45F
8 posts
2/17/2016 2:30 am

We chose the Jeans, Tshirt and good hygiene for us. We are basically Jeans and t shirt people to begin with. If they feel comfortable coming more dressed up than that, it is fine by us, but we are good with jeans and tshirt


Justfoolin70 53M
45 posts
2/17/2016 3:56 am

Nice jeans... nice shirt... CLEAN... trimmed where it needs to be.... Not picky on shaved, but,,, who wants a jungle to sort through...
In a couple minutes you will have nothing on so look nice and presentable, but be comfortable!


superdave196596 58M
67 posts
2/18/2016 3:12 am

I always shower shave and if it is a mmf I would make preparations for anal always wear nice jeans and dress shirt but ask ahead of time if I should wear ladies undergarments I am still waiting for my 1st couple but be prepared is the best motto


angel222006 64F
149 posts
2/18/2016 4:08 pm

either dress shirt, nice shorts and hygiene is a 100% a must don't wear clothes like u just took then out of the dirty laundry that's gross and nasty


thejay71879 44M
40 posts
2/18/2016 8:14 pm

The way I see it, if the clothes are coming off anyway, what the hell difference does it make?


KnightTakesQu33n 44M
3 posts
2/18/2016 10:58 pm

HAHA!
I am always amazed by this, especially outside of the dating scene.
If a picture is worth a thousand words, what does your image say about you?
Seriously, look in the mirror, look at what you are wearing, what does it say about you?


I_BRANDY 75M

2/19/2016 1:09 pm

each occasion has it's own requirements. Not clean is never an option!


davi04038 32M
548 posts
2/21/2016 8:26 pm

Something nice to wear and good hygiene.


288_rj2 55M
15 posts
2/22/2016 5:08 pm

Always meeting new folk present yourself clean, dressed be presentable.


oraljim201 75M
7423 posts
2/27/2016 1:38 am

a shirt and pants looking neat and clean


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