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all you have to do is ask
all you have to do is ask Good afternoon, i hope this finds you with that secret smile on your face. i have a smile on my face, but it is not a secret. I don't know if this happens to any of you, but it does me quite often. I have people hit on me here everyday. Some, I am interested in enough to continue the conversation, with the hopes of a meet n greet. But, there is always a but. Some of you never seem to get out of the starting gate. Meaning, if you don't ask to meet, nothing is going anywhere. This is how it should work here or anywhere. We message back and forth here. If there is mutual interest, you text and talk on the phone. From there you do a meet n greet, and from there, you figure out where things are going, if they are going anywhere. For some reason, many of you want to message here, and/or talk and text on the phone until one of us quits. you never get out of the starting gate. There are only so many things you can talk about without meeting each other. Meeting and knowing that person, is an important step in the whole process. It seems many of you cannot get to that point for whatever reason. This is how it works. I received a message, and responded back. The messages came and went. this was over a day or two. He then messaged: HI, LINDA, I AM ........ WOULD YOU LIKE TO GO OUT FOR DINNER OR MEET OVER A DRINK. he left his phone number. I responded, yes I would love to meet you over a beer. I sent my number. That was yesterday, we are meeting tonight. See, how simple that was. Its a casual meeting between two people, decided what they are doing. But, many of you cant' get there for whatever reason. I'm not here to be somebody's penpal or phone buddy. If you are, great. I know there are people here for just that. Not me. Have a great day. Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls |
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Great blog and sooo true, wish I were closer, would luv to have a girl with a beer or 2/ d
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Great blog and sooo true, wish I were closer, would luv to have a girl with a beer or 2/ d Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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And let's not forget that if the message is well written and sincere it might resonate enough to get a better response that says more than a one line, generic one, and therefore meeting becomes all the more intriguing!
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And let's not forget that if the message is well written and sincere it might resonate enough to get a better response that says more than a one line, generic one, and therefore meeting becomes all the more intriguing! Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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This is how it should work here or anywhere. We message back and forth here. If there is mutual interest, you text and talk on the phone. From there you do a meet n greet, Actually there's a better way; Skip the , "Phone text and talk". Big waste of time. Don't waste time. Go meet him for 15 to 30 minutes that day or the next day. [Not over drinks or food]. First go find out if there is any chemistry. After volleying messages back and forth for awhile, that day, there is clearly "Interest" so all he has to do , is say, "I want to meet you", and say, when and where.
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Not a good idea for a man to preface a meeting by "Asking". That is weak. The male impacts the female more strongly on a visceral level if he "Capt Kirks" her. He "Tells" her what he wants. There's no intrusion. She still says , "Yes" or "No".
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This is how it should work here or anywhere. We message back and forth here. If there is mutual interest, you text and talk on the phone. From there you do a meet n greet, Actually there's a better way; Skip the , "Phone text and talk". Big waste of time. Don't waste time. Go meet him for 15 to 30 minutes that day or the next day. [Not over drinks or food]. First go find out if there is any chemistry. After volleying messages back and forth for awhile, that day, there is clearly "Interest" so all he has to do , is say, "I want to meet you", and say, when and where. Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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Excellent!!!! Hope you have fun, get pics, or better, get vide-ohohoh!>>! Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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for some people, myself included, it's not that easy to even send the initial "hello" The reasons are different for everyone Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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its hard to make something happen from this site. Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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Not a good idea for a man to preface a meeting by "Asking". That is weak. The male impacts the female more strongly on a visceral level if he "Capt Kirks" her. He "Tells" her what he wants. There's no intrusion. She still says , "Yes" or "No". Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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I'm pretty much like that as well, I will ask.......thegrls Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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great post Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..........thegrls
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