Great Oral Sex: Lesson 1 - Fellatio  

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Great Oral Sex: Lesson 1 - Fellatio


A GUIDE TO GREAT ORAL SEX
by 3Horus

LESSON 1.

A Guide To Erotic Fellatio.

My contribution to this Guide has been inspired by several factors. The first is my two and a half decades of joyously fellating my husband. The second is the desire on my part to share my experiences with other women so that they can realize in some fashion, in their own way, the pleasures and joys that the intimacy of fellatio has brought to my marriage. I have also read several other "guides", read tons and tons of advice from many many posters in several chat rooms and felt that something was missing thus I was inspired to add in my own experiences.

This Guide is in no way complete, nor is it the "true and right way." I have tried to touch on the several areas that concern women as they learn fellatio and as they learn more erotic fellatio. Always remember that sex and sexual intimacy are supposed to be FUN. Not everything I talk about is for every woman or her man, yet nothing I talk about is harmful or dangerous. Some ideas are very outrageous to be sure and some are simple common methods of arousal and lovemaking. You may want to try everything I write about or you may want to reserve some things for special times or special treats.

We will talk about fellatio (known popularly as a "blow job" or "giving head") as an act of sexual sensuality in which you are in control of his pleasure. I personally find it to be an empowering experience. I am a pleasure giver and you can be one too. It's okay to be a pleasure giver, to take control and be the one in charge. Fellating your man is an excellent way to express yourself as a pleasure giver. Many women find it a powerfully erotic experience. I know that I do! Be aware that for most men fellatio is an act of trust and of giving up control to you. You become the controller of his pleasure. He becomes the passive receiver, you the aggressive giver. This can be difficult for some men but the intensity of the pleasure you can give him, your enthusiasm, your desire, your need to be in charge usually wins out. Within this Guide you will also find sections for dealing with semen taste, achy jaw, deep throat, and semen play.

To begin with, the term for a woman who fellates or sucks a man's penis is a fellatrix. Not every woman needs to be an expert fellatrix. Every man and every woman is different. Just don't be afraid to talk to him about his desires in regard to fellatio. Have fun and love each other.

If you are new to fellatio you should take some time to study his penis. Turn the lights up ask him to lay back or sit back and relax. Tell your man what you want to do. Tell him that you want to explore his penis and balls, that you want to learn what makes him feel good.

Touch his penis with your hands. Turn it this way and that. Observe its shape: the veins, the hairs, the wrinkles. Notice how the head changes color as it hardens and as he grows more aroused. See how the balls seem to move on their own, contracting and relaxing. Play with his penis. Use your fingers to press and stroke its various parts. Use a flavored oil, or flavorless water based lubricant, or your saliva to make his hard shaft slick. Stroke it, squeeze it, pull it, slow, fast but always gentle until he lets you know what he prefers. Pay attention to how he reacts. Ask him to tell you what feels good and what doesn't as you explore his erection and balls. Don't be afraid to squeeze; he'll tell you if it's too hard! Next, touch the tip of your tongue to the shaft. Explore his entire penis with the tip of your tongue. Your tongue is very sensitive to touch. Feel the subtleties in texture, the pulse of his heartbeat in the veins, the twitching. When you find a sweet spot remember where it was.

Explore his balls and scrotum with the tip of your tongue. After you have completed a full exploration with the tip of your tongue do it all over again with the flat of your tongue. Now explore the entire penis with your lips. Kiss its entire length. Nibble it with your lips. After you have explored his penis with your lips do it again, but add your tongue, sometimes just the tip sometimes the flat. Next add sucking. Suck the sides of the shaft. While sucking the side move your lips up and down along its length. Tongue the shaft while gently sucking its sides. Suck his scrotum. Gently suck his testicles. When licking his scrotum keep one hand on his shaft, gently stroking or squeezing, or use you thumb to play with the underside of the head. Take just the head into your mouth. Press your lips around it. Explore it with your tongue. Run your tongue all around it, even poking into the hole. Some men find this extremely pleasurable. Vary the pressures. Suck softly. Tongue it. Suck harder, tongue harder, or slower or in circles or like a butterfly trying to land softly on a flower. Move the head in and out of your lips. Press hard with your lips, press ever so softly.

The one thing you almost never see in adult videos is what the fellatrix is doing with her tongue! Your tongue is a very important tool in fellatio! Finally, slowly lower your mouth down around his penis. Let it touch the back of your mouth. Get used to its feel. Turn your head this way and that. Let it press against your cheeks, your tongue, the roof of your mouth. Each has a different feeling for him. Suck hard or suck soft or not at all while its in your mouth. Use your tongue to lick, press, squeeze, stroke with your tongue. Use it to play with his erection as it moves in and out of your mouth. You'll quickly learn what he likes and what he likes more!

Move your head up and down, very slowly at first, his penis moving in and out of your mouth. Vary the lip pressure, the sucking pressure, the tongue motion. You should also use your hands to stroke his shaft and balls especially if he is longer than average. Make sure they are slick with saliva or lubricant. You can also move your head as if to nod "yes" or "no" or twirl it. You can do this deeply or with just the head in your mouth. You can use your mouth to "write" the alphabet as if his penis was a pencil held between your lips. See if you can find his favorite letters! There are a thousand things you can do with your mouth and hands and mind to stimulate his penis as you fellate him. Half the fun is discovering them. The other half is seeing his pleasure from them!

Eventually you will learn how to maximize and extend his pleasure by varying these skills and will even discover a few of your own that work very well with your particular man. After all each man is different.

Reminder: A word of moderate caution if you are a novice. Talk to him first. Tell him that you want to learn how to pleasure him with your mouth and to give him the best blow job he's ever had. Ask him not to thrust into you or push your head down until you're more experienced. Also ask him nicely not to come in your mouth until you get used to the taste of him. Right now you want to learn how to use your mouth to give him pleasure.

When you are ready for him to come in your mouth ask him to tell you when he is about to. There are several signs you can look for, feel with your tongue and lips and eventually learn to recognize, but he should help you with a warning until you no longer need or want one. If you have never tasted his semen before you may want to taste it at an earlier love making sessions. Semen, even if his diet is altered, can be an acquired taste. Start with a finger tip's amount of semen. The texture can be awkward as well. You should play with it with your hands, feel it, get used to it.

Fellatio as an art! Like all sexual acts, I believe that you should put yourself completely into it in order to maximize his pleasure and your enjoyment. Erotic fellatio is a total mind and body experience, requiring your caring loving attention to his needs, desires and senses. It is basically the art of making love to a penis with your mouth. However, the essence of requires your mind and heart, your creativity and love, your desire to please and your joy from pleasing.

Men are Visual.

Men enjoy watching themselves receive fellatio almost as much as they enjoy feeling it. Use position, mirrors, or a video camera to maximize his visual stimulation. You are the actress and he is the penis he fantasizes about when he watches porno films. If you use a video camera you don't have to record it. Just seeing it on TV can be lots of fun.

The pleasure that he will get watching what is being done to his penis will add to and heighten his pleasure. Think about what he will see before you begin fellating him. He will see your body, your hair, your costume, the drape or sway of its fabric, the movement of your hands, the sway of your hips, your whole body movement as you walk or crawl nearer to him. He will see your look, the expression on your face. He will watch your lips, your mouth as your moistened tongue flicks out licking your lips. He'll watch your eyes, as they watch his growing erection, widening with delight and anticipation your pupils growing larger as your own arousal increases. It's also fun if you can catch him while he is still soft. I like to feel him growing in my mouth. "Look what I made!"

Erotic Sounds.

Talking, slurping, sighs and moans. Music, rustling clothes. The crackle of a fire, sounds of sex from a porno video. Talk to him. Use your voice. Look deeply into his eyes as you speak to him. Let him hear the desire in your voice, your lust, your promise of pleasure. Tell him how much you so deeply want to please him and arouse him. Talk to his erection. Tell it everything you want to do to it. Tell it how good it will feel sliding into your mouth, how it will feel on your tongue or deep in your throat. Tell it how much you want it to explode in your mouth filling it with his gift.

Smell and Taste.

Perfume, flowers, incense, food, leather, your skin, your hair. The smell of your own juices from your arousal. Let him taste your arousal. Dip your fingers into your vulva coating them with your juices. Then let him lick and suck them. Wipe them across his upper lip so that each time he breathes in he will smell your arousal.

Touch.

Fellatio is more than mouth contact. It involves every part of your body. Your hands on his genitals, his chest, his bum, his thighs. Your breasts on his thighs, his stomach. The feel of lingerie, satin gloves, your hair, long earrings, trailing necklaces. Use your breath to touch his skin. Breathe lightly or blow softly.

The Setting.

To set the mood play music, use incense, candles, wine, pillows, mirror, and whatever else that you would like to use to set the mood. Use sex toys, clothes, lingerie, and jewelry. What you want is the complete attention of his psyche. Every nerve in his body is heightened in anticipation of your vision, smell, sound and touch. It is the combination of all these things that make for erotic fellatio, a total body experience for him and you.

How To Use Fellatio.

Fellatio can be used as foreplay or as a complete act in itself or as a warm up to other sex with fellatio as a grand finale. E:;fellatio as a complete act or as a finale is incomplete without his orgasm. His semen is his gift of love. There is and will always be great debate as to what a woman should do with his semen during or after his orgasm. For me that question has been answered. A good fellatrix relishes her man's orgasm and uses it to heighten and expand his pleasure; his total and complete experience.

A good fellatrix loves her man's penis. Study his penis, his erection and get to know it very well. Treat it as a completely separate entity. After a time you will acquire an appreciation for it in all its stages. You will also come to understand that it's as natural to have his penis and his semen in your mouth as it is to have it in your pussy.

A great fellatrix expresses her love for him through her fellatio. You can express your sexual desire, your needs, your emotions by loving him through his penis. You can communicate your love for him by consuming his penis and his semen with your mouth, your mind and your heart. Eventually you will come to actualize pleasure for yourself in being able to give yourself over to his pleasure so completely, by taking pleasure in being a pleasure giver.

Most men, your man will probably want you to swallow his semen from time to time. Yours may want to see you savor it, lick it up, drink it down. This completes the act for him. It fulfills his need to give himself to you. In that most erotic and intimate of moments he will want you to take all of him down. This is where your skill at fulfilling the visual aspects of fellatio can come into play. A basic example: Allow him to ejaculate your mouth then after he has finished his orgasm lift up off his penis, look him in the eyes and make a show of swallowing his entire gift. Open your mouth to show him that its all gone.

Variations in Men's Desires.

Your man is unique. Each penis likes different things and it's up to you to learn what his penis likes. Talk to him, watch porno videos with him. Have him tell you what he likes and doesn't like. When you do have his penis in your mouth have him tell you what feels good and what feels better, to move slower, or faster, press harder or lick quicker. This way you will become the the only expert in the entire world at fellating his penis! And in time he will no longer need to tell you what he needs. It will all come naturally.

Fellatio can be hard work (pun intended). Your jaw can ache, your neck can grow fatigued, your back can become sore. Exercise can alleviate many of these problems but be aware of them. Do not do one thing too long. Use your hands in order to give your mouth a rest. Alternate between hand and mouth pressure. Or alternate between mouth and pussy. You'll eventually learn your limits and your strengths. Practice is essential. Your man will not object if you want to fellate him for an extended period or to try new things. He doesn't even have to know that you are practicing! All he will know is that you are doing something wonderful.

Preparing For Erotic Fellatio.

If you've decided to treat him to an evening of erotic fellatio, an evening in which your entire focus is you fellating him! Prepare the setting. Candles, incense, cushions, beverages, foods and the clothes you choose to wear that will arouse him.

Next, prepare yourself. A luxurious bath or soothing shower will help you relax and focus your body and mind. Shave your legs, arm pits and labia, if you are so inclined. Oil your body and perfume it. Know what kind of makeup he likes or the style that makes you look the sexiest, or naughtiest or the most sultry. Most men like ruby red lipstick . Fellatrixes throughout time have worn red lipstick and red red nails! Select jewelry, clothes, lingerie and even shoes that tell him you are a sexual woman eager and anxious for his penis and his eventual gift of his semen. Arrange your hair in such a way so that it doesn't get in your way or prevent him from observing you as you work your magic. "Dressing for "suck sex", as my husband says. Even a simple string of pearls reminds a man of his semen on your throat especially when you play with it with your finger and tongue. "String of pearls" is a phrase for his semen on your face and neck!

The position you select from which to perform your erotic fellatio is important. I like one that maximizes his view. I like to sit him in a large soft chair that allows me to approach him from a kneeling position between his legs. I will slowly approach him from across the room or another chair. If I am dressed I might slowly peel away layers of clothes or let the evening gown slip to the floor in a pile around my ankles, revealing the lingerie I selected, lingerie that increases his desire for me. If he is already nude I'll watch his penis, occasionally looking in his eyes but mostly focusing my attention on his growing erection. As I drop to my knees between his legs I'll continue to observe, to study, to sigh, to lick my lips.

Next begin by talking to his penis. A soft voice, a whisper, speaking sensuously of the desire to feel it on your lips. So many women forget to use their voices to turn their man on, to arouse him, to bring him to the brink of explosion. Look right at his raging erection as you tell it what you will do to it. Tell it how good you know it will feel in your mouth, sliding over your lips, pulsing and throbbing with each stroke of your tongue. Tell it how perfect it is for fellatio, how it fills your mouth, how easily it slides in. Tell it that you've been thinking about it all day long. Tell it how much it excites you, how much you want it, how desperate you are to run your tongue up and down its length. Talk to him about his orgasm, how much you want it, to taste it, to flood your mouth, to shoot into your throat, to lick it up and swallow it.

SOME ADVANCED THINGS TO DO.

Him Controlling The Action.

When you have become comfortable with fellatio you may want to allow him to thrust into your mouth. You may even desire it yourself! This can be particularly erotic if you can also deep throat him. It is important for him to know your abilities.

Deep Throat.

Deep throating is the activity of taking a man's erection into your mouth and into your throat. It often means taking his entire length in. There is no right or wrong time to deep throat. You can use it as a starter, or from time to time throughout your fellatio or as a finishing touch. Many men like to finish with deep throat and you can learn to enhance his experience by learning how to swallow against his penis as he comes. This is an advanced technique that can take a great deal of practice to learn how to do. Many fellatio advisors state that deep throat is over rated. Well, I don't think it is and the few men I've had the opportunity to deep throat don't think so either.

First, it is visually arousing... very arousing! Many of you have seen videos or pictures of a woman deep throating an erect penis. It is a very erotic image. Second, it a power thing for a woman to do. He must completely trust HER. She has all the control. Third, when done right, with enthusiasm and skill, most men find it very very pleasurable.

Not all woman can deep throat and not all penises are designed to be deep throated. Some are just too long, or too big around. Some women can deep throat larger and/or longer erections, some penises are not long enough to deep throat or are simply too thick. Some are curved and some are too short. However, these are the exceptions. The vast majority of women can deep throat the vast majority of penises. The average erection is only 6 inches long and the average woman's mouth is 4 inches deep. So "deep" throat isn't very deep is it? It just takes practice and desire. And for some women, an empty stomach.

The real trick to becoming a deep throat expert is to learn to control your gag reflex. This takes is practice. You can practice on your man or you can practice in private. I chose the practicing in private method. I spent three weeks practicing and surprised my husband one night! If your intent is to surprise him with your new love making skill then private practice is a must. Otherwise, I doubt if he'd object to a few moments of "practice" every time you make love or every morning while he's listening to the traffic report on the clock radio.

I think that practicing on a dildo is the best idea for private instruction. Buy one that best resembles your man and is long enough to have a "handle". You don't want to swallow it and choke on it! If that's out of the question you can use two fingers or a toothbrush or a brush handle, so long as there are no sharp edges and there's a "handle" at one end, something you can hang on to.

Insert the dildo/erection into you mouth. Make lots of saliva to lubricate it. Slowly insert a bit more. Continue this until you trigger your gag reflex. Immediately pull the dildo/erection out and start again. This time concentrate on the feelings and physical reactions your body had when you triggered the gag reflex. You want to deliberately trigger your gag reflex so that you can learn what causes it, recognize it's warning signs and ultimately control it. The entire point to the exercise is for you to learn to recognize your body's natural reactions. By recognizing them you can control them.

If your man's length is average when erect you might be able to deep throat him at nearly any angle or position. However, you may find that a few positions work best for you. For example, if I tilt my head back slightly I can take more of him in. It puts my mouth and throat in line. You also have to be aware of any angle his erection might have. Practice different angles. It is also easier to learn if you control all the action. Make sure he lies, sits or stands STILL while you are learning ! An ill timed thrust can trigger your gag reflex.

Just practice a few times the first time. (I can't imagine a man who would not gladly let his lady take a few moment to practice on him! !) Gradually increase the number of times you insert the dildo/erection. Then gradually increase the depth of insertion. Continue to practice for several days or until you have complete control of your gag reflex and can easily insert the dildo/erection.

Keep his erection very wet with saliva. This is important! Saliva acts as a lubricant and makes deep throat a lot easier. A slick erection is less likely to trigger the gag reflex. You can even use a water based lubricant. I use one when I'm giving him prolonged fellatio.

Make sure he can watch. Men love to watch. If you can look him in the eyes as you fellate him do so! My first time was on my knees as he stood, next to the closet door mirror!

Breath control is very important. You need to learn to breathe in rhythm to the movement of his erection in and out of your throat. Holding your breath is helpful but if you do it too often you'll become tired. If you get too tired you could easily trigger your gag reflex.

Deep Throat Tricks.

Flatten your tongue to make your throat opening bigger. Practice with a mirror. Tease his erection with your tongue while its in your mouth. Press it against the roof of your mouth as it moves in and out. Try various suction pressures. Try various lip pressures, especially at the base of his erection when it's deep in your mouth. Press your lips hard around his base or rapidly press and release!

Advanced Deep Throat Tricks.

You can learn to swallow against the head of his erection. He'll go nuts. While its deep in your throat stick out your tongue to lick at his balls. This takes a lot of work but if you learn it he'll go nuts!

Head movements.

While he's deep in your throat twist your head from side to side as if saying "no" or shake it as if saying "yes" or twirl it around as if you were stirring a pot. - Let him slide his erection slowly into your throat. - With his erection in your throat rise up slightly and push down causing the head pop in and out of your throat. Repeat as long as you can hold your breath.

Very Advanced Tricks.

As you get better you can actually deep throat him fast. Which brings us to another point. Letting him control the action. My husband thoroughly enjoys pushing his own erection deep into my mouth, all the way in and repeatedly. Talk about up close and personal! I find this intimacy to be extremely erotic especially i if he has his orgasm. Swallow against his head as he has his orgasm. Here are a few helpful hints:

• Make noises... sigh, moan, and so on. Let him know you're having fun too!

• Lots of saliva makes it easier to deep throat. It acts as lubricant.
Drooling is okay, honest. - Slurp! Slurp your saliva. He'll go nuts!

• Deep throat is also a good way to avoid tasting his semen if you
find the flavor unpleasant.

One trick I like to do is deep throat him with a long slow swallow, sucking at different pressures, pleasuring him with my tongue in various ways, until my chin or nose is pressing up against his pubic bone, my head twisting this way and that, then raise up quickly, masturbate him for several hard and fast strokes, then slowly swallow him all over again. I can keep this up for some time and keep him at the edge of orgasm for along time. Just as he is about to ejaculate I plunge down on him, fast and repeatedly, often in rhythm with his frenzied thrusts!

Semen is not a bodily waste like urine or feces. It's no more bodily waste than saliva which you exchange freely when you kiss, or your own vaginal juices, which he loves to lap up! (Lucky you!!) It's a product of creation, of the act of making love. It's a good thing, not a bad thing. Many men consider it a gift of their sexual love. It is primarily protein, but it has very little of that in it. It has some trace minerals and vitamins. Most men ejaculate about half a tablespoon's worth. Some men ejaculate more and others less. Many factors affect volume including age, frequency of his orgasms, health, and individual genetic physical differences. A vasectomy will not affect the volume. Stimulation several times over a period of several hours that brings him near to the point of orgasm can double the volume. Keep in mind that his semen is part of HIS orgasm, his sexual pleasure with you and for you. You can't reject part of his sexual pleasure without affecting other aspects of it. To reject IT is to reject him.

Semen Flavor.

One woman asked me what it tasted like and after a moment of contemplation I said, "Semen!" The flavor of his semen is generally a minor problem as it is something he has control over. He is what he eats, after all. If he deeply desires to ejaculate in your mouth then he needs to make an honest effort to change the taste of his semen if you find it unpleasant. Some men have naturally bitter tasting semen. Most men can reduce the bitterness, the saltiness with a dietary change. Some men's semen can become "sweet", even become a flavor that you learn to like and associate with sexuality and sexiness. But, most men have to work hard and honestly to arrive at that point. You, and your willingness to give him an orgasm using your mouth, lips and tongue are his greatest motivation!

Food culprits.

Caffeine, (coffee, soft drinks, tea), asparagus, broccoli, red meat, cheese, animal fat, spicy foods, sometimes nuts, or some multivitamins and medicines can affect the taste of semen. So can some illnesses.

Food helpers.

Lots of water, pineapple juice (or similar tropical fruit juices), acidic fruits, fruit in general, more vegetables, sweets, sometimes alcohol, sometimes celery, sometimes vitamin E. He should drink water as his beverage of choice.

Pay attention to what he eats. For example, asparagus can make the semen of some men taste horrible. A moderate amount of alcohol or sweets can improve the flavor. Celery works on some men and has an adverse affect on others. The benefits to changing his diet: he gets to receive fellatio to orgasm from the woman he loves and he becomes a healthier man!

You can keep a carafe of water on the night stand to swallow away the after taste. Some women use flavored oils. Some like the effect of breath mints. You may also want to make sure you have a mouth full of saliva as it can dilute the intensity of the flavor of his semen when he ejaculates.

Semen is an acquired taste. Even if he alters his diet resulting in semen that is much less bitter it will still taste like semen.

"It feels icky!"

If you think that his semen is icky feeling, try to grow accustomed to it by touching it in small quantities. Take your time over a period of weeks if need be, until you are comfortable handling it. One women I know used baby oil to start, just a table spoon's worth, then tried egg whites and finally moved on to handle her husband's semen without a feeling of "ickiness".

Semen Play.

Or, "Fun Things To Do With Semen That Will Cause Him To Believe That You Are The Greatest Fellatrix In the Universe! Or, How to Get Him to Buy You That Mercedes!"

Your man may like to see you playing with his semen, swirling it with your tongue, licking your fingers clean and so on. If you enjoy the flavor of his semen or at least find it tolerable there are many ways you can "blow" his mind by playing with it and consuming it. Be creative, be open to suggestions. Have a good time being a sexually confident woman.

Do's and Don'ts.

Never spit it out, never run to the bathroom screaming "ICK!" Never wipe it out of your mouth with a tissue or the bed sheet; never grab the bottle of mouthwash and start to gargle. In other words, never do anything that might cause him to think that his semen is causing you pain or a great deal of discomfort. There is one very rare exception though.... some women are allergic to it.

There are many things you can do with his ejaculate that will make even the most renowned porn starlets look like rank amateurs or overpaid prima donnas. The most important factor is to be enthusiastic for his orgasm if you are fellating him with the intention of giving him an orgasm with your mouth.

Most men are very content to simply see their lover swallow their semen, to hear her gulp it down, to see her lick her lips, her fingers and to continue to fellate him until he is soft or hard again ready for more loving. This is the simplest thing you can do.

However if you are feeling brave or particularly randy or exceptionally naughty or want to blow his mind away you may want to try some of these ideas:

• He may like to see it shoot into your mouth. Hold your mouth open, your tongue out and catch his orgasm. Before you swallow it play with it using your fingers or your tongue. Show it to him on your tongue. Make a show of swallowing it.
• He may like to see it dribbling out of your mouth running down your chin. Rub it into your skin.
• He may like to see you scoop it up off your cheeks and lips with your fingers and eat it up.
• Or use a spoon! Better yet, have him use the spoon to feed it to you!
• If you are sitting astride him get off and finish him with your mouth or get off of him after he had his orgasm and clean him up with your mouth.
• Tell him to pull out and ejaculate all over you or on your face, or pussy or breasts. Scoop it up with your fingers and lick them clean. If you wear glasses lick your glasses clean.
• Tell him to pull out and ejaculate into your hand. Then let it flow from your hand into your mouth. Finish by licking your fingers clean.
• After he ejaculates in you reach down and pull some out with your fingers and lick them clean or have him use a spoon to fed it to you.
• Have him ejaculate into a wine glass and drink his cum down or use a straw to slurp it up!
• If you like peaches or kiwi or strawberries keep a small bowl or plate handy with a small amount of your favorite fruit on it. Have him ejaculate onto the fruit so you can eat it up.
• Have him ejaculate onto your labia and lick it up himself and then share it with you.

There are so many many things you can do. Use your imagination. Be creative. Have fun!

I didn't become an expert fellatrix over night. I figure that it took me about five years to learn most everything I know about fellatio, yet I always look for new ways to pleasure him and manage to find some from time to time. Last year, I learned a game using cherry juice. I just recently learned about "Altoids" mints!

There are many ways for your man to tell you what he likes. Talking is the most effective. But don't be afraid to use porno tapes or written works like "Forum" magazine. The goal is for you to learn how to pleasure him. Or just start fellating him and pay attention to his reactions.

Good Luck!

virgins6 57M/62F

7/19/2005 5:00 pm

Great guide to doing what I love best - deep throating! One more erotic suggestion - with a bi partner - male or female - take turns sucking on a penis, or kiss, suck and lick at the same time - mmmmmm


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