Is it worth it? Really?  

46DorianGray2 34M
26 posts
7/1/2005 5:54 pm

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Is it worth it? Really?

Is this site fo real?

How many of you can honestly say, that you have had, in so far as your goal for joining AdultFriendFinder is concerned, success on this site?

I checked out IMC, right. And there were 6,142 men online at the time and only 657 women !

That's a 10 to 1 ratio!

And if you take into account the profiles that are fakers who are just screwing around (or not, to be more accurate) on the net, that could make the ratio even worse.

Question is, is it worth it? Is it worth it to spend my hard earned dollars on odds like that?

10 guys for every girl? Give or take the fakers.

Who's actually hookin' up out there? Who's for real?

This question is for everybody. The players, the nymphos, the lovers, the haters, men, women, women who used to be men and vice versa, Are you gettin' any?

I can't really say, myself. I just started out on AdultFriendFinder and I can't contact anyone as a standard member.

Ana_6973 43F

7/1/2005 7:38 pm

I decided from the beginning to pay so I could see who was emailing me or viewing my profile. I have met a number of guys on here. The majority have been good experiences. The occaisional dud but hey, that's life. For the most part, it has been well worth it.

~~"I can scream as loud as your last one, but I can't claim innocence."~~

007sexy40plus 51F  
7603 posts
7/1/2005 8:09 pm

DG, trust me dear, out of those 6,000+ MEN, I would be willing to bet you that 60% are bi-sexual/bi-curious or prefer not to say(which usually mean he will suck or fuck a dick). Being a woman here I get to see the men profiles and its saddening/sickening that all these fine ass men are willing to be poked and prodded by other men. I do not understand why they set up their profiles and are gay or close to it but yet they are categorized with the men who are looking for women.
Hell if they are curious then skip on over to the gay group, let us women who want men find the men who want us back. I am not knocking gay men or those who prefer men but they need to be where they belong. I chat on IMC and sometimes on a good day I get im'd 60 times by men too damn far to spit at or those who just want to sit at their computers and jackoff or call you on the phone so that you can hear them jackoff. I think the IMC is a place for all the horny, lonely men. There was a guy who contacted me today from afar, and he told me he loves to suck dicks. (to each their own) I wondered why he was talking to me, I was not about to share my guys dick with him. LOL.

I have met a couple of men from here(yep, 2, im picky ok?) one lasted too damn long but I was only a "booty call" the other has lasted 6 months now and counting. So there are real people here you just have to wade through all the undesirables and find that shinning star.

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"

smileguyqc 53M

7/1/2005 8:19 pm

I've met one person through the site and my wife has met 4. It does work but maybe not as quickly and efficiently as you want. We only use the site as nonpaying members. Paying I'm sure improves your chances as you can initiate e-mail contact. The short answer is, I think it works but you have to be incredibly patient and put alot of energy into it.

DirtyLilSecret61 55F

7/1/2005 8:44 pm

I like the 10 to 1 ratio, but hey maybe I'm just too perverted.


jizzm2005 51M

7/1/2005 10:46 pm

I'm with you "brother". To many men, not enough women, but unfortunately that's how it is. I'm looking for a new site where the ratio is more balanced.For us men, it's like hitting the lottery if you ever find a female friend, lover, on this site, very rare. You'll probably have better luck putting an ad in your local paper!

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
7/2/2005 12:30 am

ew have had great success with the site truely it just takes patience and participation


patsam69 51M/51F

7/3/2005 9:49 am

Out of all of those men...Only about 25 know how to talk to a woman. O.k. maybe its 125...but not much more. Many of them think we are there personal whores...or they are gay or bisexual. It's not an easy road as I am a picky bitch, but in the end it is worth it. We have had a few good experiences over the past year. It is just frustrating weeding through all the pigs out there. Good luck to you! Sam

jman20foryounow 34M
1 post
7/13/2005 7:25 am


rm_romio_x 40M

10/19/2005 9:28 am

You are right I have been a paid memeber for a month and all what I received is advertisers for webcams and other adult sites.
I am totally straight and I have loved but never found real love. I am also lookin for friends that share my high sex drive. We could hang out and look for fun.
See my blog and my posts. You will know I suffered from finding real people on the site.

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