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What I miss most!  

wantitindeep
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4/22/2009 7:32 pm
 I finally know what I miss most about being in a abandoned relationship.
Cuddles!
The feeling of snuggling into someones chest & breathing in their smell, as they envelope you in their arms.
You can loose yourself in a feeling of being totally wanted by another person.
You can get used to living without sex & being kissed, but you can never really live without a hug!
It really does make the world disappear.
It can make you happy, when you're sad.
It can make you feel safe, when you're feeling scared.
It can make you strong, when you're feeling weak.
It can calm you down, when you're feeling angry.
It can make you warm, when you're feeling cold.
A cuddle is so much more than you realize.
It's only when you are deprived of them, that you get a sense of just how much they really means to you!
Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!
jimjoejim
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4/23/2009 3:21 am

 Hi T,

You are so right.

It is the little things you miss.

Sitting close together on the couch and watching the TV.

Sharing a joke, discussing the day and, of course, the physical closeness of someone who wants to be with you.

Jim

andyc188
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4/23/2009 2:57 pm

 How true. X

marysia4u
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4/24/2009 12:11 am

 Going to start crying soon.
In the same boat as you.
Oh what I would give for a meaning full cuddle.

satsub
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4/27/2009 1:23 pm

 Hello

Awww, big hugs and cuddles to you babes



satsub
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4/27/2009 1:26 pm

 Oh, and to you too marysia4u

wantitindeep
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4/27/2009 11:00 pm
    Quoting loadrunner2020:
    Yup ! I can relate to that one also ! Us men have a gentle side and miss the simple things in a relationship which can inadvertantley be taken for granted from time to time.

    For me it is mental stimulation through good conversation that i probably miss the most along with the kisses and cuddles. After all let's face it sex isn't the most important ingredient in a relationship !It's a key issue but not the main issue as it's all the little things within the relationship which build the bigger picture.

    I prefer a relationship built on friendship first where the connection is mentally formed before the physical stuff starts ! After all a relationship built on lust rarely lasts and fizzles out over time. If the mental connection there then the pressure that sex can bring is more of a relaxing feature.

    I wish that i'd grown up sooner rather than later to realise the difference between sex and making love ! sex..well anybody can do that as it doesn't involve much feeling or emotion ! it's just two people who want it for their own gratification rather than thinking about what the other person really wants! Making love however, is a whole lot different ! Because it involves two like minded people who both have strong emotional feelings toward one another and who give themselves totally to each other.

    So yes ! there are so people out there both men and women who will probably relate to this and agree with Wantitindeep and I have said...because the two comments together form the basis of what we all take for granted whenin a relationship.

    End of for me!
Men can also take women for granted from time to time as well!
I can go for days without talking to my partner, or more the fact, that he wont speak to me, so I guess it's kind of the same.
I'm already living without the mental or physical stimulation, but the missing hugs, hurts the most!
Sex is defiantly a different kettle of fish to making love.
But at the moment either would be nice!
Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!

wantitindeep
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4/27/2009 11:02 pm
    Quoting jimjoejim:
    Hi T,

    You are so right.

    It is the little things you miss.

    Sitting close together on the couch and watching the TV.

    Sharing a joke, discussing the day and, of course, the physical closeness of someone who wants to be with you.

    Jim
Life's shit without that special someone in it to make our lives complete!
Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!

wantitindeep
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4/27/2009 11:05 pm

 Never a truer word spoken!
Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!

wantitindeep
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4/27/2009 11:07 pm
    Quoting marysia4u:
    Going to start crying soon.
    In the same boat as you.
    Oh what I would give for a meaning full cuddle.
You've had a few more than me recently, but I know what you mean!
Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!

wantitindeep
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4/27/2009 11:09 pm
    Quoting satsub:
    Hello

    Awww, big hugs and cuddles to you babes



Thanks, I feel a little better already & so will marysia4u!
Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!

wantitindeep
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4/29/2009 9:32 am
    Quoting itsmehurrahxxxx:
    Hey T (and maria)

    As always big cuddles from me too! Hope the hairs don't tickle your nose too much
    xxxx
I wont mind a bit.
Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!

NotSoDarkKnight
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5/7/2009 6:33 am

 A cuddle, a kiss...it's the intimacy we miss.
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wantitindeep
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5/7/2009 7:33 am

 Not only the intimacy, it's more a feeling of being wanted.
Life isn't about how many breaths you take, but about the moments that take your breath away!

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