1playfulgal 39F
7112 posts
7/10/2005 8:11 pm

Last Read:
3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Postes this ages ago...got lots of great feedback...and i think its worth posting again...

Gotta Love Mae West

1. Control your saliva! No woman likes to really be drooled on. The only time you want and need a little of your own juice is at the beginning of going down on a girl and she needs help getting things lubricated.

2. Keep your lips in good shape. Rough, dry, chapped lips are no fun to kiss. Break out the lip balm and use it.

3. Consider her when you decide to skip shaving. I have it on good authority razor stubble scratches, itches, and rubs a woman’s more sensitive skin raw (and no, I’m not just talking about her face) so think about that when you’re being too lazy to scrape your face for a date.

4. You hear it every day but I’ll say it again, the fresher your breath the better.

5. What worked in your early years doesn’t necessarily work now. Keep learning, keep growing, and keep trying something new. A lazy kisser is going to end up a lonely kisser.

6. The correct lip tension for kissing is quite an art. Too loose and you feel lazy and uninterested, too tight and you feel mean and tense.

7. Don’t surprise a new woman with a kiss of overwhelming force and passion. It works in the movies because it’s in the script, for you at home it may come across as attempted date . Far too many times women tell me of the shock and awe (not in a good way) inspired by a man’s hundred mile an hour approach to the first kiss. It usually leaves the woman longing for the closest exit. Yes, you may be burning with desire for her but you’ve got to slowly and carefully get her libido up to the same speed as yours.

8. Kissing isn’t just for the lips. Anywhere a woman is particularly sensitive she likes to be kissed. When was the last time you kissed the nape of her neck, her wrist, the underside of her breast or between them, her ears, her stomach, the back of her knee…

9. Don’t try and figure out how sensitive her gag reflex is with your tongue while French kissing! The goal is to enjoy yourselves, not see how far down the back of her throat you can get your tongue.

10. Mix it up. Kissing in the same way for prolonged periods of time can get really boring. This isn’t a marathon for how long you can keep your tongue in her mouth. Mix up the long deep kisses with short soft ones on her forehead, her cheek, and her neck…and of course back to her lips.

11. Learn from the acting pros and don’t forget your hands. Ever wonder why women still swoon at the mention of Richard Gere’s name? The man is an ace kisser, he puts his whole body into it, and he uses his hands to coddle and caress a woman’s face, he run his hands through her hair, and leans into her with his hips. Ever watched Bull Durham? Check out Kevin Costner’s lip action (no, you don’t have to tell anyone, do your own private research man). In last year’s Cold Mountain Jude Law gives Nicole Kidman such a dazzling kiss as he runs off to war that she literally goes weak in the knees. That’s the kind of kissing action I’m talking about.

12. Don’t work too hard. Kissing is for fun and pleasure, if you’re breaking a sweat from effort (not from chemistry) you’re working too hard. Sit back, relax and let her come to you at times…don’t always be chasing her with your tongue and your hands. Learn to give and take. See what she can teach you.

13. Don’t go frenching her ears unless you know for a fact she loves it. Some women adore big wet kisses in their soundboards, but too many others HATE it. Don’t ruin a great mood by doing something that will gross her out.

14. Do tug gently on her earlobes with your teeth (again gently) when you kiss her neck and while you’re at it why not whisper a compliment or wicked suggestion?

15. Be brave enough to ask for pointers when getting to know a new woman. Remember kissing is a matter of personal taste, what one woman likes isn’t going to always work for another, but if you hear a particular suggestion more than once you know it’s something you’ve got to work on.

16. Smell good. Women have a very keen sense of smell and love a man who smells good. Don’t use so much after shave or cologne she can smell you coming before you arrive, use just enough that she can only get a whiff of it when you step in close for a hug or kiss.

17. Women love to kiss. If you’re with a woman who doesn’t like to kiss (and yes, I’ve heard of it) and it really seems to be just the act of kissing she doesn’t like (not your technique) it may be fare warning that she’s not going to like to do other physical things with you either. There are far too many beautiful women out there who love to kiss (as well as do other things) so why waste your time?

18. Kissing isn’t something you bide your time with on the way to something else (sex), it’s an art within itself. Master the art of kissing, enjoy the art of kissing, and everything else will come along more easily than you ever imagined possible. Why? Because women enjoy both kissing and sex more when they don’t feel like they’re just the goalkeeper and you’re only there to make the winning goal.

19. Leave her wanting more. Don’t kiss her so much that her lips are raw and her face aches – leave her wanting more of you, not less (especially in the beginning).

pussyworshippe2 51M
37 posts
7/11/2005 1:48 am

hey sounds like I should practise lend me your moutrh 1playfulgal

NightOfPassion2 58M

7/11/2005 4:58 am

A kiss can be a comma, a question mark or an exclamation point.
~ Mistinguett

Love your suggestions.....I beleive in #3....i can only grow a beard during this time away from home...but i'll be worth shaving for the time together.....woo hoo....

rm_4nik8_4u 61M
2501 posts
7/11/2005 8:49 am

Have you been going through my mind again? hehe. Really, I'm sure there are many who will benefit from this info. Maybe you can do one on "How to orally please a woman". From the stories I have heard from many ladies there is a need for this!!!

alice593 71M

7/11/2005 12:44 pm

Wow, 1playful girl, you are right on the money with all of them. I was told about a few of them myself. Either do it, or no pleasure. lol Boy did I ever do it.

rm_Trucker3030 63M
151 posts
7/11/2005 3:25 pm

Gee, playful. You hit every one of the best spots to kiss a lady. A lot of people forget about the back of the knees. Around the belly button works, too. Hmm. Hadn't done that in a while. Wanna refresh my memory, playful?

mnfun952 102M

7/11/2005 6:58 pm

Kissing is SO important.... making out like a couple of high-school kids is such a turn on to me... I love the 'play' (everything leading up to fucking) more than the 'work'!


L8Nite1on1 35M

7/11/2005 8:37 pm

(I realize that this applies to your post 2 days ago, but anyways...) How could any man let go of you? (This is, unless you let go of him) Seriously, what was he thinking?

EroticallyRapt 55M
336 posts
7/11/2005 8:57 pm

Good post 1playfulgal. Kissing is so underrated by so many. Every one of your points is valid and true. Nothing turns me on more than a woman that knows how to kiss and be kissed. Like mnfun952 said, making out is hot stuff. I'll also point out the #7 is very true, too. I've made the mistake of being over eager and pushing my self to make a move too hard and scared more than one woman in my life. I've been told (recently, actually ) that I'm a good kisser. But, on those occasions when I lacked self-control it was awful. Needless to say, nothing more happened after a first kiss like that. So, take your time, it's worth the wait


1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
7/11/2005 11:03 pm


Yes she is an amazing woman...


would love to...

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
7/11/2005 11:04 pm


Nothing ruins a makeout session more than stubble burn...OUCH!!


thanks for the idea...i'll have to put some thought into that...

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
7/11/2005 11:07 pm


As someone who absolutley loves kissing and making out like teenagers...i couldn't even begin to fathom those who don't enjoy it...


taking advice and learning from it is a valuable skill...

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
7/11/2005 11:09 pm


belly button eh...that could be fun...don't recall anyone ever kissing me there...


I've experienced that too...its like a kind of torture ain't it...

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
7/11/2005 11:11 pm


Ain't that the truth...foreplay for me is the most important part...I could cuddle on the couch and makeout for hours before getting to the actual penetration...


1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
7/11/2005 11:12 pm


sadly he is moving away...otherwise we would be carrying on with our FWB relationship...thanks for the compliment...very sweet...

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
7/11/2005 11:15 pm


Most definitley...I have experienced such a situation as well...in that case it was too much too soon...had he started out slow...and eased into those deep rough kisses i would have been more receptive...

Missed you babe...ciao

rm_Trucker3030 63M
151 posts
7/12/2005 4:40 pm

Not only is the belly button highly sensitive to kisses, but it sooo close to that sweet passion flower so highly desired by a man from a beautiful woman. A long, slow journey down from the belly button to the honey pot fans the flames of desire to a fever pitch. Wish I could demonstrate the technique for you!!

1playfulgal 39F
1828 posts
9/7/2005 10:59 pm


that sounds like fun...

i wish you could too...


Become a member to create a blog